# Hey there...The right mix for my personality? **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 8, 2009, 10:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-the-right-mix-for-my-personality/33928 "2009-11-08T22:15:15Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![OhMYGawd](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/5f8ce5/32.png) [@OhMYGawd](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/OhMYGawd)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2009, 10:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-the-right-mix-for-my-personality/33928/1 "2009-11-08T22:15:15Z")
(Bold section is the main point) I’m a 20 year old male currently living and going to a community college in southern jersey. I’m fairly new to the whole pheromone scene. I got curious from ads I saw for pherlure, and about a year and half ago I bought a couple bottles. I didnt see any noticible differences from the normal hits I get. But the shaving gel included as a free gift really got my gf at the time goin pretty good when she smelled it on my neck whenever I wore it, so I knew pheromones could work under the right circumstances. Im what id guess is an above average looking guy with a good personality and I dont really have a problem getting women that I know attracted to me, for the most part many of the women I know started out liking me and thinking im attractive, etc. And if I want to take it further I do. but . I just want to find a little bit of that edge where women i dont know look and immediately notice that “theres just something about that guy” thing that theyre attracted to I guess you could say. It just seems that lately my sex life has come to somewhat of a standstill because I seem to be meeting less people (Mainly because of my semi-shyness at school since I dont know a single person in any of my classes, and I noticed one group of friends “forgetting” to call me whenever women are around lol). Even before my pheromone use I got signals similar to what I read some people get from androstenone, it was a pain but I can live with it (My friends hating the attention I get from women, and openly resenting me, almost trying to compete with me in social situations, because of their insecurities. ) It gets to the point a lot of times that I even need to dampen my personality sometimes so i dont make them resentful and argumentative around women ( and they arent those types of guys usually, none of them have that much of a problem getting women). Doesnt happen all the time but a lot more than Id like. **Im about 511 175lbs, an athletic and muscular build (not really bulky). What im looking for is basically a pheromone mix for every day use(work, school, etc) that matches my personality, and just enhances it I guess you could say.** **Im definitely an alpha type personality (not instant jerk like most of the time, more semi peaceful but with some edge for sure, sounds a little stupid but Im seen as a fun loving bad boy ive been told lol, can be a little bit of an asshole but not most of the time)**\*\* very fun and outgoing with people I know, can be very flirtatious with women when in a comfortable setting, but definitely can be a little shy or quiet in settings where I dont know people (like my college classes, or some jobs, etc.). I bought a few bottles the other day to start testing out what works for me but I want some advice for sure from people that know the most about this stuff. Want something to match my personality and just enhance it I guess you could say. \*\* I got TUTH (usually 1 spray for parties etc and 2 for intimate occassions) Instant Gentlemen To Go for everyday usually my base so far (I love the cool, confident vibe it gives, but I really dont think it has the edge to match my personality or the sexual side I want for every day stuff like school or whatnot) Instant shine also for all occasions (think it should add to my fun loving trait) and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) To Go (for certain parties or semi intimate dates etc) So what sprays and mixes would be good for me? Thanks for the help! ---
**Author:** ![K-Train](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k-train/32/2253_2.png) [@K-Train](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K-Train)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2009, 10:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-the-right-mix-for-my-personality/33928/2 "2009-11-08T22:21:22Z")
OMG, what’s up!😃 Lol, but seriously, TUTH isn’t a good product to wear everyday, it’s meant for when you can expect to “seal the deal” with a girl in the right setting. So lay off that for a while. Also, if you’re an Alpha personality then I definitely say you need to get A314 because that’s EXACTLY what it does. Communicates the impression of a high value, handsome, man. I’ve been using it for a while and it doesn’t fail to deliver. It’s also GREAT to wear in almost any setting so you’ll never have to worry about that. Instant Shine is a nice mood boosting phero so it will help make you and everyone else feel cheerful and also tends to make girls more touchy feely. Great stuff. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) is good for promoting bonding and I’m glad you have it. Use it for when you want to get to know a girl better and she’ll be spilling the beans in no time. If you need more help, just ask!🆒 EDIT: I almost forgot your mixes lol. 2 Sprays IG and 3 sprays IH. Make sure you put the IH on the BACK of your neck to avoid self effects. This should make people feel like they can trust you and has a nice bonding effect when used on girls. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2009, 10:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-the-right-mix-for-my-personality/33928/3 "2009-11-08T22:51:05Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. IG is one of my favorite bases. Just do a search under my name and you will find a lot of entries with IG. In fact, over the last several months my favorite daily mix has been: 2 sprays IG to the throat (probably 3 from a To Go) 1 spray IH 4X to the back of the neck 1 spray IShine 4X to the wrists This is for when I do not need to be “the Boss”. Then it is A314 and IH. So as you see K Train has given you some good advice. To include the part about spraying IH to the back of the neck to cut down on self-effects. You want them feeling very connected to you and talking a lot about what is important to them. You do not want to develop motor mouth. He also gave you some good advice about TUTH - it is not the kinda thing you want to wear daily. Even wearing it out to go clubbing I would consider adding some IShine to it to make it more friendly sexual vibe. ---
**Author:** ![OhMYGawd](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/5f8ce5/32.png) [@OhMYGawd](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/OhMYGawd)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2009, 1:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-the-right-mix-for-my-personality/33928/4 "2009-11-09T01:48:43Z")
Hey thanks guys. Its nice to see people here who know so much about this, its really interesting even without the social aspect. But yeah I’ve been reading the forums for about a week now and I cant wait to get the chance to try everything. A few things though, Yeah the only time I used TUTH so far is 1 spray for a halloween party along with a little IH, IS, and a few IG sprays. I read that it can have adverse effects in the wrong circumstances so I plan to only use it like you guys said, for more intimate dates. But I did seem to be getting good results at that party, do you think it would be acceptable to use a spray or so at parties if buffered? Ya know to just add a little bit of sexualness to my signature? And what would be the best to open people up along with myself (to counteract my newfound shy tendencies in classes) IO? Or is there something thats better for that (Ive read about the different MX and P series)? And A314? I know its for the alpha male respect, but does it have a sexual side at all? Im really interested in something to be used as a base for during the day activities that shows confidence, masculinity, and at least a little sexual spark that wont be to overwhelming in the day like TUTH. IG just doesnt feel like it has that, and I almost feel like it puts me a step backwards from without 'nones a little bit by painting the image that I’m cool, but “just a friend” (which usually doesnt happen). Would [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) fit that description? Or is there a good combo to use? And one more thing, A314 and IG, do they go together? Hoping it would maybe lower the intimidating effect a little. If I use A314 I would probably only use a drop maybe less to avoid just that, dont want to come across as standoffish. Im confident, but not a dick that thinks he better than people ya know lol. EDIT: Also, am I wrong about IG? Does it have a sexual side or do I indeed need to keep looking? Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![silentscope](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/silentscope/32/2218_2.png) [@silentscope](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silentscope)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2009, 8:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-the-right-mix-for-my-personality/33928/5 "2009-11-09T08:22:27Z")
Hi, Welcome to the forum, IG a great product to use with good results for me I don’t know about IG be sexual but there was one time I went to a bar and the waitress came over and using she hand tracing/tracking down my arm. Later on when I when back she did the same thing I was wearing Ig. Chris ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2009, 6:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-the-right-mix-for-my-personality/33928/6 "2009-11-09T18:53:00Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk OhmyGawd! Your introduction was very informative and I got so much from it. You obviously do have a lot of sex appeal and is further in the game than most. You just need the [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) and some techniques to up your game. Good times, the men already gave you some great advice and will take you through with their experience not only in pheromones but with women. **Your GC was issued!** ---
**Author:** ![OhMYGawd](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/5f8ce5/32.png) [@OhMYGawd](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/OhMYGawd)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2009, 2:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-the-right-mix-for-my-personality/33928/7 "2009-11-10T02:23:33Z")
> [@kelsey](#): > > Welcome to Pherotalk OhmyGawd! > > Your introduction was very informative and I got so much from it. You obviously do have a lot of sex appeal and is further in the game than most. > > You just need the pheromones and some techniques to up your game. > > Good times, the men already gave you some great advice and will take you through with their experience not only in pheromones but with women. > > **Your GC was issued!** Thanks for the GC Ill definitely be purchasing these pheros for a while. ---
**Author:** ![nikefredo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/e9bcb4/32.png) [@nikefredo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nikefredo)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2009, 6:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there-the-right-mix-for-my-personality/33928/8 "2009-12-31T06:31:14Z")
‘everyday use’ that’s what I saw that stood out… Mones should NOT be used everyday its a waste. Sooner or later you will stop noticing self-effects why? Well b-c you will be used to those mones and your body will slow(if long enough stop) production of mones. That will be a waste of money and time. EVERYTHING IN MODERATION! besides that mones will help you become that guy that you wannabe you will feel like you can do anything because you can ! Oh and buy A314! You’ll never look back after that… p.s. I tend to say more than needs to be said but I feel its a must! The more you kno that better period.