# hey friends, new user to the forum and pheromones **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 7, 2009, 6:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-friends-new-user-to-the-forum-and-pheromones/32255 "2009-09-07T18:38:38Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![thisistheendgame](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thisistheendgame/32/1651_2.png) [@thisistheendgame](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thisistheendgame)\ **Post date:** [September 7, 2009, 6:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-friends-new-user-to-the-forum-and-pheromones/32255/1 "2009-09-07T18:38:38Z")
hey guys, I just signed up to learn more about pheromones and how they work. i’ve been lurking on the boards recently, reading some threads trying to get myself familiar with how everything works and operates. a bit about myself and what I hope to gain from pheromones…i’m in my early 20s, still a virgin, not really good with girls, not really great with people early on…i have a bit of a social anxiety that prevents me with connecting with people sometimes. i’m kinda at a state of unease and nervousness when in social situations with people I don’t know. i think once the ice is eventually broken between myself and someone else, my true personality comes out and people like me…its just getting over that initial hump of trying to talk to someone I don’t know. I was looking at some of the smartmones products, and reading on the forums what products would be best to help me out. i’ve decided on ordering a bottle of Instant Openess, and Instant Gentleman…but before I order, I seek some advice from all of you if thats the best way to go. the Instant Openess is so people might feel more inclined to start a conversation with me (and i’ve noticed that i can carry a conversation easier if someone else starts it with me)…i was also hoping that the phermones might effect me as well, and make me more willing to talk to strangers and such. the Instant Gentleman is mainly because between the friends I have, i’m often the butt of jokes and such…nothing mean-spirited, but i’ve always wanted to be looked in a more serious and respectful light. I was also looking at the A314, but from what I read it’s a bit more for serious enviorments…i want respect, but I dont want to seem unapproachable. also, i would plan on wearing IG at work…my workplace is a bit more light-hearted and fun as compared to a serious office vibe, so i figured A314 might be too much. I was also contemplating trying out a TO-GO bottle of Spaceland…i’m hesitant because it’s a test mix, and obviously i’m not familiar with pheromones enough to really be messing with experimental stuff…but from what i read, it just sounds so damn fun to use, and i think it might work with the IO and IG to help me better relax and open up to people. should i give some a try, or am I jumping the gun too early on that? and one final question (sorry for the really long post, lol) is about the smell of this stuff…now, i’m not a guy that really wears cologne, so i don’t really have anything to cover the pheromones with. i understand that most of them are lightly scented, and i’m just wondering how strong that scent is. i work with a group of guys in a workshop, and i figured if i wore some of this stuff there (for the respect thing and such) and they smelled cologne on me, it might look a little weird. are these scents light enough to where most people won’t smell them on me unless they come really close? i’ve read on the main site that it compares to the strength of body wash or shampoo, which i’m comfortable with. i just hope it’s not as strong-smelling as cologne. i’m not sure if i want to smell like citris orange all day LOL whew…lol…well, thanks guys for helping me out and i look forward to more posting and trying of the [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![MuskCloud](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f07891/32.png) [@MuskCloud](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MuskCloud)\ **Post date:** [September 7, 2009, 6:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-friends-new-user-to-the-forum-and-pheromones/32255/2 "2009-09-07T18:50:47Z")
Hi, welcome to Pherotalk. Instant Openness and [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) would be the perfect choice for you, I think. But bear in mind that Spaceland absolutely reeks of a very strong herbal mix. If you’re not the type that wears cologne, you may find it unbearable if you can’t cover it and there’s not much that can cover something as strong as Spaceland. The Instant line doesn’t smell bad. The neroli does die down after a while and becomes like a citrus scented body wash or shampoo. After 4 or 5 hours, I can’t smell it at all. That’s my excuse now, if anyone asks what I’m wearing. Many popular body washes for men are mint or citrus scented. Musk ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [September 7, 2009, 7:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-friends-new-user-to-the-forum-and-pheromones/32255/3 "2009-09-07T19:42:25Z")
Welcome to the forum. You made some great choices, based on your goals. Good research! Spaceland is based on the same [pheromone](https://a314.com/) as io, so you can probably do without that on your first order. It does have a strong smell too, as mentioned above. You might give ih a try in addition to the products you’ve already chosen. ---
**Author:** ![Aggie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f07891/32.png) [@Aggie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aggie)\ **Post date:** [September 7, 2009, 8:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-friends-new-user-to-the-forum-and-pheromones/32255/4 "2009-09-07T20:12:47Z")
Great choices! A314 is better then IG, though. Def get instant shine, even if you dont think you need it, its good to have that around to put on. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![reddog](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reddog/32/2091_2.png) [@reddog](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/reddog)\ **Post date:** [September 7, 2009, 9:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-friends-new-user-to-the-forum-and-pheromones/32255/5 "2009-09-07T21:44:02Z")
Instant Shine (2x concentration) well help with your social anxiety and get you in a feel good .. talkative mood, Instant Openness (2x) will get the people around you chatty, and [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) will garner a bit of respect and make you seem more mature and give you a cool vibe. Welcome to the forum. The neroli scent really smells nice and is not overbearing. ---
**Author:** ![hohohate](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hohohate/32/2429_2.png) [@hohohate](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hohohate)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2009, 2:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-friends-new-user-to-the-forum-and-pheromones/32255/6 "2009-09-08T02:40:14Z")
Hey! and welcome to the fun! ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2009, 2:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-friends-new-user-to-the-forum-and-pheromones/32255/7 "2009-09-08T02:59:05Z")
Welcome to the forums… If you’re the butt of jokes, I’d seriously consider getting some different friends who respect you in the first place. The pheros may help, but it may take time for that to happen. You may also be doing something which is causing them to treat you in that way; reacting to the jokes in a way that encourages them. When they do something you don’t like, ignore it or otherwise withdraw attention. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2009, 8:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-friends-new-user-to-the-forum-and-pheromones/32255/8 "2009-09-08T20:12:43Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. Currently we are in the process of seeking out an additional forum Host or two to help with the upkeep of the forum. With that in mind I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![thisistheendgame](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thisistheendgame/32/1651_2.png) [@thisistheendgame](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thisistheendgame)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2009, 11:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-friends-new-user-to-the-forum-and-pheromones/32255/9 "2009-09-08T23:59:34Z")
thanks for the warm welcomes and all the help guys. and thanks to steve for the GC, which i will be using towards an order of IO (2x), IS (2x) and IG…i’m wicked excited to try these out and i’m very hopeful that they’ll give me a step foward in helping me to break out of my shell. ---
**Author:** ![bbgbeard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/db5fbb/32.png) [@bbgbeard](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bbgbeard)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2009, 8:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-friends-new-user-to-the-forum-and-pheromones/32255/10 "2009-09-12T20:43:18Z")
hi i am a 16 year old senior in palm desert CA my freind told me about your site and i desided to have my uncle buy me some of ur product it seems amzing. will this stuff help me get a gf? will this product make me get over my fear of talking to girls? i am very exited to use this product i will be a life long user of this for sure 😃 hope to get a discount my first time thanks