# Hey **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 13, 2010, 8:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/41683 "2010-09-13T08:54:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jeandupont1337](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c6cbf5/32.png) [@jeandupont1337](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jeandupont1337)\ **Post date:** [September 13, 2010, 8:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/41683/1 "2010-09-13T08:54:04Z")
Hey, I’ve discovered this community but didn’t post yet. I’m a male in his early 20s and live in France. So far, I cannot say that I’ve been socially successful. However I don’t think this can be attributed to shyness as I’m not shy at all but has more to do with my poor conversational skills. After opening a set and talking about trivial stuff, I don’t know how to follow up so it quickly fades. I’ve recently joined a new school with almost 300 ppl in the same year as me. As you might guess, it’s difficult to meet people, remember their names despite all the social events organized. On the other hand, people and particularly girls in france a far less outgoing than their american counterparts. As a result, they rarely talk to anyone outside their social circle. Of course, this does not ease my task when I find a girl attractive and wants to know her better. I can’t just show up and say “hey wannabe friends?”. I need to be introduced first (hope [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) to help me extend my social circle, for this part). All this reunited makes it difficult to really connect with people. What I expect from pheromones is a small boost, to have deeper conversations with people pr to get noticed as boyfriend material by female friends. My knowledge of pheromones is pretty much basic for now and acquired through browsing this forum. I just know what every product of the consumer line does. Oh and I got here through google ---
**Author:** ![empath](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empath/32/2351_2.png) [@empath](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/empath)\ **Post date:** [September 13, 2010, 12:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/41683/2 "2010-09-13T12:32:53Z")
Hey there and welcome to the forum! Glad to hear you know what you want to get out of this stuff, and I think they can help. IO or IH would be great to get people’s trust and will make them a bit more chatty around you, which could improve your social life. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) is great for attraction and can boost confidence… it’s slightly sexual but very social at the same time. IS goes good alone or with just about anything as it just make people feel good. I would start with some of these listed! Let us know how things go for you! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [September 13, 2010, 12:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/41683/3 "2010-09-13T12:52:56Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. Sorry to hear that you are having some trouble socially but you are not the first person here who has said the same thing - that you kind of run out of things to talk about with some people. And with some people it is harder to keep up a conversation when you do not have a lot in common. What I do in circumstances when I talk to people I do not really know is look for things we may have in common or talk about something funny - or make a joke - about something going on around us. The other thing is to get the other person talking and really listen - that way you find or deduce the commonalities - or explore the interesting differences. Empath gave you pretty good product recommendations. IH is one of my favorites - it helps you get to things others feel are important. It is a very nice product. And IO would be great for helping with those initial conversations. But as always the key will be you. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [September 13, 2010, 9:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/41683/4 "2010-09-13T21:58:55Z")
Hi and welcome! You have gotten some great recommendations - [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Honesty to help with communication, and Ammo for a boost in confidence and sex appeal are perfect products for you to start with. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jeandupont1337](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c6cbf5/32.png) [@jeandupont1337](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jeandupont1337)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2010, 6:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/41683/5 "2010-09-14T18:50:25Z")
Thanks for the advices and product recomma dations ! I was thinking of ordering Togo format of a few products to get a feel of how it works and also what products works best for me . Just waiting for the gc to order ( hope i qualify ) ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2010, 7:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/41683/6 "2010-09-14T19:11:56Z")
> [@jeandupont1337](#): > > Thanks for the advices and product recomma > dations ! I was thinking of ordering Togo format of a few products to get a feel of how it works and also what products works best for me . Just waiting for the gc to order ( hope i qualify ) I think you should qualify, but Mickaelia is the ultimate judge of that. She should be by in the next day or so to give you your GC. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 12:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/41683/7 "2010-09-16T00:09:16Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Jean! Really, interesting and here I though that since France was the place of love that it would be pretty easy. I wonder if it’s because they produce so much pheromones already you may have to up your dosages. 😛 You got some good suggestions, have fun and try new things to see what works. Your gc was issued. 😃