# Hey there **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 30, 2009, 7:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/29408 "2009-05-30T07:18:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![adamepz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/71e660/32.png) [@adamepz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/adamepz)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 7:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/29408/1 "2009-05-30T07:18:40Z")
Hey im adam im a 22 year old guy, and i need help getting women to notice me. I have never been with a woman, and i am exploding inside. I need some help improving my game and this would be a great way to start. ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 8:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/29408/2 "2009-05-30T08:23:13Z")
Hi adamepz, welcome to the forum! 🙂 There’s a lot of people who find themselves here for the same reason. So you’re certainly not alone. There are experienced users here who can guide you on your quest. Not only are they expert in the use of pheromones…they also know a whole heck about life and how to play _‘the game’_… but first we need to know a little more about you, your personality and how you found us. Then we can recommend some products for you to start with. Providing this information will earn you a juicy $25.00 Gift Certificate to get you started! This sticky will help - [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) Then you should go to the top of the men’s forum and take your time reading the sticky’s there - [MEN’s Pheromone Advice, Tricks and Tips at PheromoneTalk.com](http://www.pheromonetalk.com/mens-pheromone-advice-tricks-tips/) Then check out these threads - [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/27326](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/27326) [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/congruence-whats-that/9805](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/congruence-whats-that/9805) Pheromones are a great tool…once you learn what they can and can’t do. You need to understand they can help but _you_ have to do the work. It’s best to start out with social products like Instant Shine and Instant Openness before jumping to the sexual ones. Women like to be at ease and comfortable with a man before they commit to sex. Trying to rush things makes her think you’re a player and only interested in one thing. AMMO can be a great attractant for women at the right time, under the right circumstances but take it easy as it can scare off young women if overused and bring out unwanted aggression in yourself and others. (Young men pump out an impressive amount of Androstenone on their own.) [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) is also great for projecting a smooth confident vibe and gives an air of wordly sophistication that can be quite a turn on for women. I’m sure the guys will be along soon to welcome you and offer more suggestions. We’re a friendy bunch. 😃 I know you’re anxious and looking for a quick answer but if you relax a bit and invest a little time and energy into reading the above threads you’ll find answers to many of your questions and they’ll take you a long way to understanding how this all works. It’s important to go slow and try one pheromone at a time starting with one spray and increasing sprays gradually until you find the dose and number of sprays that work for you…we call that your “sweet spot”. It’s different for everyone and is achieved by trial and error. Everyone is different and may have different reactions to the same pheromones. Once you figure out how they work individually then you can learn to combine them to your best advantage. It’s really worth the effort to get yourself started on the right foot. Well, I hope this helps and I’ll look forward to seeing you around. Have fun and best of luck! 🙂 Bella ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 8:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/29408/3 "2009-05-30T08:32:34Z")
Hi Adam, welcome to the forum. So we can make targeted suggestions, can you tell us more about you, your personality and what you hope to get out of using [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/)? Eg, do you have someone you are targeting? By providing this info, you will also qualify for the gift certificate that the lovelly Tisha kindly provides. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 9:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/29408/4 "2009-05-30T09:03:25Z")
Hi Adam, Welcome. Tell us more about your personality. Are you the shy type or the outgoing type? Do you have anybody as your target? Who are they? What is the purpose of using pheromones? To attract girls for ltr, sexual or others? Then we can try our best to recommend the right phero for you to try. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![Flirtatious](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/flirtatious/32/2270_2.png) [@Flirtatious](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Flirtatious)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 9:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/29408/5 "2009-05-30T09:04:25Z")
Hi Adam! Do you have someone special in mind? What kind of girls do you like? And what kind of person are you? You’ll find a lot of people who will want to help you! Have fun! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 9:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/29408/6 "2009-05-30T09:36:03Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Whew great run down by the lovely Bella. Please take her advice and check out the links she provided and then pop on back here and tell us some more about yourself and objective for mones. Dont worry you wont explode, thats just as old wives tale LOL Pheromones wont get you laid but it will make it easier for you to diffuse the bomb. 😉 I look forward to your reply Tisha Hostess/Guide