# Hey everybody! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 27, 2013, 10:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everybody/59114 "2013-05-27T10:21:21Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![xemnas121](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/b9e5f3/32.png) [@xemnas121](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xemnas121)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2013, 10:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everybody/59114/1 "2013-05-27T10:21:21Z")
Hey everyone, I am very to new to [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/), and after reading various posts on this site, it seems very interesting and I would like to give it a try. I am 20 years old, a fairly confident guy and pretty average looking. I would like something to really give me that extra level of confidence/alpha though. I feel as if I come off to others as just a nice, friendly, beta guy. I lift weights, go to uni, have a job as a waiter at a restaurant, and also am a tutor, where I am pretty close to women. I like going out to various social events as well, where there are a lot of girls who are young like me. Specifically, I want to come off as attractive/fun/confident alpha male to girls who are in the 18-21 age range. If there is something out there that can even give me self-effects for increased confidence, that would be a plus because I am not good at approaching women, but once I start talking to them everything is fine. Thanks a lot guys. -Xemnas ---
**Author:** ![GabRulez](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gabrulez/32/394_2.png) [@GabRulez](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GabRulez)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2013, 12:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everybody/59114/2 "2013-05-27T12:10:22Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk! This is a common situation. To get the Alpha status you want, there is 2 product that you can try. Instant Gentlemen is the softer one. It Increase confidence, makes you a little more serious and also create a respect environement around you. There is also A314, oil based with longer diffusion, it does all the same effects but it’s more powerful. With A314 you get the intimidating factor wich you don’t get with Gentlemen. For engaging conversations, some products in the social line such as [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) , Instant Shine and AMMO are very useful. Openness make conversations easier for both sides and makes people chattier. Instant shine makes you and people around you very happy and confident wich is good for talking. And AMMO is a balanced product with social and sexual pheromones wich makes the best product for breaking the ice. If you want to gain confident boost and feel sexy, this is the right product for you. It’s up to you! - Gab - ---
**Author:** ![xemnas121](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/b9e5f3/32.png) [@xemnas121](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xemnas121)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2013, 12:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everybody/59114/3 "2013-05-27T12:38:24Z")
> [@GabRulez](#): > > Welcome to Pherotalk! > > This is a common situation. To get the Alpha status you want, there is 2 product that you can try. Instant Gentlemen is the softer one. It Increase confidence, makes you a little more serious and also create a respect environement around you. There is also A314, oil based with longer diffusion, it does all the same effects but it’s more powerful. With A314 you get the intimidating factor wich you don’t get with Gentlemen. For engaging conversations, some products in the social line such as Instant Openness , Instant Shine and AMMO are very useful. Openness make conversations easier for both sides and makes people chattier. Instant shine makes you and people around you very happy and confident wich is good for talking. And AMMO is a balanced product with social and sexual pheromones wich makes the best product for breaking the ice. If you want to gain confident boost and feel sexy, this is the right product for you. It’s up to you! > > - Gab - Thanks for the reply! I’m going to look more into A314, as I have read other’s feedback about it and sounds right for me. Can you tell me more about A314 and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), and is it suitable for my age and the age range of women I am trying to attract? Also, how does the $25 dollar thing work? I would like to get started as soon as possible. If anyone else has any input, that would be great. Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![GabRulez](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gabrulez/32/394_2.png) [@GabRulez](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GabRulez)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2013, 5:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everybody/59114/4 "2013-05-27T17:28:52Z")
A314 is hard to deal with younger people. It can highly intimidate young people around and younger women may badly react. For smoother effects, Instant Gentlement is more friendly and does not have the intimidating effect. With a oil based product, you need a higher body temperature to activate diffusion. Hot weather and sweat helps. If you are in a cold climate, alcohol based product might be better. If naturally you have leadership, you are confident and mentally strong, A314 might be for you. Some people are not able to wear it at first and others can perfectly handle it. A good thing about A314, is the mixing possibilities. You can make itmore friendly by adding a shot of AMMO or [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). While A314 slowy diffuse, you get a strong effect from the Instant product and it helps to calibrate the projected effects. Instant Shine is ‘‘Joy in a bottle’’. Instant effects as soon as you apply it, it make the wearer happy instantly. This product is the most polyvalent one and can be mixed with almost everything since it has one simple effect, making people happy. But it also has 1 negative point, just like caffeine, you can crash if you apply too much of it. At start when I started using it, I had those crashes and started to get mad and tired after 4 hours, but naturally I developped a natural resistance to those crash. When people are skeptical, I always recommend them to try Instant Shine first because it has the most obvious self effects. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2013, 9:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everybody/59114/5 "2013-05-29T09:54:36Z")
Hi and welcome to the mone forum! 🙂 Great to see that you’re clear with your intentions with the mones. From your post, this is one of your goals. “I want to come off as attractive/fun/confident alpha male to girls who are in the 18-21 age range” For this, and at your age, I would use AMMO, Summer Edition, or AMMO, regular strength. AMMO puts out a vibe of a confident, sexy guy here. With the SE, you also get TAA in it, which is the primary component of IShine and puts a friendly and fun vibe to the sexy guy vibe. It’s a complete product and would do what you intend quite effective. Along with this vibe, you’re attitude and actions must show the same as the mones vibes to REALLY tweak the mones to get the most out of them as a tool! There are other ‘tools’ that you can use, mones that could help with Confidence and Respect like A314. You’d have to really guide that vibe to the sexy and fun. However, YOU will need to do more of the ‘lifting’ with your attitude to get to sexy and fun, as the Confidence and Respect would be easier with A314. Where will you be using these mones? 1Alpha . ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2013, 2:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everybody/59114/6 "2013-05-29T14:26:02Z")
Welcome Xemnas, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving pheromones a chance. Your gc was issued!