# Hey From KC **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 13, 2011, 11:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-from-kc/49856 "2011-04-13T23:07:38Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![hightj](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/5fc32e/32.png) [@hightj](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hightj)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2011, 11:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-from-kc/49856/1 "2011-04-13T23:07:38Z")
Hello, I’m a 20 year old guy going to University in Kansas City, and working a job at a manufacturing plant during the evening hours. I pretty much want to feel more respected and attract more ladies! Sometimes I sense other guys trying to dominate and domineer me in conversation. It kinda pisses me off. I’m a nice guy, mind my own business, but hate being looked down on by people twice my size. Got anything for that? Jesse H ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2011, 12:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-from-kc/49856/2 "2011-04-14T00:13:31Z")
Hey Jesse welcome! Yeah back in the day I would sometimes be the butt of a joke if you know what I mean and I found that using instant gentleman gave me a bit more confidence around those situations. If someone dares to try that, it usually gives me that extra edge to come back with something witty. At the same time I think you could use that IG with some success with the ladies. It will help you connect with a trusting and value adding comforting vibe. What could really add to it is getting some instant shine and or instant openness. Instantshine helps build a positive likeable aura around you while instant openness encourages lots of conversation. Some can recommend getting ammo for a social sexy vibe but at a younger age your body is already producing a lot of what makes ammo sexy, and too much of it can be irritating for others. So its up to you, but I belive IG would be a better choice for your needs. Be sure to check out the mens section and other peoples feedback on what worked for them! ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2011, 5:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-from-kc/49856/3 "2011-04-14T05:36:06Z")
Hi and welcome to the mone forum! You know, hightj, what the twisted ostrich is what I first thought about when you mentioned you being put down by other guys. IG is a cool guy vibe, I get a boost in confidence. However, the signal provide by IG needs to be followed through by your own attitude and actions. Fortunately, IG normally has a self effect of being confident. This will help in boosting that attitude in yourself. Depending on how you act, I’d also say that [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) can be used as a confidence boost along with others feeling comfortable to be around you. So this will also be attractive to ladies as well. Take a look at my sig below, both Steve O’s Intro to Mones thread and Tisha’s how to tell what are Hits from the mones come in very handy when using mones for the first time. Though Steve’s is a bit long, it is very thorough!!! 🙂 Check on ya later!! ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2011, 5:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-from-kc/49856/4 "2011-04-14T17:01:09Z")
Hi thanks for joining PheroTalk. In normal situations Mickaelia, one of our forum hosts, would stop by and personally welcome you and offer [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) advice, but she has been out all week. I’m sorry that nobody else from the company has been able to swing by and welcome you properly and offer you personalized assistance. I’ve been doing my job and Mickaelia’s for the past four days and I guess everybody else was just to busy to help out ☹. With that said I totally appreciate your patience in this matter. While it would have been super-awesome for others to step up to the plate and offer assistance, it didn’t happen for whatever reason. Please do not let this influence you as to the community we actually are. I’m just super glad, as always we have such a great member community who are always available to help guide you. I really wish I could offer some personalized assistance but there is just to much to do. The good news is, that I am issuing your Gift Certificate to your registered email in just a little while. I have one of the busiest PM boxes on the forum and asking for personalized help via PM, will just be met with a reply to post it on the forum. It’s not that I don’t want to help you, but I simply don’t have the time to answer PM’s and still help people on the forum. I totally appreciate your patience and understanding, but I didn’t want to leave our newest community members waiting in the wings. I’m just glad I was able to step up to the plate myself and at least keep you informed of this situation 🙂. Welcome to PheroTalk