# Hey from the bay! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 5, 2010, 9:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-from-the-bay/40597 "2010-08-05T21:55:15Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![LostMagic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/d07c76/32.png) [@LostMagic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LostMagic)\ **Post date:** [August 5, 2010, 9:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-from-the-bay/40597/1 "2010-08-05T21:55:15Z")
Greetings people of PheroTalk! Hey, I’m 19 years old and I’m from San jose, Cali. I came across this website when I overheard people talk about pheromones cologne they used that helped them pick up women. When I went home I did alot of research about and I came across this site. Although I haven’t purchased any PheroCologne yet, I plan on doing so soon. I’m a nice guy and I currently really like this girl. She’s really nice to me and I’ve been wondering if any of these pheromones will help us get closer. I’ve been planning to purchase IO and A314. But before I start making decisions I got to have answers for my questions. **My questions;** Will the use of IO make her trust me more? And IO and A314 sound almost the same. What’s the difference? ---
**Author:** ![gigs3354](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/54ee81/32.png) [@gigs3354](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/gigs3354)\ **Post date:** [August 5, 2010, 10:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-from-the-bay/40597/2 "2010-08-05T22:13:31Z")
welcome to the forums! To start off A314 really gives off an alpha male vibe. It helps with respect from men and makes you look like a high powered executive or ceo. If you look on the forums you will see that it has its own private section. I would say they are very different. Instant openness helps the person open up more and feel comfortable talking with you. You should also take a look at instant honesty too if you want to get closer with this girl ---
**Author:** ![LostMagic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/d07c76/32.png) [@LostMagic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LostMagic)\ **Post date:** [August 5, 2010, 10:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-from-the-bay/40597/3 "2010-08-05T22:18:03Z")
So, are you saying I should just try Instant honesty by itself or with a mix of something else? ---
**Author:** ![ClintX2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9e8a1a/32.png) [@ClintX2](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ClintX2)\ **Post date:** [August 5, 2010, 10:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-from-the-bay/40597/4 "2010-08-05T22:19:01Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk LostMagic!, It seems like things are already going good with you and her-- Pheromones can enhance that 🙂 “Will the use of IO ([Instant Openness – Ice Breaker Pheromone for Men - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)) make her trust me more?” Instant openness really helps in opening people up to you and making them chatty. **If you are interested in making her trust you more than I would suggest Instant Honesty** (this really helps to bond/connect with the person who you are talking to. This bond/connection leads to increased trust which is an important part of building any relationship. Many members (myself included) have observed that people tell them secrets/very personal information quickly while wearing Instant Honesty. I think Instant Honesty will make her trust you more because she will feel like she can tell you anything. “And IO ([Instant Openness – Ice Breaker Pheromone for Men - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)) and [A314](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic/) sound almost the same. What’s the difference? [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is for opening people up to you/ making them friendlier/ chatty. While **A314 is more alpha and Status (it can even be a little intimidating if you wear TOO much) A314 gives of a leadership/authority vibe that IO does not.** A314 also has a value vibe to it that makes it attractive to women and in the workplace. The value tells women, “This guy may be boyfriend material” while it tells people in the workplace that you are a leader/authority. Since you “currently really like this girl” I think that A314 would be good for you because of the **fallout effect** (basically high status women were falling for members who were wearing A314 trying to make them their boyfriends) you can find out more about the fallout effect by using the search icon at the top of the page and entering “ **fallout effect** ”. This product is so good that it has its own private section of the forum called the **A314 insider’s club**. I know that you mentioned that “I’m a nice guy” but can you tell us more about your personality and what your relationship is like with this girl so that we can offer you more help in your goal to “help us get closer”? ClintX2 ---
**Author:** ![gigs3354](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/54ee81/32.png) [@gigs3354](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/gigs3354)\ **Post date:** [August 5, 2010, 10:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-from-the-bay/40597/5 "2010-08-05T22:20:40Z")
Well fortunately with your gift card you will have the ability to try a couple to go bottles so i would suggest giving io and ih a try, maybe one will work better than the other with your body chemistry. Also if you want to take the dive definitely go for a314, it is on my list for next items to purchase and people are always raving about it ---
**Author:** ![ClintX2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9e8a1a/32.png) [@ClintX2](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ClintX2)\ **Post date:** [August 5, 2010, 10:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-from-the-bay/40597/6 "2010-08-05T22:45:50Z")
> [@LostMagic](#): > > just try Instant honesty by itself or with a mix of something else? I would advise using each product by itself first. This helps you to get your best results. Use this guide by Steve to find your sweet spot (the number of sprays that works best for you) for each product you buy: [How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1) ([How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1)) ^This will help you to get your best results and help you to tailor your mixes to the **amounts that work best for you** when you decide to start mixing products. If you have any other questions feel free to ask 🙂 ClintX2 ---
**Author:** ![LostMagic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/d07c76/32.png) [@LostMagic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LostMagic)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2010, 4:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-from-the-bay/40597/7 "2010-08-06T04:32:02Z")
Oh, okay. Thanks for the help you guys. I’ll purchase a ToGo of IO and IH and take it on a test run and see how it goes. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2010, 10:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-from-the-bay/40597/8 "2010-08-09T22:10:33Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones and you can speak to him personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![Wolfishgrin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfishgrin/32/1082_2.png) [@Wolfishgrin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfishgrin)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2010, 10:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-from-the-bay/40597/9 "2010-08-09T22:39:51Z")
Welcome man, and good choice in going with Androtics and Pherotalk. Hope to hear some incredible reports from you soon! ---
**Author:** ![Scipio](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3ec8ea/32.png) [@Scipio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Scipio)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2010, 8:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-from-the-bay/40597/10 "2010-08-10T20:37:09Z")
Whats up man. Glad to know another guy from the bay is on here. I myself am from the East Bay and am 20. first off a314 is bomb. So much, it has its own section in the forum. However it isn’t a magic oil substance. If you are going to give off the vibe of alpha male, you need to act like an alpha male. Very important. Will the use of [IO](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) make her trust me more? It will get her to talk to you, sure. Lots of random chitter chatter. Once you establish that you guys talk. You bring out instant honesty to build even more so of a trust vibe. Big one. And [IO](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and [A314](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic/) sound almost the same. What’s the difference? a314 males you seem more masculine and alpha. IO will make people talk to you at the right dose. Any other questions, PM me.