# Hey New User from Hawaii **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 23, 2008, 3:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-user-from-hawaii/9358 "2008-02-23T03:33:39Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Lawrence084](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7bcc69/32.png) [@Lawrence084](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lawrence084)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 3:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-user-from-hawaii/9358/1 "2008-02-23T03:33:39Z")
Ok…I am not a true believer, but I am a definetly open minded person who is willing to try anything once to prove myself right or wrong. What a good product to start off that will make me a believer? I am above average in meeting women and I have my share of smiles and women do approach me in clubs from time to time, but never the ones I really want to meet. I am 40, naturally shy person but that doesn’t stop me from approaching women. Just feel like crap when I fail and feeling more like depress when I don’t make an attempt to approach. So what a good product to start with?..🙂 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 3:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-user-from-hawaii/9358/2 "2008-02-23T03:39:57Z")
Hello Lawrence and welcom to the forum. I am just alittle older than you. You have several good products to try. Ammo is a great all around product with just enough 'none in it to spice things up. After that i would recommend Instant shine 2x. It will help people feel happy to be around you. I would also go with some [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) 2X. This will help you generate general chatty conversations. These three products will be great. I use all three and really like them. Remember - these products are not magic. They do give you an edge but you have to take positive social action -talk to people, smile, etc. - in order to take advantage of edge. Please ask any questions. We are happy to help. ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 3:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-user-from-hawaii/9358/3 "2008-02-23T03:40:47Z")
Welcome Lawrence! It is good to be open minded, even if you don’t believe at first 🙂 A great product to start for a non believer is instant openness. It works really well and you will notice a big increase in conversations as soon as you apply! It will also help you since you are a little shy. Instant honesty can give similar but a little weaker results, since it promote deeper quality conversations. ---
**Author:** ![Lawrence084](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7bcc69/32.png) [@Lawrence084](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lawrence084)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 3:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-user-from-hawaii/9358/4 "2008-02-23T03:44:06Z")
Thanks for your response. Yeah, I am smart to know I am not going to get the kind of response like a body spray commercial. But if I can feel a vibe around women and don’t have to work as hard. I’ll be a true believer. I just looking for increase in a sense of awareness… Thanks it is truely appreiated. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 3:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-user-from-hawaii/9358/5 "2008-02-23T03:50:56Z")
NP. The [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) will help up your 'none signature and get you noticed. Instant shine will help people feel happy to be around you. IO will help generate general conversations. And like MB says - IH will help you generate deeper conversations with feeling of connection. To be honest, I prefer the IH to the IO but I have NO trouble going up to strangers to initiate conversation. So I like to try to get deeper into people. Even my wife is amazed sometimes even after all these years how I can just go up to strangers because she is not like that herself. But I recommend IO to those who indicate they have trouble with the initial conversation. ---
**Author:** ![Lawrence084](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7bcc69/32.png) [@Lawrence084](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lawrence084)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 4:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-user-from-hawaii/9358/6 "2008-02-23T04:16:06Z")
Most of the products come with the option of double strength. For a first- timer like myself is it worth it? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 3:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-new-user-from-hawaii/9358/7 "2008-02-23T15:52:33Z")
Hello Welcome to the forum 🙂 No always start with the normal strength first. Its easier to work up then work down with the dosage. 😃 **Your GC will be in your email box in the next 24 to 48 hours** 😃 Tisha