# Hey guys its me :D help out a 16 yr old? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [August 27, 2010, 5:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-guys-its-me-d-help-out-a-16-yr-old/41149 "2010-08-27T05:38:26Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Dumbfounded](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b19c9b/32.png) [@Dumbfounded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dumbfounded)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2010, 5:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-guys-its-me-d-help-out-a-16-yr-old/41149/1 "2010-08-27T05:38:26Z")
kk alright you guys might remember me, because i posted several times on what to do with a girl and how to get the balls. Well there was this girl that i really liked for a while and i finally got a date. The date went really well and after several more dates, she’s now my girlfriend (: thanks for all the advice you guys gave. Now i’m just wondering is how do i maintain a satisfying long-term relationship, because i really want her to like me. I’m good at doing sweet things, but i know that it will only work for a short time. i want to satisfy her and make her attracted to me more and more. Keep in mind i’m only 16 and in high school. Share your wisdom with me, because this forum has helped me alot! thanks 😃 also for phero usage i have: TUTH (i barely use this..) IG (i use this alot, but i dont pay attention to the effects just my girl) IS IH recommendations and advice? and thanks again! ---
**Author:** ![bestintel](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bestintel/32/1883_2.png) [@bestintel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bestintel)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2010, 10:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-guys-its-me-d-help-out-a-16-yr-old/41149/2 "2010-08-27T10:38:49Z")
> [@Dumbfounded](#): > > kk alright you guys might remember me, because i posted several times on what to do with a girl and how to get the balls. Well there was this girl that i really liked for a while and i finally got a date. The date went really well and after several more dates, she’s now my girlfriend (: thanks for all the advice you guys gave. Now i’m just wondering is how do i maintain a satisfying long-term relationship, because i really want her to like me. I’m good at doing sweet things, but i know that it will only work for a short time. i want to satisfy her and make her attracted to me more and more. Keep in mind i’m only 16 and in high school. Share your wisdom with me, because this forum has helped me alot! thanks 😃 > > also for phero usage i have: > > TUTH (i barely use this..) > IG (i use this alot, but i dont pay attention to the effects just my girl) > IS > IH > > recommendations and advice? and thanks again! My advice to you is be yourself if you treat a girl right she will mostly likely do the same for you. I would not get in the habit of putting her on a pedestal, always make time for yourself, and stay busy when you not with her I have noticed that girls do not like guys who just sit there and wait around for them.(maybe that’s just me) I would remember the 80% mones 20% you rule don’t depend on mones to do all the work, you already have your foot in the door start doing some ground work. I would stick with IG,IS,IH if you want more of a deeper connection to her try 1-2 sprays of IG and 1-2 sprays of IH and get back to us. ---
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [August 27, 2010, 3:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-guys-its-me-d-help-out-a-16-yr-old/41149/3 "2010-08-27T15:08:47Z")
Smellymen has it spot on. Its gonna be tough not to make her “the one,” even at 43 I’ve made that mistake and that’s exactly what it ends up being a mistake. Girls / Women… FEMALES want to know that they ARE your world, but they don’t want to actually BE your world. What they fall in love with is the guy you were before you two got together. That guy (YOU) was living a life for himself. Hanging out with his friends, doing his school work, involved in hobbies, and being involved in family. When that changes, when all of a sudden you stop hanging out with buddies, turning work in on time, stop playing sports / PS3, and being on time for dinners with the family every night like usual, then you’ve changed and that may make her happy temporarily to be getting all of that attention, but that happiness will soon wane and she will move on. WARNING - DANGER She will complain and say things like, “You’re always busy.” “You hang out with your friends all the time.” Etc. Remembe, that’s a shit test. She’s trying to get you into her frame, into her world. Stay in your world, she will respect you more and more importantly, you will respect yourself more if you make right decision to contiue normally. Chances are that a relationship at this age won’t las long enough to see th Fall Formal, let alone the Spring Dance Fling, but you stand a better chance by heeding this advice. Good luck, and remember not to put the girl on a pedestal. She really does NOT want to be there. ---
**Author:** ![Dumbfounded](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b19c9b/32.png) [@Dumbfounded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dumbfounded)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2010, 4:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-guys-its-me-d-help-out-a-16-yr-old/41149/4 "2010-08-29T04:52:03Z")
thanks guys for ur replies. always appreciate, but what do u guys mean when u put her on a pedestal? i really want to make this relationship last long, but should i text her first a lot? or wait till she texts me? because she’s a shy girl and usually won’t do anything unless the guy does it first.. ---
**Author:** ![Joe10](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/joe10/32/300_2.png) [@Joe10](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Joe10)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2010, 5:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-guys-its-me-d-help-out-a-16-yr-old/41149/5 "2010-08-29T05:23:12Z")
> [@Dumbfounded](#): > > thanks guys for ur replies. always appreciate, but what do u guys mean when u **put her on a pedestal**? > > i really want to make this relationship last long, but should i text her first a lot? or wait till she texts me? because she’s a shy girl and usually won’t do anything unless the guy does it first.. Don’t worship her. she is only there because you chose her to be there. Don’t let her make all the decisions and don’t always be around her. when you get married or start living in the same house then its a different story but for now, show her that you are happy with or without her by going on with your life and staying busy on the side. Edit: Also, you need to lead the relationship. When you have time, do something nice with her, but don’t always be free, or else she will think that you have nothing going on with you ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2010, 5:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-guys-its-me-d-help-out-a-16-yr-old/41149/6 "2010-08-29T05:32:43Z")
Smellyman gave you extremely good advice. 😃 > [@](#): > > but what do u guys mean when u put her on a pedestal? My son is 16… yes I’m old enough to be your mother LOL 😮 His new girlfriend is always trying to make him give up things he likes to do. Thank god he has a life coach for a mother so he doesn’t fall for it. anywho… what he is saying is stay true to yourself. Dont change or give up the things you like to suit her likes. You should respect each other for both your likes and differences. A lot of times when people get into a long term relationship they change. They stop associating with there friends. They stop doing the things they enjoy and only do what their partner enjoys whether by choice or the insistence of the other partner. They spend every waking hour together either in person, on the phone, texting, Iming. They put the other person on a pedestal and worship them like a god. Dont do that… You can treat her special and do things she likes sometimes but dont lose yourself in the process. Dont expect her to give up her world for you either she should do things you like once in a while but stay true to herself as well. Its all give and take for both partners. You dont have to worry about shit tests. Whether the men here want to admit it or not both genders have there tests. If you stay true to you there is no test you cant pass. Have fun Tisha Edit to add > [@](#): > > when you get married or start living in the same house then its a different story No its not different after you get married, not if you want your marriage to last. 😉