# hey **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 17, 2009, 7:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/34152 "2009-11-17T07:01:26Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![pingwasha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/5daacb/32.png) [@pingwasha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pingwasha)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 7:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/34152/1 "2009-11-17T07:01:26Z")
Hey everyone I’m an 18 year old highschool(college starting jan) student living in Alberta Canada. I’m a fairly outgoing person and okay with people when I actually start a conversation, but I tend to have the most trouble starting conversations with girls in the first place. I would like mainly like to use [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) to help getting myself be more confident, also to help girls notice me so its easier to start a conversation. Also it would be nice to have girls want to get… ummm lets say intimate with me. Anyways any help would be very appreciated 🙂 thanks ---
**Author:** ![Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/34f0e0/32.png) [@Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Warm_It_Up_Chris)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 7:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/34152/2 "2009-11-17T07:15:05Z")
> [@pingwasha](#): > > Hey everyone > > I’m an 18 year old highschool(college starting jan) student living in Alberta Canada. I’m a fairly outgoing person and okay with people when I actually start a conversation, but I tend to have the most trouble starting conversations with girls in the first place. > > I would like mainly like to use pheromones to help getting myself be more confident, also to help girls notice me so its easier to start a conversation. Also it would be nice to have girls want to get… ummm lets say intimate with me. > > Anyways any help would be very appreciated 🙂 thanks Heya Pingwasha! Welcome to the forum! You have made a great start towards qualifying for the$25 gift certificate, you’ve told us where you are, told us about your personality and have given us information on what you hope to accomplish through the use of pheros! If I could, a couple of other questions, you mentioned that you are generally pretty outgoing but you are looking for more confidence with the ladies as well as a little more attention from them. Where do you go to meet women? Bars? Clubs? Discos? The grocery store? Class? What have your interactions been like with women? In general? Have you approached an attractive woman and had the result not go the way you were looking for before? Based on the excellent information that you have provided my preliminary recommendation would be [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). IG will up your status and provide the self effect of confdence and help you get noticed by the ladies. Instant Shine is another product that can help with self-confidence as well as boost your charisma. Welcome to the forum and please feel free to ask questions. And good luck on your phero adventure! ---
**Author:** ![pingwasha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/5daacb/32.png) [@pingwasha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pingwasha)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 7:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/34152/3 "2009-11-17T07:36:33Z")
> [@Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](#): > > Heya Pingwasha! Welcome to the forum! You have made a great start towards qualifying for the$25 gift certificate, you’ve told us where you are, told us about your personality and have given us information on what you hope to accomplish through the use of pheros! If I could, a couple of other questions, you mentioned that you are generally pretty outgoing but you are looking for more confidence with the ladies as well as a little more attention from them. Where do you go to meet women? Bars? Clubs? Discos? The grocery store? Class? > What have your interactions been like with women? In general? Have you approached an attractive woman and had the result not go the way you were looking for before? > > Based on the excellent information that you have provided my preliminary recommendation would be Instant Gentleman. IG will up your status and provide the self effect of confdence and help you get noticed by the ladies. Instant Shine is another product that can help with self-confidence as well as boost your charisma. > > Welcome to the forum and please feel free to ask questions. And good luck on your phero adventure! I try to meet girls where ever I am 😛 lol. I like to use school, and to meet through friends though because that’s where I’ve had my best results. I have tried at bars, and clubs but usually it doesn’t go as well as other places. To be honest I also have met girls at fast food restaurants(kinda lame but yeah…). and yes I do approached attractive women and usually not have very good results. A lot of the time I have a bad start starting the convo. The over all general outcome after hanging out and chilling with them is usually they tell me they see me as “just a good friend” or “theres someone else”. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 7:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/34152/4 "2009-11-17T07:56:12Z")
Hi there, Welcome. I would recommend you try Shine, IO and IH. Shine is to give you some confident in approaching girls. IO will make them want to talk to you. It can open up girls and give you an edge in approaching girls. IH will make them closer to you. It can make them talk deeper and honest with you. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/34f0e0/32.png) [@Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Warm_It_Up_Chris)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 9:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/34152/5 "2009-11-17T09:08:25Z")
> [@jamesbonded](#): > > Hi there, > > Welcome. > > I would recommend you try Shine, IO and IH. > > Shine is to give you some confident in approaching girls. IO will make them want to talk to you. It can open up girls and give you an edge in approaching girls. > IH will make them closer to you. It can make them talk deeper and honest with you. > > Good luck Heya Pingwasha! Bonded offers some excellent suggestions (guess thats why he is 007). I still have to go with I/ G however esp in light of the fact that you seem to find yourself tongue-tied. When I have used the ststus products, (A314 & I/G) I find that in hi stress situations where I’m usually tongue-tied such as job interviews I feel confident and can relate relevant experiences better. It’s almost as if I can think on my feet better possibly due to increased confidence. Naturally I will bow to 007’s greater depth of knowledge & experience suggesting the sociables, but I do feel it would be worthwhile if given the opportunity to try out I/G maybe in tandem with the sociables. ---
**Author:** ![pingwasha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/5daacb/32.png) [@pingwasha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pingwasha)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 10:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/34152/6 "2009-11-17T10:26:59Z")
> [@Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](#): > > Heya Pingwasha! Bonded offers some excellent suggestions (guess thats why he is 007). I still have to go with I/ G however esp in light of the fact that you seem to find yourself tongue-tied. When I have used the ststus products, (A314 & I/G) I find that in hi stress situations where I’m usually tongue-tied such as job interviews I feel confident and can relate relevant experiences better. It’s almost as if I can think on my feet better possibly due to increased confidence. Naturally I will bow to 007’s greater depth of knowledge & experience suggesting the sociables, but I do feel it would be worthwhile if given the opportunity to try out I/G maybe in tandem with the sociables. > [@jamesbonded](#): > > Hi there, > > Welcome. > > I would recommend you try Shine, IO and IH. > > Shine is to give you some confident in approaching girls. IO will make them want to talk to you. It can open up girls and give you an edge in approaching girls. > IH will make them closer to you. It can make them talk deeper and honest with you. > > Good luck Thank you to both of you 🙂 I plan on trying all these in the future 🙂 but one thing I wonder about is how much to use and where to use it. If someone could give me a clue about the mixes so I don’t over do it and stuff that would be good. I noticed on here in some of the newbs guides it gave examples of how much to use… and sometimes it said where to spray it, but also sometimes it didn’t be specific of a place to use each one while mixing. also I am a student with a fairly low budget so I was wondering if I provided enough info to qualify for the GC 🙂🙂 anyways thanks again for the responses so far. ---
**Author:** ![Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/34f0e0/32.png) [@Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Warm_It_Up_Chris)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 11:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/34152/7 "2009-11-17T23:57:31Z")
Heya Pingwasha! Amounts really are personal as your own biochemistry is totally an individual thing. What you will want to do first is to find your “sweet spot” through trial and error. First make sure you are clean and in clean clothes, brush your teeth, comb your hair and put on some nice clean clothes. Select the product you want to use and apply one spray or drop somewhere where it can be easily picked up on by whomever is your target. Most women are shorter than men so to have women pick up on your scent the throat or high chest is usually a good spot. I know you are interested as well in getting confidents from the pheros so a good application point may be on the face or high throat so that you can benefit from the self effects. The next partis really important, you must observe your target group and take not of any differences that you see in behavior. Look for subtle things as well like the shy girl who catches you looking and blushes and looks away. Keep in mind your targets are different people, some will react boldly, others not so much so keep a sharp eye. If you don’t see noticeable reactions, the next day double the application. Max effect on most of the 1x products is 1-2 drops sprays so especially with the attraction/status products you want to be reeeeaaaallll careful you don’t wear too much or things could get out of hand. Some people purposely O/D so that they can note the effects, know what it looks like. You will want to keep your applications as low as possible to save on product. Not only is this better for your wallet, but from time to time product lines discontinue and you would hate to see the most effective weapon in your arsenal depleted before the “big dance”. Can’t speak to the GC as I dont evaluate who gets em but you will definitely want to take a look here: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) that post is made by the people who qualify the posts and will tell you everything you need to know. Be sure to check these out as well: [Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/basic-noob-phero-bootcamp/2159) > [@The Snook's big book o' pheros for rookies](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-snooks-big-book-o-pheros-for-rookies/5879): > > So many pheros, so many newbs asking the same questions… I’ll break this down in a few different ways. Section one is for high school. two is for work. three is for clubbing. four is miscellany. NOTE: I will only be covering the pre-mixed products on this page, since it is being written for beginners. If you’re new to pheromones, please leave the TA, P, and MX series for later, once you’re a believer that -mones can do all I say they can below. Section one High School Firstly, if you’re unde… > [@Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168): > > Revised for 2010/11 Common question thread [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43012](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43012) Ok I had to put the guide in this section of the forum because the men’s have way to many stickies now and I didn’t want to add another there. So anyways I got quite a few requests to do a men’s guide and I am flattered but want you to all know upfront that without all the wonderful postings on pheromones by the experienced men I would never been abl… Great advice for new people to the community can be found at those 3 links! Enjoy! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 5:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/34152/8 "2009-11-18T17:17:05Z")
Hello Ping and welcome to the forum. I am sure with all this info can conversation you qualify for the GC by now. Both Chris and JB have given you some good info and good advice. I would like to add one thought: please consider [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). it is a great product but probably does not get its due often enough. There is a thread in my signature block that talks about it and you can do a search under my name and find several threads on that products. Another experienced user - Renny - is also a big believer. IG does not have any none in it but it gives you a cool, smooth kinda vibe. and as a result often makes younger guys seem a little older than they are. I emtnion this as I think it would make a really great base product for you just starting college. As in you might be a freshman but could give off the air of an upperclassman. See where I am going with this? And remember - it will only give you the air of cool and smooth. It will be up to you to _be_ smooth. And also remember that these products help you with social interactions. Social interactions usually mean talking to people. They do not include sitting, watching and wishing someone would come talk to you. Good luck and let us know what you decide to do. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2009, 11:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/34152/9 "2009-11-23T23:12:36Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Pingwasha! I have no idea what happened and how I managed to miss this post. You already received some great advice and recommendations so I am going to go ahead and issue you your GC. I am hoping you can forgive me and to assist you in doing so am going to give you something extra. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![pingwasha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/5daacb/32.png) [@pingwasha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pingwasha)\ **Post date:** [November 24, 2009, 1:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/34152/10 "2009-11-24T01:12:42Z")
> [@kelsey](#): > > Welcome to Pherotalk Pingwasha! > > I have no idea what happened and how I managed to miss this post. You already received some great advice and recommendations so I am going to go ahead and issue you your GC. > > I am hoping you can forgive me and to assist you in doing so am going to give you something extra. 😃 Thankyou very much 😃