Hello knightman11
Great for you to decide to join this forum & your interest in the pheros here 
So i see you have done some research there too
Ok here is my recommendation Instant Openness & Instant Shine & Instant Honesty for your situation. So i see that you have an interest in A314 & Turn Up The Heat well for Turn Up The Heat is it for relationship & A314 is it for work?
I got two good links that will be very useful to you to check on> mens pheromone guide\ (Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15) & What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated]( What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers )