# Hey there =) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 25, 2009, 2:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/31854 "2009-08-25T02:24:07Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![carpenoctemxx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/51bf81/32.png) [@carpenoctemxx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/carpenoctemxx)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2009, 2:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/31854/1 "2009-08-25T02:24:07Z")
My name is Kim I’m 18 and from NJ. I’m actually really interested in trying out some of these products and testing out the effects of them. I’m thinking about trying out [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and Instant Sexiness… and Spaceland does seem quite interesting! ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2009, 2:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/31854/2 "2009-08-25T02:32:10Z")
Hey Kim, or is should I say “Sieze the night”? (What are you, a vampire?! 😃 ) Welcome to the forums. If you give us more information we can steer you in the right direction. A bit about your general personality, and what effects you’d liek to see from [pheromones](https://a314.com/), like work, social, attracting people? ---
**Author:** ![carpenoctemxx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/51bf81/32.png) [@carpenoctemxx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/carpenoctemxx)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2009, 2:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/31854/3 "2009-08-25T02:47:38Z")
Gosh where to start… I’m always to one extreme or another and I generally have trouble attracting people in more than a friendly way (at least lately, I swear it hasn’t always been this way)… I definately want something that will help me attract people in both a friendly sense and definately a more sexual sense… I’d be glad to have something to help with my work relationships and their views of me but I’d be more interested in seeing results with my friends and people in more social situations if I had to choose just one… ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2009, 3:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/31854/4 "2009-08-25T03:12:40Z")
Okey dokey… Attracting people in a friendly way: Instant Shine. Makes you seem… a shiny happy people like the song says. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) will break the ice. Sexual Attraction: Instant Sexiness. Some women on the forums like to add copulins (cops) to their phero mixes to give it “oomph”. But the copulins are stinky and must be covered with another scent. You can also combine this with Openness and Shine to be that “sexy but warm and approachable” type of woman. Work: not sure for women… I know some women have experimented with the male pheros for work, like androsterone, to get taken more seriously. You can definitely use Instant Shine at work. In fact Shine is a very safe phero to wear in any situation. Maybe Instant Honesty to get people at work to be frank with you, and then if you know what the issues really are, you can deal with them. ---
**Author:** ![carpenoctemxx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/51bf81/32.png) [@carpenoctemxx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/carpenoctemxx)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2009, 3:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/31854/5 "2009-08-25T03:41:57Z")
Thanks for the info.. I’ve been thinking about trying out Instant Shine too… Unfortunately I’m not quite ready to part with such a large chunk of change.. I’m definately debating between Instant Shine, Instant Sexiness, and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) at the moment. Though Instant Shine would probably be the most useful I’m very interested in seeing the effects of some of the others. I’m going to end up broke if I try out so many haha ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2009, 3:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/31854/6 "2009-08-25T03:54:10Z")
Well, steve should be along with a GC soon… that’ll cover a to-go of a couple of things, I think they run $10-$15 each in to go sizes, so you could probably get sexiness and shine to try out. Each to-go has about 40 sprays, so that’s enough to know if you want to get more. And you can earn rewards by referring friends too (see the store information page). ---
**Author:** ![silentscope](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/silentscope/32/2218_2.png) [@silentscope](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silentscope)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2009, 4:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/31854/7 "2009-08-25T04:01:58Z")
> [@carpenoctemxx](#): > > Thanks for the info.. I’ve been thinking about trying out Instant Shine too… Unfortunately I’m not quite ready to part with such a large chunk of change.. I’m definately debating between Instant Shine, Instant Sexiness, and Instant Honesty at the moment. Though Instant Shine would probably be the most useful I’m very interested in seeing the effects of some of the others. I’m going to end up broke if I try out so many haha Hi,Welcome to the forum,You can start with the to-go sizes and see what you like. the GC will cover at least 2 to-go bottles and whatever you want to buy. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is good from personal experience it with reduce personal space at times.Chris ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2009, 12:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/31854/8 "2009-08-25T12:11:41Z")
Hi Kim, Welcome to the forum! I think you have chosen some great phero’s to start experimenting with 🙂 Would you be able to tell us a bit about your personality and how you relate to others? Are you naturally outgoing and chatty, or a bit more on the shy or introverted side? The reason I ask is that there’s two versions of Instant Sexiness, IS/a and IS/b, and which one is right for you depends on what your personality is like 🙂 You can either choose the one that is closer to your own personality to emphasize it, or you can use the one that’s more unlike you to boost or soften your natural vibe. IS/a gives you a sexy confident & dominant alpha woman type vibe (think Angelina Jolie), whereas IS/b gives a much softer, feminine and sulty vibe (think Marilyn Monroe). Also, at 18 I wouldn’t worry about copulins…copulin production is related to several factors, age being one of the big ones, and at 18 your own production of cops is high. You wouldn’t really need to add any to the IS/a or IS/b unless you want it blatantly sexual…that’s fine for special moments if you’re in a relationship, but not for going to class or hanging out with friends. Also, if you are after a social phero that will help you boost general conversation, then maybe you should look at [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) instead of IH. IO increases the amount, or _quantity_ of conversation, making you and those around you more relaxed and chatty. IH on the other hand increases the _quality_ of communication by giving the conversation a deeper and more intimate feel to it. It’s great for heart to heart’s but for general conversation boosting IO is probably better. 🙂 You mentioned that you were interested in a phero that could help you at work? What exactly is it that you want to improve? Your own confidence? Do you want more respect? Help conversation along? (IO will be great there!) If it’s confidence and respect you are after then the forum favourite is Mx300. It’s a great mix that gives you respect at work by giving you an intelligent & confident alpha woman vibe 🙂 Hope that helps… Let us know if you have any questions 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![carpenoctemxx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/51bf81/32.png) [@carpenoctemxx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/carpenoctemxx)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2009, 1:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/31854/9 "2009-08-25T13:33:43Z")
I’m definately going to try the to go ones to start just to see how it goes.. I’d be afraid to start mixing things just yet so copulins would be a no no either way.. I do tend to be a bit shy with newer people but once I get to know someone I’m much more outgoing. That MX 300 does sound pretty good now that you mention it… it sounds great for work. Having more conversations at work isn’t really a problem since a lot of people I work with are quite chatty to begin with. I’d certainly like to see what [instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A and B would do together though I’d have to wait for a more appropriate time to test that one out haha.. thanks for the help guys =) ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2009, 5:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/31854/10 "2009-08-25T17:44:53Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. Currently we are in the process of seeking out an additional forum moderator or two to help with the upkeep of the forum. With that in mind I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.