# Hey there **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 13, 2008, 6:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/17455 "2008-08-13T18:43:32Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![LucasJ](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lucasj/32/838_2.png) [@LucasJ](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LucasJ)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2008, 6:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/17455/1 "2008-08-13T18:43:32Z")
Hey there guys šŸ™‚! Well to start off the introduction, iā€™m Male, 18 years old and iā€™m living in the United Kingdom, but iā€™m actually French! Haha i think itā€™s true the French are patriotic, i mean iā€™m nearly always mentioning iā€™m French when introducing myself lo0l. I heard about Pheromones a long time ago, but i forgot about it all. Then i saw an advert on TV for some hair gel which had pheromones in them. Couldnā€™t remember what pheromones did again so i asked and i remembered. Thought nothing of it. Then i was surfing a website and i think i saw an advertisement for some pheromone website. Thought iā€™d check it out, and then i just closed that site and headed for Google i think because it got me intrigued. Anyway so i typed in Pheromones and ended up here (nice ranking on Google šŸ˜‰!) It was interesting to read a few topics of peopleā€™s experiences, so that got me interested and i thought that i could do with some of them. Dude talk about an introduction, youā€™re writing a whole essay here man. Haha, yeah so anyway my situation. So as i said iā€™m 18, and to be honest iā€™ve not really seen much of life. Well the social aspects of it, i mean iā€™ve travelled a lot, had experiences, iā€™ve lived, but iā€™ve not had much social interaction. Especially since i got a computer, iā€™m on it all the time now. I hardly (if ever) go out with friends. Maybe itā€™s because i donā€™t feel in my place here in the UK. Anyway. Iā€™m a good guy, never really looking for trouble, always trying to settle things. Easy going. Iā€™m also pretty shy i think, and i lack a bit of self confidence. That means that on the rare occasions that i do go out with friends, i feel good and all, but thereā€™s not many people talking to me. Even my friends, they just talk with the other friends and sometimes drop me a line. Iā€™m not very talkative, but as you can see, i have a lot to say. So i do enjoy talking and i wish people could come forward and talk to me since iā€™m finding it hard to take the first step. This is where pheromones kick in. I was looking, and it looks like [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and Instant Openess seem good. However i donā€™t want to spend $100 on my first transaction, i want to try it all out. So iā€™m pondering which one to choose. Instant Shine to give me some confidence and self esteem, or Instant Openess to make people come talk to me? Also since i donā€™t want to spend like $25 on shipping, iā€™d chose the basic shipping at $10 and iā€™m wondering if anyone has had problems with that (i live in the UK). Last thing, when it arrives through the mail.. the box (envelope) doesnā€™t have in big bold letters ā€œPHEROMONESā€ on it does it lol? I donā€™t really feel comfortable at the moment with everyone knowing i buy these haha. Well thanks and have fun reading my intro LOL šŸ˜‰ ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2008, 8:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/17455/2 "2008-08-13T20:26:43Z")
hi welcome to the forum! guys will be able to help you out better than i can but i can tell u a bit about social pheros. i see uve done some research on instant shine. i have one right now, i think it helps me to be more optimistic and more approacheable in social situations. also, instant openness increases the quantity of conversation, which can also help wiht social situations. anyways, welcome! ---
**Author:** ![RaiderMagic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/bc79bd/32.png) [@RaiderMagic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RaiderMagic)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2008, 8:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/17455/3 "2008-08-13T20:28:06Z")
Lucas! Welcome to this forum! Wow this is a really long introduction! Props for that. You sound a lot like me. I think that the products that you chose are pretty good. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and Instant Openess will definitely do wonders for your confidence and will make you more talkative as well. Donā€™t worry about the packaging. It wonā€™t say PHEROMONES in big red bold letters on it. Itā€™s actually discrete and you will have to open the package to fine out what it is. I hope you enjoy your stay here! ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2008, 8:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/17455/4 "2008-08-13T20:28:10Z")
Howdy Lucas, welcome to pherotalk! The mens sticky section is great place to begin reading, the posts there will have you more familiar with the products available in no time. Ammunition and instant shine seem to be forum favorites among the men but I do suggest you look in to instant openness or instant honesty too. Both are great for creating comfort and ease to a conversation. The package doesnā€™t scream [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/), itā€™s a yellow and red dhl envelope with the return address of A P R so no one who accepts it for you will know the contents. Have fun! ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2008, 8:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/17455/5 "2008-08-13T20:29:34Z")
Hi lucas! OMG, that is the longest intro, Iā€™ve ever seen!!! Very nice! Since youā€™re just 18, go with the unisex products such as instant shine, instant openness, and instant honesty. Instant shine makes you feel cheery, and others around you are in a happy mood Instant openness is great for prolonging conversations, people will feel comfortable talking to youā€¦for a long long time lol Instant honest is great to break the ice, and make conversations more interesting šŸ˜‰ Have fun! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2008, 11:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/17455/6 "2008-08-13T23:40:18Z")
Hello Lucas Welcome to Pherotalk šŸ™‚ Well mones wont do you much good if you wont get out there and mingle with people. Your going to have to turn off the PC once in a while and get out there and enjoy living. Mones will help you. I suggest IO and Ishine as well as AMMO to start. They come in to-go sizes so you can try them out before spending big bucks šŸ˜ƒ Just look for the link on the left on the smartmones home page. They only use DHL at this time and shipping is usually pretty fast. I know the home page needs to be changed. I keep telling them. The package is discrete APR direct for the return no mention of what is inside. I suggest you read the links in my signature so you can get a good feel for what mones can do. If you have questions we are here for you. **Your GC will go out shortly šŸ˜ƒ** Tish ---
**Author:** ![LucasJ](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lucasj/32/838_2.png) [@LucasJ](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LucasJ)\ **Post date:** [August 14, 2008, 12:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/17455/7 "2008-08-14T00:28:32Z")
Hey thanks for the reply and opinions guys šŸ™‚ Thank you Tisha, yeah donā€™t worry about that haha! I know that Pheromones wonā€™t act by themselves, but i think they could help my situation. So that next time i go out, one or two sprays and itā€™ll hopefully have an affect. Getting some more interaction with people. As i said iā€™m open for interaction, but iā€™m just a little shy and people donā€™t really come to me, maybe i intimidate them heh šŸ˜› Once i see that i can have fun outside interacting with people, iā€™m sure it will push me away from this damn computer ^^ Well thanks again, iā€™ll see how things go and hopefully iā€™ll be back soon šŸ˜ƒ Actually no i should be away from the computer shouldnā€™t i be? Haha i guess i can make an exception for PheroTalk.