Hey guys, i need help deciding amd choosing

Hello
I have a question for the experianced users…
Im a skinny guy at 5 10.
Ive been researching social based and sexual based pheros.
Social- The scent of eros, Chikara, A314z
Sexual- Turn up the heat , Alpha 7, NPA
out of both categories which one would you guys and gals reccomend?
I also dont mind mixing the formulas.
I kind of want to be a player, chick magnet. But not a hitter n quiter, i want the girl to have respect for me.
Also, if there are other good brands and formulas, please specify!
Unbiased answers please!
I dont work and domt really worry about aggresive males.
unbiased answers please!