# Hey New and hesitant but open to new things **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 20, 2008, 9:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-and-hesitant-but-open-to-new-things/23090 "2008-11-20T09:50:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![melissafunklove](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9f8e36/32.png) [@melissafunklove](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/melissafunklove)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 9:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-and-hesitant-but-open-to-new-things/23090/1 "2008-11-20T09:50:40Z")
**hi everyone my name is melissa, i am 19 and female, a bit about me … im in college and was looking for a boost with the guys. i know im a great personality and can make friends easy, im always told that i make people comfortable off the bat and they feel like good friends 5 min into meeting me, but for the most part thats where i stay just friends. everyone knows about the “friends zone” well that where im always at with guys. i would just like to try this out and maybe get more flirting and build from there and see what happens as it goes.:o** **ive been trying to do my research with these product and you guys seem to know what your doing and knowing that the people promoting this stuff have great insight and are using it also really pushes my vote. im exited to start tying it. and exited to post whether or not its going good for me. i really like how vast the choices are compare to just looking for pheros kind of stuff usually its directed towards men as a “liquid panty remover” but your stuff is like a boost of confidence and feel good which even if it doesnt get close incounters at least your feeling good anyway. what really sold me was the guarantee and i can appreciate that your trying new things with consumers even if its a hit and a miss i think ima be serious about this and try to help out since thats what you guys are doing for all us comnsumers.** ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 9:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-and-hesitant-but-open-to-new-things/23090/2 "2008-11-20T09:58:56Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. There are a lot of great products here for both men and women. yes - a lot of the interest on the part of the guys is in the area of romance but if you read carefully it is often the same for women. I know the mone products pretty well but i usually leave those recommendations to the women. There are quite a few here and i am sure one will be by soon to say hello. You may also want to look at the social products here. In particular IH which can generate feelings of connection and hence deeper conversation is one of my favorites. Ishine which can leave everyone around you feeling happier is another one. Let us know what you are thinking and we will be happy to help with recommendations. ---
**Author:** ![melissafunklove](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9f8e36/32.png) [@melissafunklove](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/melissafunklove)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-and-hesitant-but-open-to-new-things/23090/3 "2008-11-20T10:03:16Z")
> [@bosshank](#): > > Hello and welcome to the forum. > > There are a lot of great products here for both men and women. yes - a lot of the interest on the part of the guys is in the area of romance but if you read carefully it is often the same for women. > > I know the mownes products pretty well but i usually leave those recommendations to the women. There are quite a few here and i am sure one will be by soon to say hello. > > You may also want to look at the social products here. In particular IH which can generate feelings of connection and hence deeper conversation is one of my favorites. Instaht shine which can leave everyone around you feeling happier is another one. > > Let us know what you are thinking and we will be happy to help with recommendations. thank so much i do see the uses that i can benifiit from and btw i forgot to put im from southern california ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-and-hesitant-but-open-to-new-things/23090/4 "2008-11-20T10:08:57Z")
Hello Melissa, Nice to have you in Pherotalk 🙂 So i see you are keen on trying pheros to see how it work for you, that is good 😃 Ok i would suggest Instant Sexiness as it is a must have phero among the ladies here & it is a good attraction phero btw 🙂 It also come in 2 types A & B. But i suggest you wait for Lady Tisha AKA Tisha23 to visit your intro for more info or you can send her a PM about it too 🙂 Bosshank was refering to Lady Tisha when he say he leave the recommendations to women 🙂 And yes try the socials with it like [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) or Instant Shine like he recommended too 🙂 Hope my info helps. See you 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![melissafunklove](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9f8e36/32.png) [@melissafunklove](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/melissafunklove)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-and-hesitant-but-open-to-new-things/23090/5 "2008-11-20T10:15:38Z")
is there anywhere where i can see obvious results of others? that its obviously the product working in action? ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-and-hesitant-but-open-to-new-things/23090/6 "2008-11-20T10:20:16Z")
> [@melissafunklove](#): > > is there anywhere where i can see obvious results of others? that its obviously the product working in action? Have a look at msselva and remmy’s posts, they are both around your age and know what they’re doing with their pheros. But be warned, this stuff works! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-and-hesitant-but-open-to-new-things/23090/7 "2008-11-20T10:22:19Z")
You can see results from others just about anywhere. Work, social, shoppping. Work though can depend a little. The more “formal” a workplace you have the more difficult seeing reactions can be as people are already naturally controlling themselves very tightly. But if you want to read about reactions at work try reading Tiggerbear’s journal in the women’s section. She had some reactions … And seeing reactions is often easiest with the social products. Instant shine and IO are two great examples. Tisha says that whenever she uses IShine at work, her boss who is usually “grumpy” becomes very mellow. I personally seldom use IO because it generates so much chatter I get irritated. I prefer IH. You still get a lot of chatter sometimes but at least they say something interesting … Edit: Like Diamond says - check on remmy and msselva - they are at school and can get some very strong reactions in school and on the bus on the way to school. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-and-hesitant-but-open-to-new-things/23090/8 "2008-11-20T10:37:46Z")
> [@melissafunklove](#): > > is there anywhere where i can see obvious results of others? that its obviously the product working in action? Hmm, ok click on these links for more info(have a read on it & you will understand more there)\> [Hits!!! Is/a So Good!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hits-is-a-so-good/19112) & [Spring fever…](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/spring-fever/12878)(This is msselva journal btw 🙂) ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2008, 10:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-and-hesitant-but-open-to-new-things/23090/9 "2008-11-20T10:50:57Z")
Hello Melissa, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 My suggestion to you would be to give [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) a try. (A) fits the more strong confident personality and (B) fits the more girly soft personality. You can use both depending on the vibe you want to put out there but we usually suggest you start with the one that matches you the closest. The easiest ones to see results with are IH and Ishine. Both great communication miixes. Ishine is warm charismatic upbeat. IH is connecting intimate close. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Tish