# hey guys **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 19, 2013, 3:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-guys/58226 "2013-02-19T15:13:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![poldane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f4b2a3/32.png) [@poldane](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/poldane)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2013, 3:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-guys/58226/1 "2013-02-19T15:13:54Z")
hi there, im a 31 asian currently working in cambodia, just saw too much shows that is telling the effectiveness of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) and would wanna try it out. especially trying to spice up things between me n wife 😛. where do i start? ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2013, 3:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-guys/58226/2 "2013-02-19T15:30:56Z")
Hi there, welcome to the mone forum. Well, you started out with posting on the Intro forum and registering to the forum. This is your first steps in getting your very own GC to try out some mones. 🙂 Well, tell us something about your personality and your relationship. What kind of personality does she have? Some mones work better in certain environments or are easier to wield or use for some peoples attitudes. Take a look at my sig below to give you some help in the mones you do pickup! 1Alpha . ---
**Author:** ![poldane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f4b2a3/32.png) [@poldane](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/poldane)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2013, 3:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-guys/58226/3 "2013-02-19T15:48:17Z")
personality? not sure what u are asking for but i’ll dump in as much as i can (workign hours 😛 between me and her, im the alpha who makes the decisions, could say, in all discussion, if i argued about it she will give in 99% of the time. bout our relationship, she is the passive ones and im doing all the hard work to maintain it.(eg. make the atmosphere better after a heated argument which i normally win, make her feel better after i made her cry). hell she wont do a crap about improving relationship, even in bed too but i valued her, more than i value my parents or anything else in this world. bout her shes sweet, passive, quite traditional(eg. no sex talk,no cleavage dressings), dont do any planning for life or anything, type of person who dont keep track what bad things people did to her(except that once i f"ed around 😛). and hence quite cold in bed too me smoker, what i say is what you do no discussion type of person, and i think im a beta, a challlenger for the alpha but do not want to be alpha in the pack. needs more sex, needs. currently working overseas away from her, got 3 chance to meet her per year. that’s why im here cause i want to make it count everytime i get to see her. love her, but still im a horny bastard is this enough? ps: i got my age wrong again, im 33 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2013, 3:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-guys/58226/4 "2013-02-21T15:06:06Z")
Welcome Dane, I am super sorry for the late reply but I am glad you are here finally gonna plunge in and try some pheromones. Alpha is one of the many persons who you will find came on the forum to spice things up in the bedroom with the wifey so feel free to read his journal, pm him to ask for advice if you are more personal or open a thread in the men section so they can assist you. I suggest you start of with these for attraction and for general communication and closeness with your loved one Ammo , Shine, IH and Tuth **Your gc was issued!** ---
**Author:** ![poldane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f4b2a3/32.png) [@poldane](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/poldane)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2013, 7:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-guys/58226/5 "2013-02-21T19:08:13Z")
does those included in the newbie package? mine just left the plane ☹ ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2013, 9:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-guys/58226/6 "2013-02-21T21:44:59Z")
Cheers! Yes as i remember, those are part of the newbie package… ---
**Author:** ![poldane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f4b2a3/32.png) [@poldane](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/poldane)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2013, 4:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-guys/58226/7 "2013-02-22T16:26:57Z")
alpha1, where is your journal? its not in your sig 😛 ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2013, 4:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-guys/58226/8 "2013-02-22T16:38:55Z")
At the bottom of my blog post on mones. Here is a quick link! > [@Starting out with 'mones: Takin' it nice and slow... NOT!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/starting-out-with-mones-takin-it-nice-and-slow-not/42340): > > I have not had any previous ‘exposure’ (pun intended!!!) to [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) prior to the last few days, last days of Sept, starting out October and have been glued to this forum when I have had a chance! I want to document my usage on this thread. I have been pondering pheromones and my exposure to them in the past. I have thought of instances when I have been influenced by men and women and find some of them were likely mones supported. As an example, a couple of months ago I met a young man in … > [@poldane](#): > > alpha1, where is your journal? its not in your sig 😛