Hi adamepz, welcome to the forum! 
Thereâs a lot of people who find themselves here for the same reason. So youâre certainly not alone.
There are experienced users here who can guide you on your quest. Not only are they expert in the use of pheromonesâŚthey also know a whole heck about life and how to play âthe gameâ⌠but first we need to know a little more about you, your personality and how you found us. Then we can recommend some products for you to start with. Providing this information will earn you a juicy $25.00 Gift Certificate to get you started!
This sticky will help -
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934
Then you should go to the top of the menâs forum and take your time reading the stickyâs there -
MENâs Pheromone Advice, Tricks and Tips at PheromoneTalk.com
Then check out these threads -
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/27326
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/congruence-whats-that/9805
Pheromones are a great toolâŚonce you learn what they can and canât do. You need to understand they can help but you have to do the work.
Itâs best to start out with social products like Instant Shine and Instant Openness before jumping to the sexual ones. Women like to be at ease and comfortable with a man before they commit to sex. Trying to rush things makes her think youâre a player and only interested in one thing. AMMO can be a great attractant for women at the right time, under the right circumstances but take it easy as it can scare off young women if overused and bring out unwanted aggression in yourself and others. (Young men pump out an impressive amount of Androstenone on their own.) Instant Gentleman is also great for projecting a smooth confident vibe and gives an air of wordly sophistication that can be quite a turn on for women.
Iâm sure the guys will be along soon to welcome you and offer more suggestions. Weâre a friendy bunch. 
I know youâre anxious and looking for a quick answer but if you relax a bit and invest a little time and energy into reading the above threads youâll find answers to many of your questions and theyâll take you a long way to understanding how this all works.
Itâs important to go slow and try one pheromone at a time starting with one spray and increasing sprays gradually until you find the dose and number of sprays that work for youâŚwe call that your âsweet spotâ. Itâs different for everyone and is achieved by trial and error. Everyone is different and may have different reactions to the same pheromones. Once you figure out how they work individually then you can learn to combine them to your best advantage. Itâs really worth the effort to get yourself started on the right foot.
Well, I hope this helps and Iâll look forward to seeing you around. Have fun and best of luck!
Bella