# Hey I'm Tim **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 26, 2010, 3:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-im-tim/38879 "2010-05-26T03:20:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![easymac69](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/9dc877/32.png) [@easymac69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/easymac69)\ **Post date:** [May 26, 2010, 3:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-im-tim/38879/1 "2010-05-26T03:20:55Z")
Hey I’m Tim,I’m a 22 year old male from a small town up in western NY. For the last year or so I have been greatly interested in what attracts people to one another and what sorts of things allow for more meaningful personal relationships both in social and work environments. It now seems that this curiosity has lead me to find yet another sub culture of people describing this topic in a different way. More precisely how [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) can help in these areas. I can’t wait to try out and learn more about this stuff. I just have a few questions: Are there any pheromones that I could use to increase my own drive both sexually , in business, and towards my goals in life? Which products would you recommend to start out with? How long before you see any results after applying the product? Anything interesting or anything you wish you would have known when you first started into this topic? ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 26, 2010, 3:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-im-tim/38879/2 "2010-05-26T03:28:46Z")
Hi Tim, welcome to the forum! In answer to your questions: > [@easymac69](#): > > Are there any pheromones that I could use to increase my own drive both sexually , in business, and towards my goals in life? Yes, but in order to make the best recommendations, we need a little more info about your personality and communication skills. Are you shy or outgoing? Also, would you be a bit more specific about what you want to accomplish using pheros? > [@easymac69](#): > > Which products would you recommend to start out with? See above. > [@easymac69](#): > > How long before you see any results after applying the product? I have found I see the best, most immediate results on people who don’t know me. For people already familiar with my phero signature, it can take up to a few days. > [@easymac69](#): > > Anything interesting or anything you wish you would have known when you first started into this topic? The only thing I wish I would have known, is to have known about these products a long time ago! 😛 ---
**Author:** ![easymac69](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/9dc877/32.png) [@easymac69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/easymac69)\ **Post date:** [May 26, 2010, 3:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-im-tim/38879/3 "2010-05-26T03:43:02Z")
K here’s a little about my personality. I usually start out a little bit shy with people but then once I find some commonality with them I’m usually really outgoing and fun. I’m usually the one cracking jokes and keeping the interactions light and fun. I’m almost always the optimist and I would say that I attract a fair amount of the opposite sex. My biggest thing is that I almost never make a move on a girl unless I know for a fact she wants me to. This also happens to me in my work relationships and my relationships with friends I just seem to be the person who will take a risk. So I am looking for something that will either help me to increase my drive to just go for it or to help me affect the people around me in a way that I would feel more comfortable taking risks with them. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 26, 2010, 3:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-im-tim/38879/4 "2010-05-26T03:56:14Z")
Thanks for the info! To help with initial shyness, use [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). Instant Openness will relax you and those around you, everyone will be friendlier and more easy to talk to. To help make a girls sexual interest in you more apparent, use Turn Up The Heat, but only when you are alone with her and you think she might be ready to take things to the next level. I have never been properly exposed to TUTH (only smelled it in the bottle, but not on a man), but it is supposed to be very arousing for women. Instant Honesty might help if the type of risk you are talking about is emotional, if its about opening up and letting people get to know you, and for others to feel comfortable enough around you to open up to you as well. ---
**Author:** ![Katalyst](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/katalyst/32/1415_2.png) [@Katalyst](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Katalyst)\ **Post date:** [May 26, 2010, 12:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-im-tim/38879/5 "2010-05-26T12:12:59Z")
Welcome Easymac69! I feel we have a lot of similarities in personality. Im very outgoing but that tends to be with the people i already know and can become that very quickly by making commonalities with strangers that you first meet. There have been times in my life where i didnt make the first move, and didnt chase after or ask out the girl i thought was out of my league due to shyness, risk of being rejected, and so on. ONLY to find out that they wanted me to make that move, or that that female actually had a big crush on me as well. Picking up on the IOI’s is very important in this matter, but what is even more important is developing yourself and your own personality to act on them and feel confident in doing so. Confidence is huuge. Instant shine has been my personal favorite so far out of the products that i have which are in my sig. Its gives me a confidence boost and also increases my drive to be more social, witty, opening conversations and even to make the first moves with little to no anxiety. You wont be second guessing yourself. Sillykitty has also made some great reccommendations but I thought that i should share my $0.02 since i know where you are coming from. ---
**Author:** ![easymac69](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/9dc877/32.png) [@easymac69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/easymac69)\ **Post date:** [May 26, 2010, 3:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-im-tim/38879/6 "2010-05-26T15:36:13Z")
Thank you both it seems I have a lot to look into now and a lot of new things to try out. I think I will definitely try out that [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) first and just go from there it sound like exactly what I am looking for. I’ve actually known about IOI’s now for well over 2 years and have been learning how to read them in my interactions with people. I find the use of them very good in interview situations where you only have one chance to impress someone. Since I started looking for them I haven’t been turn down once for a job. I just haven’t been able to get myself to trust the one’s I notice in more social settings. ---
**Author:** ![Katalyst](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/katalyst/32/1415_2.png) [@Katalyst](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Katalyst)\ **Post date:** [May 26, 2010, 7:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-im-tim/38879/7 "2010-05-26T19:13:02Z")
Ahhhh, yes, the ol i should go with my instincts but i dont know if i .. well maybe.. she… ok ok shes walking away now i dont have to make the decision, ill do it when she gets back from the bathroom, ahhhh crap shes left for the night now ive lost my chance routine ? hahah yeah every setting is different and sometimes those IOI’s can be flukes but other times they can be blatant hits, and in our culture it is usually the mans job to act on those things that the girls are putting out because we are the agressors and they are the gate keepers. And then when you get the ones that play hard to get you dont know whether to give up, or keep trying, or if shes not even really interested in you and you misread thins female specimen. LOL, good luck with your first purchase and adventures that will follow, be sure to report back ! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 26, 2010, 11:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-im-tim/38879/8 "2010-05-26T23:37:59Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones and you can speak to him personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.