# Hey everybody! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 18, 2011, 3:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everybody/50360 "2011-05-18T03:34:23Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![chandi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/779978/32.png) [@chandi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chandi)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 3:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everybody/50360/1 "2011-05-18T03:34:23Z")
Pretty, sexxy passible crossdresser here, looking for ways 'mones might help me feel more confident and sexxy! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![chandi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/779978/32.png) [@chandi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chandi)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 3:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everybody/50360/2 "2011-05-18T03:35:55Z")
Forgot to mention. I’m from Missouri, I’m in my mid 30s. Sometimes I’m the life of the party. Sometimes I’m quiet in the corner. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 4:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everybody/50360/3 "2011-05-18T04:39:57Z")
Hi there chandi aren’t you a mix of contradictions! Sometimes the life of the party and sometimes the quiet one in the corner. Would that happen to depend upon the quantity of alcohol in you?! 😛 Now, in order for us to point you in the right direction to mones, we will need a bit more info from you. Your personality, maybe likes and dislikes and who you’ll be using the mones on… who is your target(s)? Here is some help on what the admins would like to see in an intro. Check out the link below: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) Welcome to the mone forum! . ---
**Author:** ![chandi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/779978/32.png) [@chandi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chandi)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 5:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everybody/50360/4 "2011-05-18T05:13:07Z")
Sorry, I posted a thread first about how I was hoping 'mones could help me…I will repeat the info here, however. I’m a pretty mid 30’s crossdresser. I feel like I have gotten pretty adept at makeup, and can pull off a good number of foxy looks. However, when dressed I’m very self conscious, and I’m looking for some suggestions towards 'mones that can help me to feel more feminine and sexy and outgoing. Maybe a little ditzy and spacy. Can’t afford to try a lot of different ones, like to find a nice mix that will make me more attractive and feminine when out dressed. Something to push me just to the other side of the gender line! I’m very much visually attracted to femme girls and tgirls, and would like to feel like one/attract the same. Also interested in seeing the self effects! ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2011, 5:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everybody/50360/5 "2011-05-18T05:18:02Z")
Basically, I’d suggest IS/b. When I’ve tried it, I get a softness about me, almost a ditzy feel to it. My wife uses it but I’ve ‘tested’ it out on me… I also think that IO in high amounts or [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) in higher quantities, like getting the X2 of them with several sprays will get you to the spacy feeling… not only on you, but those around you… I hope that helps in your quest for the ‘right’ mones! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 10:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everybody/50360/6 "2011-05-19T22:36:41Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Chandi! I am sorry but I am not sure if you are male or female. We use [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)/b to make us feel confident and to give off that soft, sweet vibe. The guys use Ammunition to give a confidence boast and to give off a strong , masculine vibe. Sorry, not too familiar with cross dressers but do this, post your situation and what you want in both the female and male section to get both perceptive before ordering. I am sure we will find something that will work wonders for you **Your gc was issued! 😉**