Hi Kevin
Good to have you as a member here in Pherotalk 
Yes i understand how you feel there about friendship relationships.
Ok i got my recommendation for your situation there, try Turn Up The Heat & Instant Honesty as it will deepen the relationship & make it more intimate like you say make women more interested in having an actual relationship with you You can try AMMO too as recommended by my buddy Mockingbird too as it is a good attraction phero
For more info about pheros here check this link> mens pheromone guide
See ya