# Hey Everyone, New User Here **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 9, 2009, 9:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everyone-new-user-here/29744 "2009-06-09T21:39:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![ArtVandelay](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ea666f/32.png) [@ArtVandelay](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ArtVandelay)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 9:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everyone-new-user-here/29744/1 "2009-06-09T21:39:40Z")
Hello everyone! I had never heard of pheromones before a few hours ago when I just happened to see an add about a [pheromone product](https://a314.com/shop/) on yahoo finance. I was immediately interested, but I’m the type of person who likes to read everything they possibly can about something before buying/trying it and I’m extremely skeptical of claims made on websites that are selling something. So as you can imagine I was quite happy to find this forum and I have spent the past few hours reading everything I can on here instead of doing work like I’m supposed to be =P Anyway I figured it’s about time for me to post and introduce myself. My name is Matt and I’m from Pennsylvania and if you couldn’t tell from my username I’m a big seinfeld fan. I am a very fun and outgoing guy and I rarely have trouble approaching women and starting a conversation, but I can never seem to sexually escalate and as a result I am really good friends with a whole lot of great girls and I have never had sex. There’s nothing wrong with me, I’m relatively attractive and in very good shape, it’s just psychological issue. So obviously you can see why I would be interested in pheromones. I have no doubt that with some work I can achieve the results I want without them (and I have been doing better lately), but why not use the help if it’s there? So I ordered my first bottle of Ammo today and am very excited to get it and try it out. What I would really like though is to be able to start a relationship with one of the girls that I’m really close friends with now. I think that at this point she doesn’t see me as sexually attractive and I am hoping that pheramones might be able to help with that. It’s not the end of the world if it doesn’t happen, I know there are plenty of other fish in the sea, but it’s worth a shot and I would definitely appreciate any advice you guys have for me about the situation. That’s it for now. Thanks for all the great information posted here! - Matt ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 9:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everyone-new-user-here/29744/2 "2009-06-09T21:59:34Z")
Hi Matt! Welcome to the forum! Thanks for the great info, too. For your needs I would definitely start with Ammo, which is a great all around product that will give both your confidence and your sex appeal a boost, and can be worn in any envoronment. To get past that “friend” stage, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) can help. It will add intimacy and depth to conversations, and people will open up to you more. Once you get past that, and things become a bit sexually charged, Turn Up The Heat will help get things to the next level. I hope this helps, and please ask if you have any questions! Sillykitty ---
**Author:** ![TheCentaur](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ea5d25/32.png) [@TheCentaur](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheCentaur)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 10:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everyone-new-user-here/29744/3 "2009-06-09T22:15:09Z")
also… since you are good at reading and looking, check out the reasons why you are only getting ‘friends’ instead of lovers: > [@Beta androstenol , who is rich in it?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/beta-androstenol-who-is-rich-in-it/26603): > > can anyone tell me who is naturally producing large amounts of this, and how do we know? i tried doing some research online but i feel my odds are better here. i understand androstenol is found in fresh male sweat. do women produce any naturally? i dug up all kinds of info on men,not so much women. good to have you aboard. I’m currently testing CTTM2, a mix that seems similar to Instant Honesty and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). either way it goes, the pheros that kitty pointed out are really good starters, especially for finding your ‘sweet spot’ of reactions, and verify that they actually DO work. please read the thread “what pheros can and cannot do”, as well ---
**Author:** ![DanMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e495f1/32.png) [@DanMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DanMan)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 10:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everyone-new-user-here/29744/4 "2009-06-09T22:45:47Z")
Hey Art, Welcome to the forum! I’m sure you will enjoy experimenting with the pheros. You seem to have picked the right weapon for the job so the main thing is finding your sweet spot and working with it. There are some really great posts in the mens Mens section explaining everything: > [@Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168): > > Revised for 2010/11 Common question thread [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43012](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43012) Ok I had to put the guide in this section of the forum because the men’s have way to many stickies now and I didn’t want to add another there. So anyways I got quite a few requests to do a men’s guide and I am flattered but want you to all know upfront that without all the wonderful postings on pheromones by the experienced men I would never been abl… Good Luck with it all! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2009, 3:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-everyone-new-user-here/29744/5 "2009-06-10T15:30:37Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk ArtVandelay! Yes, it was definitely time you introduced yourself and we are happy you did. 🙂 There are so many things to consider when dealing with a situation like yours. A woman can put a guy in the friends zone for many reasons and most of the time is because she sees him as too sweet to have a raw passionate relationship with. Instant honesty is a good product to start of with and it’s not a must because I think you already have a good trustworthy relationship with this girl. Ammunition is a sexually,subtle pheromones that is another good started to give of that sexual vibe and make you feel confident. When you want to take things to the next level I suggest as sillykitty did that you use [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) or Instant Jerk. There is more to pheromones than just the spray and that is why I suggest you go to the men’s section of the forum and get some advice on your situation. Your GC is on it’s way!