# Hey **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 1, 2014, 11:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327 "2014-07-01T23:40:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 19\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![benman2468](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c37758/32.png) [@benman2468](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/benman2468)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2014, 11:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/1 "2014-07-01T23:40:12Z")
Hey guys! I’m a 17 year old male who lives in Georgia. I would consider myself an introvert but am much more sociable with people I know. I am the kind of person who has a few quality friends rather than a bunch of kinda friends. Anyways, I am currently at a college engineering camp in Tennessee and want to land this chick before the camp is over, and I am hoping these pheromones will help. Last night my friends and I were working in the computer lab with no one else in there and these two girls walk in. This same thing happened the night before too. Except the second time, about 30 min after they walk in (11 or so) they start getting a little wild. One of them asks for some twerk music and starts twerking on the wall while the other girl video tapes. She also yells at one point (I guess while looking at the video) about how you can see her vagina through her pants. I didn’t see much cause I didn’t want to stare but I did see a little in the reflection in the window. My friends and I definitely plan on going back to the computer lab for some more adventures. I was thinking of getting some AMMO(regular bottle), Instant Shine(regular bottle), Instant Openness(to-go), Instant Honesty(to-go), [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/)(to-go), and TUTH(to-go). However, after adding up the cost, it got kind of expensive, so I was wondering if you guys can help me eliminate some of the bottles (if necessary) and decide the quantity(to-go or regular) and strength of the remaining bottles. This is my first time using pheros so I’m naturally hesitant to spend a bunch of money on a product that may or may not work. I am willing to try anything to get laid (not that desperate, but I figure this is the perfect opportunity since no one at camp will ever see each other again). The $25 GC will help. Basically, I would prefer to spend as little money as possible, but will gladly spend as much as I need too. PS I don’t want to run out during the last few days (camp ends around July 25) PPS We got premade sticky labels to put on letters and stuff before the camp started, and the label has my name, three lines of address, and one line of city and zip code. When I checked to see if I could get pheros delivered here, I discovered that the ordering form only has two lines for an address, not three. How would I go about ordering? ---
**Author:** ![pheronewb78](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e274bd/32.png) [@pheronewb78](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheronewb78)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2014, 2:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/2 "2014-07-02T02:53:18Z")
Welcome!! All of those products you listed come in the Ultimate Intro Pack (all to go size) for $150 shipped. Not sure if that works within your budget or not, but you also get A314b (alpha vibe) and [MX297](https://a314.com/product/mx297/) which is “Life of the party” type of vibe which sounds like could be very useful in this particular situation. You have to remember though that you have to be congruent with what you are trying to project with 'mones. If someone walks by and starts thinking “Hey this guy might be fun” and you are ignoring them and staring at a computer then it will not help you at all. The shipping turnaround on the intro pack is very fast as they have them ready to ship. You will have to contact [support@androticsdirect.com](mailto:support@androticsdirect.com) for your shipping questions. Remember to keep us posted with your experiences!! ---
**Author:** ![benman2468](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c37758/32.png) [@benman2468](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/benman2468)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2014, 2:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/3 "2014-07-02T02:58:26Z")
I was thinking about that. How long would you say they last? Also, how many of these could I put on at once? Also, would someone my age need the A314? Isn’t the gentleman better for younger people? ---
**Author:** ![pheronewb78](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e274bd/32.png) [@pheronewb78](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheronewb78)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2014, 3:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/4 "2014-07-02T03:21:22Z")
> [@benman2468](#): > > I was thinking about that. How long would you say they last? Also, how many of these could I put on at once? Also, would someone my age need the A314? Isn’t the gentleman better for younger people? Correct, A314b is not really for someone your age, but it could be fun to play around with in mixes and at small doses (half spray). My main reason for recommending the intro pack was the fast shipping and discount. The to go bottles last for approx 40 sprays. The 30ml bottles last for approx 200. When you are first starting out with 'mones it is recommended to try them out individually to see what the effect is on yourself and on those around you. You are working with a limited time frame so that probably won’t work for you. I would try a 1-2 sprays of [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), 1-2 sprays of IS to start for use around the girl you are trying to attract. ---
**Author:** ![benman2468](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c37758/32.png) [@benman2468](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/benman2468)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2014, 5:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/5 "2014-07-02T05:54:09Z")
Ok so just the ammo and the IS? When should I start adding other mones? And how close do I have to be to her for the mones to take effect? How will she know it’s me and not someone else? PS This isn’t really a concern at this moment, but if I were to get a girlfriend with this stuff, will she be attracted to me or the bottle of chemicals? Cause that would seem kind of like a superficial relationship that is held together only by [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). PPS This is more of a relevant concern. I’ve read that these mones alter the way you think and act. For example, the IS makes you feel really good. Is this something that I will become addicted to and be buying for the rest of my life? Cause if you think about it, it’s almost like you’re getting high or taking some drug. Is this stuff easy to get off of or will I be dependent on it and face withdrawal? ---
**Author:** ![pheronewb78](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e274bd/32.png) [@pheronewb78](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheronewb78)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2014, 2:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/6 "2014-07-02T14:39:26Z")
> [@benman2468](#): > > Ok so just the ammo and the IS? When should I start adding other mones? And how close do I have to be to her for the mones to take effect? How will she know it’s me and not someone else? > > PS > This isn’t really a concern at this moment, but if I were to get a girlfriend with this stuff, will she be attracted to me or the bottle of chemicals? Cause that would seem kind of like a superficial relationship that is held together only by pheromones. > > PPS > This is more of a relevant concern. I’ve read that these mones alter the way you think and act. For example, the IS makes you feel really good. Is this something that I will become addicted to and be buying for the rest of my life? Cause if you think about it, it’s almost like you’re getting high or taking some drug. Is this stuff easy to get off of or will I be dependent on it and face withdrawal? I don’t have solid answers for you on these questions as I am just starting out myself. Proximity will vary on your environment. If you are outside on a windy day you can’t hope for much. Small rooms/cars will fill up with your “phero cloud” easily. It will also depend on your application points. If you apply to your wrists/hands and use hand gestures when you talk, you will have pretty good diffusion. I would imagine body heat plays a role in how fast and spread out your cloud will go. The way she will know its you is by you acting in a manner that is congruent to your phero signature. This will also mostly answer your superficial relationship question. 'Mones give you a tiny extra push in the right direction. YOU still have to put in the work. 'Mones just make it a little bit easier. Can situations arise where someone seems like they have lost their mind? Yes (sorta). Look around on the forum for OD and DIHL reactions to better understand what the extreme possibilities are. It is up to you to know what situation you are going into and gauge peoples responses for future exposure. As far as becoming addicted? I honestly have no idea. People can become addicted to anything so I guess it is possible. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2014, 4:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/7 "2014-07-02T16:24:18Z")
Have a good read of the “Intro to Mones” thread at the top of this forum - Just about all your questions are answered there and its one of the bst overall guides to effective phero use anywhere: > [@An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003): > > Welcome to an exciting world of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). By joining our community you have taken a HUGE step in progressing a science that is cutting edge and still in its infancy. This community is globally important in recognizing pheromones, and Neuroinfluence Technology ? and their impact on human communication. There are thousands of posts here and thousands more users. Each one of us, including you, adds a unique dynamic to the community from our individual perspectives, experiences and our research an… ---
**Author:** ![benman2468](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c37758/32.png) [@benman2468](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/benman2468)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2014, 5:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/8 "2014-07-02T17:36:38Z")
So since I’m at a college camp, I do laundry about once a week. Will that be a problem? In the intro to mones thread, he said that the mones stuck to his shirt and made it smell bad. Will the pheromones make all my clothes smell like shit? ---
**Author:** ![pheronewb78](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e274bd/32.png) [@pheronewb78](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheronewb78)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2014, 6:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/9 "2014-07-02T18:00:14Z")
> [@benman2468](#): > > So since I’m at a college camp, I do laundry about once a week. Will that be a problem? In the intro to mones thread, he said that the mones stuck to his shirt and made it smell bad. Will the pheromones make all my clothes smell like shit? Generally you are applying to your skin. I think some people apply to clothing to slow down diffusion, but I may be wrong about that. There is a thread around here somewhere all about application points. ---
**Author:** ![benman2468](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c37758/32.png) [@benman2468](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/benman2468)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2014, 8:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/10 "2014-07-02T20:44:05Z")
I think he sprayed it on his chest and it seeped into his shirt or something like that. ---
**Author:** ![pheronewb78](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e274bd/32.png) [@pheronewb78](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheronewb78)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2014, 10:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/11 "2014-07-02T22:25:34Z")
> [@benman2468](#): > > I think he sprayed it on his chest and it seeped into his shirt or something like that. If you go with application to your chest I would just wait a few minutes to put a shirt on. The only time I could think of it being an issue is if you are doing something that would cause you to sweat the 'mones into the shirt. So far I have only applied to my wrists, forearms, hands, and neck. ---
**Author:** ![benman2468](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c37758/32.png) [@benman2468](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/benman2468)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2014, 12:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/12 "2014-07-03T00:55:46Z")
Ok sweet. Any other advice? ---
**Author:** ![pheronewb78](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e274bd/32.png) [@pheronewb78](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheronewb78)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2014, 3:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/13 "2014-07-03T03:18:11Z")
> [@benman2468](#): > > Ok sweet. Any other advice? Just a re-iteration that you need to be what your 'mones are telling people that you are. Ammo projects a confident, sexy young guy and that needs to show through in your behavior. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![benman2468](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c37758/32.png) [@benman2468](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/benman2468)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2014, 5:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/14 "2014-07-03T05:43:43Z")
And if I am not that kind of person, mones are useless? ---
**Author:** ![pheronewb78](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e274bd/32.png) [@pheronewb78](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheronewb78)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2014, 5:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/15 "2014-07-03T17:25:21Z")
> [@benman2468](#): > > And if I am not that kind of person, mones are useless? I would not say they are useless. For instance, Ammo gives me a slight boost in confidence when I wear it. IS elevates my mood, which in turn makes me want to be more sociable. Even if you are the most confident and good looking guy in the world, most women are not going to just come up and start talking to you. It is up to you to get things started. I would recommend picking up a to-go of IS and Ammo to start out. If you can get the ball rolling with that combo, branch out to some of the others. If you have problems with keeping a conversation going once you say hi and introduce yourself, maybe grab a to-go of IO or IH as well. If they don’t work for you, you can always get your money back on consumer line products. I would suggest starting a thread and ask the question of whether or not 'mones are useless when you aren’t acting in congruence with the chosen product. That way more people will see it and you can get some feedback from some of the more experienced users out there. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![benman2468](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c37758/32.png) [@benman2468](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/benman2468)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2014, 9:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/16 "2014-07-03T21:56:21Z")
I will do that. Thanks for your help! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![pheronewb78](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e274bd/32.png) [@pheronewb78](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheronewb78)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2014, 2:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/17 "2014-07-04T02:19:10Z")
> [@benman2468](#): > > I will do that. Thanks for your help! 🙂 No problem and keep us posted on what you decide to try and how everything works out!! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2014, 11:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/18 "2014-07-04T23:25:42Z")
\*\*Welcome to our community ben! We’re super happy to have you join us. Thanks for stopping by and sharing. I hope to see more of you around here in the next few weeks! This is a quick note to let you know I’ve issued your gift certificate. It’s burning a hole in your email box as you read this! Have fun!" _~_~_~_~_~_\*\* ---
**Author:** ![benman2468](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c37758/32.png) [@benman2468](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/benman2468)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2014, 6:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hey/62327/19 "2014-07-05T06:14:21Z")
Thank you!