# Hey there...looking for some advice :) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 29, 2010, 8:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-looking-for-some-advice/42174 "2010-09-29T20:45:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![osource](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/e9a140/32.png) [@osource](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/osource)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2010, 8:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-looking-for-some-advice/42174/1 "2010-09-29T20:45:36Z")
Hello guys. I made my first order two days ago so I thought i’d introduce myself. I’m an 18 yr old guy, who has just started a university course in the uk. I’ve been partying for the last 3-4 days as it’s freshers week over here and it’s my first year. I’m a little sick so I thought i’d take this night to recover for tomorrow (which is when i should be getting my order!) hehe. My first order consists of TUTH, A314, IH, and IO. I found out about mones through my dad who also uses them. Through the past few days, i’ve met loads of people, most of who’s names i’ve completely forgotten as like everyone else, I was totally wasted. I’m a confident guy or atleast I try to be, but at times also a little insecure for certain reasons. I don’t consider myself bad looking however I think i’m a little harsh on myself at times. I’ve only had one girlfriend, and I usually blame it on living in 3 countries throughout my life, however I know it’s really down to me. I don’t really find it hard to meet people, but talking to people in my accomodation has proven to be a little difficult so far. I’ve previously lived in london (which I hated) until moving into university housing. What am I doing wrong? I’ve been asking that from myself lately. I’ve read up on the mones i’ve ordered and some of the other ones, but it would be great if someone could give me an idea of how I could use the ones in my order. I met this girl I really like, but the feelings are definitely not mutual although i’m not exactly certain about how she feels and whether/how I can change that. I understand that mones arent “magic potions” as stated in another thread, but I am confident that this is a good start. I feel it’s a little pathetic that i’m writing all this here though. All I can hear outside right now is “chug chug chug chug”. I’ll be out there tomorrow 😉 Thank you for the help and mones. Edit: I have a feeling i’ll need to order AMMO, IS, and IG too. [P130](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p130/) also seems interesting. ---
**Author:** ![JAYCEE1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b4bc9f/32.png) [@JAYCEE1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JAYCEE1)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2010, 9:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-looking-for-some-advice/42174/2 "2010-09-29T21:18:07Z")
Welcome! A314 & IH can cause the “fallout effect” in your target. It’s a very powerful combo. The fallout effect is not instant, it does require some time spent with the girl exposed to the mix. A314 can help with confidence, but eventually you will need to change what’s on the inside. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![Vespero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vespero/32/988_2.png) [@Vespero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vespero)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2010, 9:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-looking-for-some-advice/42174/3 "2010-09-29T21:50:10Z")
Welcome to the forum, osource! It sounds like you’re already familiar with [pheromones](https://a314.com/) and have also identified some aspects of yourself that you’d like to improve. Why are you finding it difficult to talk to people? By your accommodation, you are referring to what I would call a dormitory in the United States, correct? You’ve already picked a few good procucts. At first, IO and IH will probably be the most useful to you, as some younger women are intimidated by androstenone, which is in TUTH. However, if you buffer it with IO and/or IH, you’ll probably have a pretty good combo. Of course, if you are looking for a potential long-term relationship, the comb Jaycee recommended is great. A314 can be an intimidating mix, but it signals to others that you are in charge and high status. IH takes that intimidating edge off, so people feel like they can actually approach you and talk to you. And high-status plus approachability is gold to girls that actually want to get to know a guy, rather than just have a one-night-stand. So, I wish you luck and hope to hear how things go when you get your order. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![osource](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/e9a140/32.png) [@osource](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/osource)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2010, 10:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-looking-for-some-advice/42174/4 "2010-09-29T22:02:03Z")
Thank you for your replies. Yes, I meant dormitory. I picked up a few british words since i’ve been living here for over 5 years now, but I plan to move back to canada after my course. I guess, talking to some of the people in my dormitory seems to be more difficult as 1. I have a canadian accent so they don’t always understand me. 2. I don’t have as many things in common with them as the people from here. 3. Maybe it’s only because i’ve been focusing on this girl rather than trying to enjoy myself. When I get drunk, i’m a lot more talkative, but I think i came on too hard as she seems to be sort avoiding me. It’s the first week though, so pretty much anything can happen. I will definitely try both of your suggestions and post about the results. Thanks again! ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2010, 1:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-looking-for-some-advice/42174/5 "2010-09-30T01:22:14Z")
Hi and welcome! The guys have made excellent suggestions for you. You don’t really need TUTH or [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) at your age, right now you’re making plenty of your own sexy pheros. Too much can creep girls out. And you’re right, just focus on yourself and have fun, the rest will follow! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 10:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-looking-for-some-advice/42174/6 "2010-10-05T22:09:00Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Osource! Now, I am from the islands and am not sure if with culture comes differences with the dating and mating patterns. I am not saying and please note that you can get someone to love you if they don’t but in our culture us females have a saying : “he grew on me” This basically means that you did not love or even like the person initially but after noticing them and them being around often you start to develop a want to see them more. Now, that tiny seed in the right hands have nurtured some major marital trees if you know what I mean. Pheromones at your age can work but the ones that are not mone heavy and you have to use sparingly. IG is a good pheromone for you to use along with instant honesty so the girl feels like she can trust and open up to you. Options are what we have here. You can pop into the men section and let all the older experience cats help you with your mating skills or just call our hot-line and get your advice from the man himself, Steve. Your gc was issued. 😃