# Hey, lurker coming out :P

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-lurker-coming-out-p/25869>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [February 9, 2009, 12:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-lurker-coming-out-p/25869 "2009-02-09T00:59:47Z")\
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**Author:** ![AlienInspector](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9f8e36/32.png) [@AlienInspector](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlienInspector)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 12:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-lurker-coming-out-p/25869/1 "2009-02-09T00:59:47Z")

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Hey phero lovers,

I figured its time to stop lurking and start contributing, must be the pheros hah.

I’m a 21 year old latin guy. I am slim leaning towards athletic and gotten "cute " and “pretty” comments considerably often. I’m living in Germany, i moved here a couple of months ago in a “search” for a new start. I’ve spent the last years of my life playing video games and smoking a certain substance, not really knowing how to go about in my life.  
i’ve been extremely introverted and never had the need to have more people in my life than those ive known forever. After my first breakup i fell deeper into this life and spent time making excuses justifying it.

I have had ambitions of performing/singing ever since childhood which got inhibited in my teens. No matter why, I’ve taken the decision to leave my bad habits behind and pursue my real dreams in life and be everything i know i can be(what better place than one of the great cultural hubs of the world?).  
Of course, being introverted is counterproductive to performing situasjons, which have also forced on me more social interactions than i’ve had since 10th grade. my love life has also only improved slightly since i made the decision to take charge.

This is where [Pheromones](https://a314.com/) come in, i ordered my first pheros just after christmas as a present for myself, in an effort to smoothen out my social anxiety. That said i have always been one of the more talkative of my friends(but only amongst them), and once people get to know me we develope great relations with alot of trust, honesty and good times, it just takes a damn good while and i’ve relied alot on mates to keep people around long enough.

In my first rounds of testing i calibrated what works for me and have since felt **more shiny, open and a little bit hot**. My interactions remained the same, but i could feel the potency.  
This left me CRAVING to really use this stuff for all that its worth!  
I have in the last 2-3 weeks taken hold of alot of PUA-themed material to get a better handle on which to learn these social skills that have been unrefined for such a long time.

This is where the magic started…

Just embracing this mentality has (along with a little help from my little friends) started working miracles for me. Its like my fear of opening my mouth has taken a hike, or at least mutated its balls to its chin making one punch to its face enough for it to leave me alone for a while. When i go out i feel good, people around me feel good. Before i would bring them down with my energy levels but now a freely blabber, joke and flirt. With a little more practice i feel like interacting as an issue will be a thing of the past.

My impressions:

Instant openess:  
I loooooooooove this stuff, the self effects are awesome for me… bla bla bla.  
i just put myself out there and i’ll talk my heart out, with someone i might just have met. I know it affects others aswell, it just feels as if it’s easier to share a laugh or simply have a conversation.  
I normally have 2-3 sprays of this and normally put my sprays on wrists and neck

Ammo:  
people seem less inhibited to get kino, smiles, i notice recurring looks in the subway and i personally feel spiked. there is probably some placebo to this but i feel like hot stuff. never gone above 3 sprays as im scared of what an OD might look like..

Instant shine:  
now this one, this one is really is what it says it is, couple of sprays and my mood rises, i feel like i want to keep my posture high, and im inclined to smile, its grrrrreat!

Instant female magic:  
doesn’t lower my mood in the slightest, but it does relax women, although it feels very subtle, to the point where i might not always pick up on it.

mx200:  
Got this as a freebie, havent noticed any effect on others. for me it gives me the feeling of slight intoxication for a few minutes.  
I’ve read the asian thing about it, but i don’t have that many to try it on. do philipinos count?

and a tiny report:  
last night i got pulled out of my house, i was tired and about to take a nap, to go have drinks with a friend(6) and her roommate(5), i know that roommate was into me from before, but she is taller than me which just doesnt appeal to me(very fun and cute face though).  
we had a drink at their flat and all the while we had a good time.  
After a while we went out to hear a band. btw the whole night the roommate flirts with me, and we keep this teasing going back and forth. at the club i talk with guys from the band, i lose my thread of conversation but i’d rather go that way than have awkward silences with people i’m trying befriend.  
Here i pride myself in opening my first girl2set ever from a cold approach.  
i have a hard time getting people to go english with me but w/e, i keep them gigling and smiling for a minute or 2 and exit when i can’t find a thing to say, piece of cake(the not being able to speak good german really bites here).  
after a while of talking and a drink some other girls show up(lesbians) who take my friends to a “girl” night at a big warehouse club. not wanting to go home just yet a tag along. Getting there i take a spray of IFM to each wrist and dance for 4 hours, great.

I just want to make it clear that **i have never been more playfull** in my whole life.  
Before i would normally just talk about safe subjects and if my friends started talking to people i would either wait to be introduced or stay quiet untill i got the attention of one of the people i was with.

I have spent alot of time studying subjects like physics, biology and psychology and have really enjoyed observing the role pheros can have in interpersonal relations. It was actually a random pheroline ad that got me here but my curiosity got me to stay 😃  
THANK YOU guys for the products this company makes and the body of knowledge this forum contains, i am awaiting my next order tomorrow with lots more goodies to play with 🙂

ps. i know ive babbled alot, i’ll stop now, but i just got back from dinner at a restaurant where we ended up eating our meal with people we met there, first time ever hah!

pps. ok i lied, this body of text looks ok on my pc but im not sure, didnt think i would end up writing quite this much!

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**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 1:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-lurker-coming-out-p/25869/2 "2009-02-09T01:08:22Z")

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Hey there Alien, welcome to the forums! It seems a bit weird to be saying that to you, since i’ve seen posts from you popping up around the forums already, but welcome anyways! Now, i may have missed it, but how did you find out about pheromones in the first place? Lately it doesn’t seem too hard to hear about them… seems like everywhere i turn around someone is mentioning them. On TV, in Oceans 13, in my psych class.

Well, by now i’m sure you have a handle on what to get, but i wanted to say it’s been great hearing… reading?.. your posts around! Keep on putting your comments out there! Cheers!

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 1:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-lurker-coming-out-p/25869/3 "2009-02-09T01:12:21Z")

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Hello and welcome to the forum.

Glad you have introduced yourself and glad that you have had some good experiences with the products so far.

Try reading some of the threads in my signature block for some more information.

Wlecome again and looking forward to seeing more posts from you.

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**Author:** ![AlienInspector](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9f8e36/32.png) [@AlienInspector](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlienInspector)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 1:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-lurker-coming-out-p/25869/4 "2009-02-09T01:22:18Z")

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Hehe, i know its wierd, ive just always been a lurker i guess. I’ve read tons of posts and my second order is in the mail. Im just shy to voice my opinions, at least when it involves stepping out of the comfort zone.  
Thats changing though heh, ive known of pheromones for a while, both from studies and surfing, but a pheroline ad online peaked my curiosity and led me to androtics just before christmas 🙂

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**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 2:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-lurker-coming-out-p/25869/5 "2009-02-09T02:13:39Z")

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Hi Alioen,

Welcome to the forum. I have been seeing you online for many months already but you never posted. Finally you do. lol

It is great to hear pheromones work for you. Beside 2-3 sprays of IO, how many sprays do you use for the other pheromones that you have.

Keep posting. Welcome again

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**Author:** ![AlienInspector](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9f8e36/32.png) [@AlienInspector](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlienInspector)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 2:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-lurker-coming-out-p/25869/6 "2009-02-09T14:32:02Z")

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With ammo i take around 1 spray in the morning or 2 if i’m staying home after my language course, if i stay clean all day i’ll be pushing 3 when i go out to socialize in the evenings. I am scared of doing more, having read about low age and latin ethnicity creating alot of -none by itself. i will be doing an OD when my A314 comes along though, simply to control and know what to look for.

Shine is great at around 3, i really love the smell too. ive gone up to 7 sprays, but that left me very unfocused. what i like is that when i get it right the morning class just seems to light up. the attention doesnt go to me in this situation, which is understandable, but its great to see people get less grumpy 🙂

All sprays are to neck and wrists. I’m still playing with the ratio but i try to make it even spraying at the same time and rubbing pulse points against eachother.

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 10:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-lurker-coming-out-p/25869/7 "2009-02-09T22:42:45Z")

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Hello There Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂

I am glad you decided to join in the fun instead of just watching from the sidelines. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with us. Mones really are awesome and make life so much more interesting and fun. It looks like your off to a great start.

I look forward to your participation in the forum and hope you will revert back to lurking. 😉

Your intro is really great and great intros deserve great rewards so your **GC’s will be on there way to your email**.

Have fun

Tisha  
Hostess/Guide
