# Hey there **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 20, 2011, 3:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/50386 "2011-05-20T03:40:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Joella](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/fbc32d/32.png) [@Joella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Joella)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2011, 3:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/50386/1 "2011-05-20T03:40:58Z")
Hey i’m Abby, new to this, and curious about what types of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) work the best. I’ve heard that essence of woman is a good one, sad that androticsdirect does not carry:/ I’m excited to try the ones they do carry tho, instant honesty fascinates me, if that really does work i could do some serious damage 😉 Anyway I am pursuing a career in marketing and will need to really boost and hone my self-confidence if I am to gain attention and trust. I am constantly talking and interacting with people, I have good social skills but need that edge everyone keeps talking about. Being pretty much fresh out of college I have to say I’m a bit nervous to get out into “real life,” maybe pheromones will prove to be just enough of a boost for me to jump start my career. Oh also bringing on the guys wouldn’t hurt either 🙂 well, actually I do have a boyfriend. Although we are in a bit of a slump right now. Maybe we just need to spice up things in the bedroom. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2011, 5:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/50386/2 "2011-05-20T05:13:17Z")
Welcome Abby. It sounds like you’ve done some research already. A lot of ladies do get good resultw with EOW. IH is a good idea for you. IO is also good and I would suggest you get both. If you have both, once you understand what they do, you have an infinite scale you can slide on by mixing the two. IO tends to blabbling, while IH tends towards soul-baring. Sometimes you want something in between. The effects are diffferent on everyone, depending on your own personality and [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) output, so you have to find out for yourself exactly what works. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2011, 6:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/50386/3 "2011-05-20T06:29:34Z")
Hi Joella, and welcome to the mone forum! You’ve got some excellent tastes…🙂 IH is a great product. I get some excellent conversations, comfortable, with this mone product. Though, a bit of confidence will come with using [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). I like that it gives me a smile in a bottle effect in me. Others are relaxed around me and want to be in my presence. I enjoy it thoroughly and it’s often in my combo’s. For the guys, IS/b would be a very good mone. A kittenish, Natalie Portman vibe, is this one. My wife also tells me it gives her a boost in confidence when she wears it, but, as GWTW mentioned above, you’ll need to test these out on yourself to find out which ones work best for you! Thanks again for posting! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![marko76](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/marko76/32/1030_2.png) [@marko76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/marko76)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2011, 3:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/50386/4 "2011-05-20T15:34:58Z")
Hello, and welcome! I would suggest Instant Honesty, Instant Shine, and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) for the professional side of things, just to start out with. As far as the women’s products go, I don’t know… However I would suggest reading this thread: > [@An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003): > > Welcome to an exciting world of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). By joining our community you have taken a HUGE step in progressing a science that is cutting edge and still in its infancy. This community is globally important in recognizing pheromones, and Neuroinfluence Technology ? and their impact on human communication. There are thousands of posts here and thousands more users. Each one of us, including you, adds a unique dynamic to the community from our individual perspectives, experiences and our research an… It has A LOT of great info to help with the learning curve… 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Joella](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/fbc32d/32.png) [@Joella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Joella)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2011, 7:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/50386/5 "2011-05-20T19:24:26Z")
Thanks for the info, if I’m able to get a $25 gift certificate I’ll use that to try out the IH and IO definitely. Those sound very intriguing. Look forward to using them! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2011, 6:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/50386/6 "2011-05-22T18:24:46Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Joella! It sounds like you have already made up your mind and those are two great products to start with. Let us know down in the ladies section how they work for you. **Your gc was issued! 😉** ---
**Author:** ![Joella](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/fbc32d/32.png) [@Joella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Joella)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2011, 7:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-there/50386/7 "2011-05-22T19:56:25Z")
Thank you!🙂