# Hey **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 5, 2008, 3:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/22510 "2008-11-05T03:50:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bmxfreakrider](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e9bcb4/32.png) [@bmxfreakrider](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bmxfreakrider)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 3:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/22510/1 "2008-11-05T03:50:31Z")
Hey whats up everyone, I’m 27, heard about your site through a friend, told me that its a great place to start. I’m in a 2yr relationship (3 weeks ago) and the “spark” of sorts has been lost. I have heard some stories of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) before, seen a few commercials, but never took the time to really look into it. If all else fails then I guess it too would be a good jump back into the playing field. Anyways, yeah. I’m an outdoors-man, practically living on anything with handlebars. I started at about 14 racing BMX (used that name for as long as i can remember), then migrated into motocross at 17. Currently I work in a small motorcycle shop in the downtown district of our neighboring town, and in my off hours I either go riding, or hanging out with my girlfriend/fiance when shes off work. It has been getting real slow between us, she doesn’t really look or act the way she did when we first met. I want to get the spark between us back quick, because I love this chick to death and don’t her to get lost to another guy. The stories I have heard about pheromones saving relationships is quite remarkable, I just have no idea where to start! ---
**Author:** ![bmxfreakrider](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e9bcb4/32.png) [@bmxfreakrider](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bmxfreakrider)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 3:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/22510/2 "2008-11-05T03:56:53Z")
Hey all from cali! Hey whats up everyone, I’m 27, heard about your site through a friend, told me that its a great place to start. I’m in a 2yr relationship (3 weeks ago) and the “spark” of sorts has been lost. I have heard some stories of pheromones before, seen a few commercials, but never took the time to really look into it. If all else fails then I guess it too would be a good jump back into the playing field. Anyways, yeah. I’m an outdoors-man, practically living on anything with handlebars. I started at about 14 racing BMX (used that name for as long as i can remember), then migrated into motocross at 17. Currently I work in a small motorcycle shop in the downtown district of our neighboring town, and in my off hours I either go riding, or hanging out with my girlfriend/fiance when shes off work. It has been getting real slow between us, she doesn’t really look or act the way she did when we first met. I want to get the spark between us back quick, because I love this chick to death and don’t her to get lost to another guy. The stories I have heard about pheromones saving relationships is quite remarkable, I just have no idea where to start! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 4:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/22510/3 "2008-11-05T04:18:33Z")
Hello and welcome to the form bmx. If you are curious or have doubts about the pheros this is the place to be. Read up and be assured that this is the real deal. If you are trying to get the spark back I would recommend reading the thread in my signature block for married guys. YOu may not be married but it might help anyways. I would also consider the following strategy: [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) - to remend her that you really are interested IH - to help generate the feelings of connection you had before Ishine - to help her feel happy around you I think if you sum all this together it could be a big help. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 4:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/22510/4 "2008-11-05T04:19:37Z")
It looks like you had a double entry and I responded to the other one. Hope the advice helps: > [@bosshank](#): > > Hello and welcome to the form bmx. > > If you are curious or have doubts about the pheros this is the place to be. Read up and be assured that this is the real deal. > > If you are trying to get the spark back I would recommend reading the thread in my signature block for married guys. YOu may not be married but it might help anyways. > > I would also consider the following strategy: > > Ammo - to remend her that you really are interested > IH - to help generate the feelings of connection you had before > Ishine - to help her feel happy around you > > I think if you sum all this together it could be a big help. ---
**Author:** ![chicagokid1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/53a042/32.png) [@chicagokid1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chicagokid1)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 4:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/22510/5 "2008-11-05T04:21:10Z")
Hey bmxfreakrider welcome to the board buddy, Sounds like things kind of hit a slow down period. That happens in most relationships from what ive seen. Me and the misses sometimes use turn up the heat to do just that. to spice it up. Is there anything that happened to change the relationship? Any problems or trust issues that may have come up? Pheros can only amplify whats already there. tell us a bit more ---
**Author:** ![josef](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/josef/32/2007_2.png) [@josef](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/josef)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 4:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/22510/6 "2008-11-05T04:24:07Z")
hello and welcome to the forums. sounds like you need a combination of IFM and IH/IO. how long has it been since the two of you had a sit down face to face/heart to heart chat about your relationship? everyone that has been in a relationship has probably been in the same spot you are in so there are tell tale signs that impartial observers can spot that lead to it and also can lead out of it. IFM should help make her feel pretty damn comfortable around you, regardless of whether it is “that time of the month” or not. throw some IH in there to help persuade her to spill the beans at that point and you may find out everything and more. if the problem is in the physical realm, ammo and/or TUTH can certainly help to rekindle the flame. good luck. ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 5:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/22510/7 "2008-11-05T05:37:46Z")
hey welcome! yeah.. i understand that people run into problems like that when you’ve been in a relationship for awhile, so i completely undersatnd why you would look for that extra something to help get things going. anyways, i have some suggestions for you: (the other guys gave u really good advices i just thought id expand on it a bit more) i really think instant honesty would be a good choice for you because it allows for bonding and it increases the depth of conversation. whenever i wear it, i feel like i feel closer with whomever i happen to be conversing with. turn up the heat would be great to amp up sex life. i dont know if she owul dbe interested but she can put a dab of it under her nose to increase her attraction to you or you can wear them yourself to increase your attration to her 🙂 anyways, gluck ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 5:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/22510/8 "2008-11-05T05:38:14Z")
hi! i already responded to your other post so you should check that one out 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![bmxfreakrider](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e9bcb4/32.png) [@bmxfreakrider](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bmxfreakrider)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 2:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/22510/9 "2008-11-05T14:24:20Z")
It has been roughly about a month or so, and things finally got settled down (no more arguments, etc), but if the **[Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/)** really does work then that would be awesome, it would be cool to get a straight answer and not a “idunno”, but the **Ammo** , That’s the stuff that made me realize that pheromones exist. Would those two be the easiest place to start? I’m still really confused by all of this. How do they actually work? ---
**Author:** ![Oakey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/258eb7/32.png) [@Oakey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oakey)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 4:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/22510/10 "2008-11-05T16:03:32Z")
Dude been in the same situaition as you for a lil while but hard work, perserverance and ofcourse Instant shine - get her happy to see you and put you in a good mood, Instant honesty - helps create a deep bond, Ammo for that lil spark and TUTH for really setting things on fire… On secont thought just stick to the pheros…hahahaha j.j 😛 ---
**Author:** ![TanSri\_Dato\_aweSOME](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tansri_dato_awesome/32/320_2.png) [@TanSri\_Dato\_aweSOME](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TanSri_Dato_aweSOME)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2008, 4:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/22510/11 "2008-11-05T16:51:38Z")
Welcome to the forum, [Pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) helps you in a way but u must also help yourself. Many factors comes into play in a relationship if u have a very bad arguments with her, i’m not stating you do just an example, it would be you that will confront the problem and bring everything back into order, of cos pheromone will help you lessen the defence and make it easier to bring her back to you. but in the end it is still you. Like u say, u love her so much u should try to do more things for her. Sparks will be lost and not as bright as when one starts a relationship, it happens to all relationship. u just have to find new sparks and new fun things that both find it fun together. What reccomend above by other forum members will seem to do you great . I bet Tisha or Steve will soon drop by and give you your Gift Certificate. Start of with the To-Go bottle with the free GC and see what works for you. Remember, start out with small doses, start out slow… ---
**Author:** ![stzaccr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c68b51/32.png) [@stzaccr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/stzaccr)\ **Post date:** [November 6, 2008, 4:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/22510/12 "2008-11-06T04:35:23Z")
hello bmxfreakrider i think this site was a good decision on learning the phero’s and starting to use them. i have an idea too well welcome to the forum and lets see who can make the best combo… im gonna start off with 1x acqua di gio sprays and 2x sprays of ammo ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [November 6, 2008, 10:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/22510/13 "2008-11-06T10:07:23Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum bmxfreakrider. Glad you have such good friends as to introduce you to PheroTalk. I think so far you have got some great advice and everything sounds pretty solid too. Really the decision will be yours ultimately. Just remember pheromones can only be used as a tool for the relationship. You will need to do most of the work. They can sure help add a spark, but the kindling to fan the flames has to come from you. **I am sending out your GC 🙂** ---
**Author:** ![bmxfreakrider](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e9bcb4/32.png) [@bmxfreakrider](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bmxfreakrider)\ **Post date:** [November 7, 2008, 2:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/22510/14 "2008-11-07T02:53:35Z")
Hey, I have a question about the GC. when its sent out, does it go to your email, is it in a private message, etc…? and how long does it take, because I still either can’t find it or don’t see it. EDIT: nvm I found it