# hey hey hey **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 19, 2012, 12:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-hey-hey/55316 "2012-04-19T12:16:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![monebone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/96bed5/32.png) [@monebone](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monebone)\ **Post date:** [April 19, 2012, 12:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-hey-hey/55316/1 "2012-04-19T12:16:31Z")
Hey, mid 30’s male from the west coast here. I randomly came across the use as [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) and it intrigued me quite a bit. I wasn’t aware that it was used as an attractant of sorts in colognes. I can look a little mean, can’t help it i was born that way so it doesn’t take much for me to intimidate folks. So i try to make up with that by smiling, cracking jokes to make folks feel comfortable. I’m normally pretty funny and friendly and have some funny things happen to me when out and about in public. I came across pheros and the effects it has on people and thought “this can be a fun adventure.” So I’m thinking of getting a bottle of A314 as i’m starting a new business with some folks and this sounds like it’ll make things more interesting when meeting with potential clients. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [April 19, 2012, 12:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-hey-hey/55316/2 "2012-04-19T12:20:08Z")
Hi there, bud! You’re from the Left Coast… NICE!!! 🙂 It’s MUCH nicer than the ‘other’ coast. IShine will soften up your vibe and to bring it up a notch, I’d suggest IO as well to get others comforted and comfortable to be around you and talk. HOWEVER, if you want to show off the High caliber, exec type of vibe, A314, for sure. You’ll have to show your attitude to be in congruence with the vibe, but, the mones will work for sure! How’d you find this site, btw? ---
**Author:** ![monebone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/96bed5/32.png) [@monebone](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monebone)\ **Post date:** [April 19, 2012, 1:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-hey-hey/55316/3 "2012-04-19T13:06:23Z")
you mean there’s other coasts? 🙂 Well i already get respect & trust from folks. It’s always been that way because i’m straight forward and honest and respect folks back, then again that could come from sheer terror..?? Would A314 have any impact towards this, maybe take this trait to unimaginable levels? ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [April 19, 2012, 5:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-hey-hey/55316/4 "2012-04-19T17:34:31Z")
> [@monebone](#): > > you mean there’s other coasts? 🙂 > > Well i already get respect & trust from folks. It’s always been that way because i’m straight forward and honest and respect folks back, then again that could come from sheer terror..?? Would A314 have any impact towards this, maybe take this trait to unimaginable levels? YES… it could HIGHLIGHT it to the point of YOU being unapproachable. You’re attitude will need to belay that feeling, so it will be some work for you to let others in. If you _ **want** _ the unimaginable levels… well, then, yes, put it on and put on some airs! 😉 You can use IShine to soften up A314, or, in your case, may be best to Start with IShine, see what it does for you and those around you, then, utilize A314 with it to amplify the respect from others with IShine moderating it. Yes, there ARE other coasts, unbelievable, but true. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [April 19, 2012, 6:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-hey-hey/55316/5 "2012-04-19T18:15:00Z")
Hello MB and welcome to the forum. I have that kinda scary look too which can intimidate some people - especially women - but people who know me trust me implicitely. A314 can give you a heavy feel sometimes. To offset that at work I use it with IH. IH generates feelings of trust and connection. so you still come across as the alpha leader but people feel very connected to you. Outside of work I often use IG to soften that intimidation factor. It seems to work pretty well in that regards. I know a couple people who use it at work (sales) and they said they seemed to connect better with their customers than when they wore A314. You might have to experiment and see which works best for you. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2012, 12:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-hey-hey/55316/6 "2012-04-22T12:07:09Z")
Welcome to pherotalk monebone! I see you were able to get amazing advise from my team and I hope that these products work to soften your image when that is needed and work with your seemingly intimidating vibe to get you ahead in work. Good luck! _ **Your gc was issued!** _