# Hey yall, TJ from NJ **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 9, 2012, 7:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-yall-tj-from-nj/56668 "2012-09-09T19:19:02Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![uteverett](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/aeb1de/32.png) [@uteverett](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/uteverett)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2012, 7:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-yall-tj-from-nj/56668/1 "2012-09-09T19:19:02Z")
Hey everyone My name is TJ, I am 25 years old and just moved to New Jersey. Im here because I notice everyone wears cologne up here and I smell some really good ones and some that are bad. Its almost as if wearing cologne is neccessay out this way to define a mans personality. Ive heard of this site and looking to meet people and open up. I think Im going to start with the instant openess. Can anyone tell me for if they have had good exp with mixing [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) with abercrombie fierce. I heard a&F has been a staple cologne for years. Also would gentlemen or a314 be better for a man 25 years old in the business enviroment. I dont want to seem like I have more authority than my boss with a314. I just started my job. TJ ---
**Author:** ![Aghor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aghor/32/1558_2.png) [@Aghor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aghor)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2012, 9:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-yall-tj-from-nj/56668/2 "2012-09-09T21:16:55Z")
hello TJ šŸ™‚ Since you just started your job.. I would suggest that you can try either low dose of A314 + some social like instant honestyā€¦ or instant gentleman which projects a similar accomplished vibe like A314 but is more youthful and approachable.. A314 signals status quiet un-apologetically.. so in your case I feel that you should consider atleast finishing using one bottle of instant gentleman before starting with A314. basically to give your boss time to accept the higher status signal and get used to it without being intimidatedā€¦/getting insecure.. which could be bad for you AMMO is a well rounded attractant which doubles up as cologne.. you dont have to even mix any perfumeā€¦ even if u want to use perfume as a cover scent, do not mix it with pheros.. that screws up the dossage. what you can do is spray phero first and after a minute or so apply ur cologne on top of it. here are a few combos u can try.. **WORK:** A314+ [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) + Shine IG + Instant Honesty AMMO + Shine (above two are for impressing the boss this is more for impressing the girls at work and still not get in trouble šŸ˜‰ ) **SOCIAL:** AMMO + SHINE A314 + AMMO + Shine ( to project that accomplished and sexy top dog vibe..) you can also try Mx 297 which is an experimental mix which can turn you into a social butterfly in case you are one of those who hold back when it comes to social interactions.. ---
**Author:** ![TheBoogieMan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theboogieman/32/1136_2.png) [@TheBoogieMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheBoogieMan)\ **Post date:** [September 10, 2012, 1:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-yall-tj-from-nj/56668/3 "2012-09-10T01:12:38Z")
Hey TJ! Welcome to PheroTalk. If you donā€™t mind, tell us a little more about your personality. Are you outgoing, shy, etc.? At 25, in a business environment, I would suggest A314. I personally donā€™t think it will be too much of a problem with your bossā€¦just start out with a low dosage (1 drop; you shouldnā€™t need much more than that anyways) and donā€™t undermine him with your actions/words and you should be fine. Instant Openness is a good product but one aspect to be aware of is that it has the opposite effect on status compare to A314 or Instant Gentleman. It can make you appear low status or ā€œbetaā€ in higher quantities. This serves to make you more approachable but can also have negative effects, especially at work. Donā€™t let that discourage you from trying it, just be aware. You could also try using Instant Honesty instead or both at the same time. As far as mixing it with another cologne, many people here where [pheromone colognes](https://a314.com/shop/) with other brand names colognes though I would suggest mixing them on your skin and not in the same bottle. Have fun! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2012, 1:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey-yall-tj-from-nj/56668/4 "2012-09-12T13:38:03Z")
Welcome TJ, We have quite a few products for attraction and for helping you socially Your situation seems simple enough, I mean what you are looking for in terms of why you want to use pheromones Have fun with these **Your gc was issued!**