Hi zen78 & nice to have you as a member of Pherotalk 
Congrats on making your purchase on all the togos Well my best recommendation for your situation is AMMO + Instant Openness + Instant Shine. Btw what strength did you get 1x or 2x? Anyway if you wish to know more info about the pheros here click on this link> Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15
I wish you all the best in testing out the pheros. See ya
P.S. I will be back to check this intro & try my best to answer any question