Hi and welcome to Pherotalk merty43; lots of info, lots of advice and help available and yes, they’re safe. Otherwise all the members you see on here would be in dire straits! 
For us to help, advise or assist you in a meaningful way; we’ll need a little more detail about you, how you found this forum and what you’d like to do with the mones. So, go here, do this, fill in the blanks and get qualified for your GC (NOT hard):
How do I qualify for a $25 gift certificate?
Then get yourself informed on the subject in an orderly, helpful manner so you can formulate an idea of what you want to do with these:
**Read Me First!!! Helpful Topics On How To Use The Forum…
An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of
You, as a member can also read the journals and get an idea of what other people are doing with the mones. Lots of fun to be had and things to discover.
Again, welcome and enjoy the space.