# Hey new british member! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 7, 2013, 11:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-british-member/58928 "2013-05-07T11:49:50Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![billy\_p](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e9c0ed/32.png) [@billy\_p](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/billy_p)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2013, 11:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-british-member/58928/1 "2013-05-07T11:49:50Z")
Hey i’m billy from Cambridge in England im 21 and interested in pheromones! I have a few questions too, i’m looking for the [best pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) to get a relationship, im very capable of getting one night stands but for one reason or another things never get serious, i’m always seen as not relationship material when that is all i really want. So i was looking at INstant Gentleman seeing that gives you a mature vibe, is that a good choice? opinions please? oh and is this enough information for the GC? ---
**Author:** ![Mysterion](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mysterion/32/986_2.png) [@Mysterion](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mysterion)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2013, 12:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-british-member/58928/2 "2013-05-07T12:09:01Z")
Hey 🙂 The problem with ONS is that they are counterproductive if you want a LTR. I found that if I didn’t sleep with them before the second or third date, they would want a relationship with me. Keep that in mind. Also where do you pick those chicks up? During the daytime anywhere on the streets, mall whatever, is ideal for getting girlfriends. It will make you very special and stand out 🙂 While women who are in clubs usually go there, get drunk, have drunk ons sex with drunk guys…well you know the story. If you were such a woman, would you consider getting into a LTR with the guy you slept with? IG is OK for LTR, but you will want deep rapport. A1, IH, IG, but don’t forget a spark of attraction. I don’t think you gave us enough information to qualify for a gc. I still know nothing about your personality ;p ---
**Author:** ![billy\_p](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e9c0ed/32.png) [@billy\_p](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/billy_p)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2013, 10:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-british-member/58928/3 "2013-05-08T10:42:32Z")
Hi thanks for replying, well A1 isnt available in the store can you tell me more about it? And let me tell you more about myself then I’m in university and quite a shy guy, if i’m to be honest i would consider myself quite good looking but a tad weedy. Girls don’t really approach me too often cause i’m shy and kind of put up a barrier. I would really like a long term relationship and hoping [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) can help me in what has otherwise been an unsuccessful journey. Girls just won’t stay with me! I’ve been single so long i start to think theres something wrong with me but i aways hear the same thing “You’re great but not boyfriend material” this is why i think IG will help me or could A314 do something to help me. Anyway i hope thats enough if not just tell me 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Mysterion](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mysterion/32/986_2.png) [@Mysterion](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mysterion)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2013, 1:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-british-member/58928/4 "2013-05-08T13:13:35Z")
Hi 🙂 I can’t tell you anything about A1 that google can’t also. 😛 Just to sum things up after an hour or two of exposure you’ll be pretty much guaranteed bf material if it hits. From my personal experience. Yes mones can help you with your problem. But they aren’t a workaround. You need to work on your core problems, the root of the problem is your shyness pretty obviously. Get over it, improve, and you will find a gf 🙂 If need be, you can use your new extrovertness to chat up stranger chicks on the streets 😃 Good luck and you’ll do it! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2013, 8:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-british-member/58928/5 "2013-05-27T20:01:11Z")
Welcome Billy, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving pheromones a chance. Your gc was issued!