# Hey there! Need to get out of "friend zone" **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 12, 2013, 2:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-need-to-get-out-of-friend-zone/60208 "2013-10-12T14:15:26Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![1sttimeforpheros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/1/b5e925/32.png) [@1sttimeforpheros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1sttimeforpheros)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2013, 2:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-need-to-get-out-of-friend-zone/60208/1 "2013-10-12T14:15:26Z")
Hey everyone, I’m new here and I’m looking for some help from [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/), I’m a 19 year old guy from the UK, and I’d like some advice on suitable pheromones to use to help me escape the supposed ‘‘friend zone’’… I know that pheromones on their own are not that answer, but I hope they combined with some changes in how I act etc could help Basically, we’ve been friends for a long time and I developed feelings for her, around her I’m generally pretty reserved and natural (e.g. I can put on bravado in a bar and get someone interested) but I’d like to try move this towards a relationship… She’s the same age as me, and is one of those people who worries about being ‘liked’ (as in approved) I’m not sure if that would affect which pheromones might help me? Thanks for reading, I just thought I might as well try them out, and after looking around a few posts everyone seems really friendly 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2013, 3:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-need-to-get-out-of-friend-zone/60208/2 "2013-10-12T15:06:27Z")
If she doesn’t have feelings for you that way there isn’t much you can do to change it. Pheromones aren’t magical and there is no magical trick either that will compel her to be interested in you in that way. Unfortunately you have 2 options with 3 outcomes. Tell her how you feel and nothing changes (unlikely), tell her how you feel and her end the friendship (then she’s not a true friend anyway), tell her how you feel and perhaps she feels the same. Now, you could still experiment here before telling her. Perhaps she thinks YOU aren’t into her like that. I’d get some Ammunition and P83. 1-2 squirts of Ammo every time you are with her and 20-30mcg of P83. You could also get [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and skirt around the subject with her to see if she might have secret feelings for you. Welcome to the forum and best of luck either way. ---
**Author:** ![1sttimeforpheros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/1/b5e925/32.png) [@1sttimeforpheros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1sttimeforpheros)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2013, 3:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-need-to-get-out-of-friend-zone/60208/3 "2013-10-12T15:14:57Z")
> [@ryanmercer](#): > > If she doesn’t have feelings for you that way there isn’t much you can do to change it. Pheromones aren’t magical and there is no magical trick either that will compel her to be interested in you in that way. > > Unfortunately you have 2 options with 3 outcomes. Tell her how you feel and nothing changes (unlikely), tell her how you feel and her end the friendship (then she’s not a true friend anyway), tell her how you feel and perhaps she feels the same. > > Now, you could still experiment here before telling her. Perhaps she thinks YOU aren’t into her like that. I’d get some Ammunition and P83. 1-2 squirts of Ammo every time you are with her and 20-30mcg of P83. You could also get Instant Honesty and skirt around the subject with her to see if she might have secret feelings for you. > > Welcome to the forum and best of luck either way. Yeah I understand, I’d like to experiment though just in case of a scenario like that (however unlikely) and even then, in general I’d like to see how pheromones can help elsewhere in dating and general life. I’ll definitely take a look at both of those and thanks for your honest response, I appreciate it 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2013, 3:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-need-to-get-out-of-friend-zone/60208/4 "2013-10-12T15:55:29Z")
Quite welcome. How’d you find the forum by the way? ---
**Author:** ![1sttimeforpheros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/1/b5e925/32.png) [@1sttimeforpheros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1sttimeforpheros)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2013, 5:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-need-to-get-out-of-friend-zone/60208/5 "2013-10-12T17:44:33Z")
I actually heard about this sort of use for them on wikipedia… I think I started on an article about meteors and (as you do with wikipedia) an hour later was on the [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) article 😛 this was one of the top google results for a forum about it all 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2013, 5:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-need-to-get-out-of-friend-zone/60208/6 "2013-10-12T17:51:02Z")
> [@1sttimeforpheros](#): > > I actually heard about this sort of use for them on wikipedia… I think I started on an article about meteors and (as you do with wikipedia) an hour later was on the pheromone article 😛 this was one of the top google results for a forum about it all 🙂 Yeah, I try to avoid wikipedia because it ends up stealing hours of my life at a time. ---
**Author:** ![1sttimeforpheros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/1/b5e925/32.png) [@1sttimeforpheros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1sttimeforpheros)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2013, 5:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-need-to-get-out-of-friend-zone/60208/7 "2013-11-04T05:33:39Z")
Phero’s finally turned up today! Got a free P91 sample… I was wondering what sort of effects that might have if used with the ammo/p83? Also, in general, not specific to the girl I mentioned, what sort of ‘mix’ would you classify ammo/p83 as? Does it have a certain effect that ammo on its own wouldn’t etc? Thanks 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2013, 6:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-need-to-get-out-of-friend-zone/60208/8 "2013-11-04T06:29:37Z")
Better to test P91 on its own before combining it with other pheros. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/)/P83 is a bit more physically and emotionally disinhibited. I will help promote physical interaction and possibly help any repressed feelings to slip out. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2013, 4:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-need-to-get-out-of-friend-zone/60208/9 "2013-11-05T16:08:44Z")
Welcome 1st, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving pheromones a chance. Your gc was issued!