# Hey, newbie coming through...! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 5, 2008, 1:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-newbie-coming-through/20861 "2008-10-05T13:08:01Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![snakekid3](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/51bf81/32.png) [@snakekid3](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/snakekid3)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 1:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-newbie-coming-through/20861/1 "2008-10-05T13:08:01Z")
Hey, Firstly, I’d like to say what a great site smartmones is! And I’m not just saying that for approval, I genuinely mean that. I’ve seen hundreds of other sites supposedly selling ‘real’ [pheromones](https://a314.com/) but the sites are simply filled up with big pictures of half-naked playboy models and ‘BUY NOW!’ signs every second line. This site is so warm and one can tell that it is run by some very decent people who genuinely care about their customers. So, thank you. 🙂 _**(Skip down 2 paragraphs if you don’t want to hear my life story)**_ Anyway, a bit about myself. My name’s Chris, I’m 18 and to cut a long story short, let’s just say I have ‘some extra baggage’ (I hope you know what I mean there). I’m not really ashamed of my size because I’ve learnt to live with it. It is, however, a burden. A serious burden. I’m a ‘t-shirt and jeans’ kind of guy and not really one of those ‘dress to impress’ people. I consider myself someone who is socially apt in comparison with my mates and generally enjoy going out (with mates). BUT, as soon as the time comes when women in short skirts are walking by – my head spins (metaphorically and literally). Although I am very interested in meeting women, I am over self-conscious and generally let my mates do all the talking, following behind them like a sheep. Close encounters with women nowadays are becoming, sadly, an even more rare experience. As for my own experience already, it is very limited. You’ve probably guessed why I’m on this site already – I need that extra confidence booster, I need to spark up my sexual life. I’ve tried a myriad of things to produce results I am happy with but none of them seem to work. I’ve also done a lot of research about pheromones and the principles behind them, and they _seem_ like a great idea. Did I forget to mention that I am a born sceptic! Yes, that right, I thought I’d tell you before I continue. For me, if I can’t see it; then it’s not there! Some call me doubting Thomas; others just say I’m naive. The thing is, if the pheromones really work for me then my whole mind-set will completely change! For this I am keeping an open mind. I think that’s enough of my life story for now! I intend in buying some pheromones very soon to see if they are actually worth the money and trip from America to England. (I live in London, by the way). I found smartmones after hours and hours of research amongst many other pheromone sites. So now comes the time where I need to choose the right stuff to buy. If anyone has experience in using pheromones or if anyone is in the same position as I am in, maybe you could suggest something to get me started. I’d really appreciate that, as I am a complete newbie. Thanks for the great site, again. **Chris P.** ---
**Author:** ![josef](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/josef/32/2007_2.png) [@josef](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/josef)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 1:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-newbie-coming-through/20861/2 "2008-10-05T13:52:54Z")
well hello Chris and welcome to the forums. we get pretty much every age, race, size and shape here so believe me there are other people in your spot who have been there and done that, and provided some kind of feedback that might be worth your time to attempt to replicate. this is the second time in less than a week now that i want to reference a study done that implied that “larger” guys produce more -nols naturally than non “large” guys. i can’t copy and paste a link right off the bat but i will try and search for it. this means you could have the start of a very friendly, personable relationship already, you just need a few more confidence builders under your belt to get your game up and running. any girl, anywhere is an opportunity for you to build your confidence. try some [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), it is noticeable without being loud. sort of like the symbol of a pizza on the restaurant sign rather than the neon part of the sign. Turn Up The Heat is like that neon. if you go for some ammo (and if the other testing is correct in stating that bigger guys produce more -nols) then you might have just the right combo to encourage more confidence building opportunities that lead to one real good one. CTTM 2 is supposed to encourage the conversation from your end. haven’t tried it yet but it will be on the way shortly and i’m sure it won’t disappoint. there is literally a dozen hours or more of reading material, research, thoughts theories and conjecture here that should help answer a few of your questions, guide you in the right direction for you and hopefully encourage you to add your own feedback should you decide to try these things for yourself. good luck ---
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 2:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-newbie-coming-through/20861/3 "2008-10-05T14:03:59Z")
Welcome to the forum, Chris and great introduction right there. What are your usual venues for meeting women with your mates? I’d encourage you to also check out the “socials” like Instant Honesty, Instant Shine, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) which are really good. Check out the congruence threads and also a thread stickied in the ladies’ section that points out what pheromones can and can’t do. Oh and I was doubting as well, til I saw the results with my own eyes! ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 2:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-newbie-coming-through/20861/4 "2008-10-05T14:23:30Z")
Welcome to the forum, Chris. In addition to the good suggestions above, you may wish to consider ig. It gives a reserved male aura that many women find very comforting and attractive. Please let us know how your experiments come out. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2008, 12:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-newbie-coming-through/20861/5 "2008-10-06T00:33:01Z")
Hello Chris Welcome to Pherotalk 😉 So your looking for something to boost your confidence a bit and get you in the game. Mones can give you a edge but they wont do all the work for you. Since your a skeptic I suggest you read “what mones can do and what they cant do” so you have a clear picture on how they work. The link is below in my signature. I suggest you start with AMMO, Ishine and IO. AMMO is sexy attractive and mildly arousing. It can boost your confidence levels a little to. Ishine is warm charismatic upbeat and draws people to you. Another booster of confidence. IO is a happy friendly chatty icebreaker mix to increase socialization. If you have any questions just ask. We look forward to your participation in the forum. **Your GC is on its way 😃** Tisha