Hello Aoes,
Welcome to the forum.
Its good to see you are doing some looking around. You seem to know what you are looking for, and the members before me have made some great suggestions.
Considering your age, race, and relationship status, I would suggest you read the journal I posted below.
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The man has done a ton of research that may be useful to you. He is one of the best reporters on the forum.
Hope to see you around.
Again, welcome