# Hey **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 22, 2009, 11:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/33500 "2009-10-22T23:33:02Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![youthere8](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/7bcc69/32.png) [@youthere8](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/youthere8)\ **Post date:** [October 22, 2009, 11:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/33500/1 "2009-10-22T23:33:02Z")
I am 18, male from San Jose, California, and would like to learn more about [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/). I did read and skim some stickies from the forum for a few days. Just wondering if it will work or not. So far right now I am trying to find a girlfriend, but really no luck so far. ☹ I was hoping the pheromones will give me an edge in my endeavor. πŸ™‚ I can talk to people effectively but not really necessarily attracting them as I had hope. So i need some advice on what to pick and buy since I am fairly new to this. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [October 22, 2009, 11:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/33500/2 "2009-10-22T23:45:12Z")
Welcome. What do you think your personality is like? Are you a risk taker? Do your friends look to you for leadership, or are you more a group member? Are you serious or funny? What kind of girls do you like? What are you looking for in a relationship? ---
**Author:** ![funtimes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/f08c70/32.png) [@funtimes](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/funtimes)\ **Post date:** [October 22, 2009, 11:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/33500/3 "2009-10-22T23:46:51Z")
welcome to the community, there are tons of help here. I am sure you will find what you are looking for ---
**Author:** ![youthere8](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/7bcc69/32.png) [@youthere8](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/youthere8)\ **Post date:** [October 22, 2009, 11:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/33500/4 "2009-10-22T23:52:23Z")
I am more kind and sincere person for the most part, and yes I am a risk taker. I am in between not too serious or funny. I am not a leader type but when the situation demands it I will take over. I like girls that are maybe have some sort of common ground with me with some chemistry involved in connection. I also like those girls that are considerate and understanding. I am sure what I am looking for in a relationship but maybe a long term ones not short terms. ---
**Author:** ![youthere8](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/7bcc69/32.png) [@youthere8](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/youthere8)\ **Post date:** [October 22, 2009, 11:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/33500/5 "2009-10-22T23:53:01Z")
Thank you for telling me that ---
**Author:** ![scotties123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c37758/32.png) [@scotties123](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/scotties123)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2009, 12:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/33500/6 "2009-10-23T00:12:04Z")
Instant Shine is a favorite and must have for almost everyone. It tends to make you and those around you happier and more upbeat. Instant Honesty makes people open up to you and trust you more. Instant Openness turns people into chatter-boxes and enough of it can cause people to talk your ears off πŸ˜›. You will hear a LOT about [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/), which is made up of the chemical -none. At your age, your body naturally makes -none at a high rate, so you may not want to start with this one. Girls your age respond very well to the chemical -nol which is found in IH and IO. Instant Gentlemen also seems to work great on girls around your age. It instills self confidence and gets you more respect and attention from people. This is just a brief overview of a few products, but I hope it helped. Best of luck and just use the main forums if you have any specific questions! ---
**Author:** ![youthere8](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/7bcc69/32.png) [@youthere8](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/youthere8)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2009, 12:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/33500/7 "2009-10-23T00:13:37Z")
Thanks a lot for that input that helps a lot ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2009, 8:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/33500/8 "2009-10-23T20:51:06Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too πŸ™‚. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too πŸ™‚. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2009, 9:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/33500/9 "2009-10-25T21:11:33Z")
You may want to give ig a try. It’s good for establishing a warm, masculine aura that encourages ltr. ---
**Author:** ![youthere8](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/7bcc69/32.png) [@youthere8](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/youthere8)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2009, 9:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/33500/10 "2009-10-25T21:34:13Z")
Thanks dude I already placed my order hehe