Pheromones are a great attractant, and can open some doors for you, but walking through them is your responsibility. Pheros are not going to make you more mature and responsible. That part is up to you.
I am encouraged to hear about the steps you’re taking to straighten out your life. Seems like we all needed to go through a phase of crazy partying and living it up, but people are so much more interesting once they settle down and become who they really are, living their destiny.
Ammo is the go-to product for a lot of guys. I’m sorry that you’re not seeing results from it as much as you’d like to. Perhaps it’s your dosage or application points that need rethinking. Try this thread for some tips:
It can take a little time to find your sweet spot (optimum dosage) and it’s best done methodically. Try one spray each day for a couple of days before you increase to 2 sprays, etc.
Best of luck experimenting!