Hello bigpimpin & nice to have you as a member of Pherotalk 
Good that you decide to join this forum & your keen interest in pheros
Ok here is my recommendation to your situation there try AMMO(Regular Strength will suit you as i noticed your age there) + Instant Shine + Instant Openness(Try get 2X strength for the Instants if possible)
Here is two links that will be useful to you> What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated on how phero work & mens pheromone guide on AMMO & Instants as well as the other pheros here and i leave it to you to decide on my recommendation there.
I hope i was able to help you out there. See ya