Based upon your situation, it looks like you could benefit from TUTH. Both AMMO and T U T H contain the same amount of androstenone per spray. The latter is specifically steered to be sexually charged. It really is a nighttime, bedroom product. It will not induce your wife toward feelings she does not have. It will not add comfort or bonding. However, if she is slightly inclined sexually, TUTH should increase that quite a bit.