# Hey peoples **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 25, 2008, 7:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-peoples/16276 "2008-07-25T19:25:03Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![SpecialK](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ec9cab/32.png) [@SpecialK](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SpecialK)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 7:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-peoples/16276/1 "2008-07-25T19:25:03Z")
Hi, my name is Kevin. I’m pretty much here because I need some help with relationships. For the most part, they’re few and far in between. I’m pretty heavy set, but I have no problem in getting women to like me or spark meaningful friendships . Far from it. My problem is that I always seem to be that Best friend (like a brother guy) and I can’t seem to get women to be interested in having an actual relationship with me. Frankly, it’s beginning to chip away at my confidence and self-esteem. Anyway, I’d love to get some help and insight from the people that frequent this forum. Help a guy out! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 7:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-peoples/16276/2 "2008-07-25T19:39:47Z")
Hello Kevin, welcome! Now i know where the Special K nickname came 😃 Alot of guys are getting frustrated by this kind of friendship situations, so dont worry you are not alone! I would say that your best bet will be ammo, it is a great attraction product that will reduce the “let be friend” from ladies. In addition you will be more confident and have a higher self esteem, both from the product and from the placebo effect. So good luck and let us know if you have anymore questions! ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 7:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-peoples/16276/3 "2008-07-25T19:47:04Z")
Hi Kevin Good to have you as a member here in Pherotalk 🙂 Yes i understand how you feel there about friendship relationships. Ok i got my recommendation for your situation there, try Turn Up The Heat & [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) as it will deepen the relationship & make it more intimate like you say make women more interested in having an actual relationship with you 🙂 You can try AMMO too as recommended by my buddy Mockingbird too as it is a good attraction phero 🙂 For more info about pheros here check this link\> [mens pheromone guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168) See ya 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SpecialK](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ec9cab/32.png) [@SpecialK](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SpecialK)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 8:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-peoples/16276/4 "2008-07-25T20:21:57Z")
Ah, thanks for the advice. Although, I’m not sure it’s really beneficial to tell me there’s a placebo effect, haha. I think I’ll go with ammo as my first [pheromone](https://a314.com/). I kinda want to warm myself up to this seeing as I’ve never tried it before. If I like the results (or don’t like them, whatever the case haha) I’ll likely end up buying the other ones you’ve suggested. Although, honestly, I’m willing to try anything right now to get me out of this rut. My problems aside, though, which ones do you guys find yourselves using the most? Just out of curiousity. ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 8:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-peoples/16276/5 "2008-07-25T20:25:27Z")
Hi Kevin, welcome to the forum. Good suggestions from the other guys already, you may want to do some reading to get you up to speed. Check out the sticky threads that are at the tops of this forum and the Men’s forum. Good luck, enjoy your stay! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 9:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-peoples/16276/6 "2008-07-25T21:27:52Z")
Hello Kevin Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 How old are you ? This will help me better point you in the right direction product wise. MB misused the word placebo. I believe he is referring to self effects. Mones can effect the person wearing them as well as those around you. AMMO tends to boost your confidence as well as attract others. Its sexy. smells great and can cause mild arousal. Since your looking to break out of the friends box I suggest you lean more toward the masculine sexual mones. IG AMMO TUTH A314 or one of its variations like MX173. For you social go with Ishine or CTTM. Pnce I know how old you are I can narrow it down a little. If you have any questions just ask. 😃 **Your GC will go out shortly** 😃 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![SiriusC](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/siriusc/32/1764_2.png) [@SiriusC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SiriusC)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 10:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-peoples/16276/7 "2008-07-25T22:06:44Z")
Ahh dude, that means you’re a genuine person. You’re good-hearted. I have the same problems too. If I want a real good thing going with a chick I end up being too nice & I don’t make a move out of some kind of respect mechanism in my screwey brain. Conversely, I’ve had a few ‘one night stands’ but they never work out long term. You (and myself) just have to find a happy medium. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2008, 12:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-peoples/16276/8 "2008-07-26T00:14:02Z")
> [@SpecialK](#): > > Ah, thanks for the advice. Although, I’m not sure it’s really beneficial to tell me there’s a placebo effect, haha. I think I’ll go with ammo as my first pheromone. I kinda want to warm myself up to this seeing as I’ve never tried it before. If I like the results (or don’t like them, whatever the case haha) I’ll likely end up buying the other ones you’ve suggested. Although, honestly, I’m willing to try anything right now to get me out of this rut. My problems aside, though, which ones do you guys find yourselves using the most? Just out of curiousity. Well Kevin if you want to know what i find myself using the most well it gotta to be Instant Openness 2X, [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/)(just recently), MX273(just recently) & Turn Up The Heat 🙂 Just check out my reports & you will see mostly i wear all that 🙂 See you 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SpecialK](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ec9cab/32.png) [@SpecialK](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SpecialK)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2008, 1:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-peoples/16276/9 "2008-07-26T01:26:47Z")
Alright cool. Thanks for satisfying my curiousity. As for me, I’m 24, male, and live in the San Diego area. > [@SiriusC](#): > > Ahh dude, that means you’re a genuine person. You’re good-hearted. I have the same problems too. If I want a real good thing going with a chick I end up being too nice & I don’t make a move out of some kind of respect mechanism in my screwey brain. Conversely, I’ve had a few ‘one night stands’ but they never work out long term. > > You (and myself) just have to find a happy medium. That’s basically me in a nutshell. You nailed it.