# Hi all I'm new here and need some advice **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 20, 2008, 4:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all-im-new-here-and-need-some-advice/15908 "2008-07-20T04:53:23Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jennifergail30](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/8e8cbc/32.png) [@jennifergail30](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jennifergail30)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 4:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all-im-new-here-and-need-some-advice/15908/1 "2008-07-20T04:53:23Z")
Hey everyone. I’m new here and need some advice on what the best products are for starting out. I’m looking to get my ex-boyfriend back so what would be the best starter product? Thanks.🙂 ---
**Author:** ![copycat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/copycat/32/896_2.png) [@copycat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/copycat)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 7:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all-im-new-here-and-need-some-advice/15908/2 "2008-07-20T07:52:08Z")
> [@jennifergail30](#): > > I’m looking to get my ex-boyfriend back so what would be the best starter product? Get him back as in “ha ha, look what you lost out on!” or as in “come back to me”? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 8:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all-im-new-here-and-need-some-advice/15908/3 "2008-07-20T08:24:20Z")
I suggest you start with [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and perhaps some MX135. 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Julia](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/julia/32/1388_2.png) [@Julia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Julia)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 1:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all-im-new-here-and-need-some-advice/15908/4 "2008-07-20T13:42:29Z")
Androtics has some great perfumes, however playing it cool with exes is Best, at least in my experience. There is more power to you as a woman if you move on, ok if you toy with his heart a bit (btw cops are particularly good for that), but when you find your new signature scent you may find the confidence you need to help you not only be a hottie but also to move on. IS/A makes me FEEL strong and bossy (in a good way). I had a party with my ex a few weeks ago to and went to a party where he was there with his new gf (I went alone),and believe me it was hard, but without IS/A I probably would have crumbled up. I marvel at how much attention I am getting now from guys with my new perfume collection. I am the one now who cant decide who I should date and love being the lady being persued (just the way nature intended!). ---
**Author:** ![djacquelyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djacquelyn/32/2180_2.png) [@djacquelyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djacquelyn)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 2:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all-im-new-here-and-need-some-advice/15908/5 "2008-07-20T14:22:30Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > I suggest you start with Instant sexiness and perhaps some MX135. 😉 > > Tisha Very nice avatar tisha djacquelyn 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![djacquelyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djacquelyn/32/2180_2.png) [@djacquelyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djacquelyn)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 2:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all-im-new-here-and-need-some-advice/15908/6 "2008-07-20T14:26:11Z")
> [@Julia](#): > > Androtics has some great perfumes, however playing it cool with exes is Best, at least in my experience. > > There is more power to you as a woman if you move on, ok if you toy with his heart a bit (btw cops are particularly good for that), but when you find your new signature scent you may find the confidence you need to help you not only be a hottie but also to move on. IS/A makes me FEEL strong and bossy (in a good way). I had a party with my ex a few weeks ago to and went to a party where he was there with his new gf (I went alone),and believe me it was hard, but without IS/A I probably would have crumbled up. I marvel at how much attention I am getting now from guys with my new perfume collection. I am the one now who cant decide who I should date and love being the lady being persued (just the way nature intended!). Julia, You go girl… I am soooo proud of you. and even though the ex was with someone else, you better believe he was noticing you in a whole new light…I bet you that you were on his that night 😉 djacquelyn 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Julia](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/julia/32/1388_2.png) [@Julia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Julia)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 3:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all-im-new-here-and-need-some-advice/15908/7 "2008-07-20T15:36:28Z")
Thanks Djacquelyn. Whether I was on his mind or not, in order to get over him I had to believe that “he was just not that into me” and never will be again, because if there was even a glimmer of hope I would still be pining over him. I am now totally over him (believing there is no hope was the only quick way I got over of still wanting to be with him). I do have a bunch of guy friends and a very open brother who fill me in, in regards to how guys think. For guys, 9 times out of 10, when its over, its over, moved on already. For chicks, it usually takes longer (not this one anymore). It was a hard truth for me, but saved lots of heartache in the longrun. Anyways, on to BIGGER AND BETTER… ---
**Author:** ![Julia](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/julia/32/1388_2.png) [@Julia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Julia)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 4:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all-im-new-here-and-need-some-advice/15908/8 "2008-07-20T16:26:29Z")
Thanks Djacquelyn. ---
**Author:** ![queenie-t](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/queenie-t/32/1580_2.png) [@queenie-t](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/queenie-t)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 5:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all-im-new-here-and-need-some-advice/15908/9 "2008-07-20T17:47:44Z")
Its nice the confidence you get eh? Amazing and nice to use… 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Diatris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diatris/32/1066_2.png) [@Diatris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Diatris)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 8:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all-im-new-here-and-need-some-advice/15908/10 "2008-07-21T20:05:27Z")
> [@jennifergail30](#): > > Hey everyone. I’m new here and need some advice on what the best products are for starting out. I’m looking to get my ex-boyfriend back so what would be the best starter product? Thanks.🙂 😮tres bizarre! I am going over to an ex who claims to be over me tomorrow. I am gonna use my mx135 so i’ll post my results for you too see. Has he given u any hints that he still has feelings for you? ---
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2008, 10:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all-im-new-here-and-need-some-advice/15908/11 "2008-07-22T10:05:52Z")
jennifergail, it depends who initiated the break-up and for what reasons but 90% of the times, when it’s the guy, he’s moved on (at least emotionally). [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and perhaps some MX135 would help you make him regret you/the relationship and help you move on as well. ---
**Author:** ![jennifergail30](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/8e8cbc/32.png) [@jennifergail30](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jennifergail30)\ **Post date:** [August 5, 2008, 10:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all-im-new-here-and-need-some-advice/15908/12 "2008-08-05T22:08:57Z")
I broke up with him to go back to someone else, I was so stupid to do that. It’s 14 years later and I’m still in love with him. We seen each other once since then but nothing happened because we were both in relationships. He still asks a family member of mine about me frequently and the last time I saw him there were still very strong feeling between us. I’m not seen him since because I have been afraid of what might happen between us. It’s stupid I know but I am a pessimistic type person, I have been through so many bad things that I am afraid to let anything good try to happen to me! I have known for awhile that he is the one but I am just so very nervous. I need a little help that’s why I am here. 😕 ---
**Author:** ![Confident\_Single](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b19c9b/32.png) [@Confident\_Single](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Confident_Single)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2008, 8:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all-im-new-here-and-need-some-advice/15908/13 "2008-08-06T20:15:09Z")
> [@jennifergail30](#): > > Hey everyone. I’m new here and need some advice on what the best products are for starting out. I’m looking to get my ex-boyfriend back so what would be the best starter product? Thanks.🙂 Interesting! I’m kind of in a similar situation 😉 I’m plotting 😃 to use [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) to bring him real close and to help him open up + Instant Sexiness B to make myself look cuddlier and more approachable + mx274 (you might get it as a free sample or you can get it once you get more comfortable with pheromones), it gives WOW results! you can read my report on the 2 out of 3 of the above titled ‘NO WAAAY…’🙂 Keep us posted on your progress, and if you have any more qs! ---
**Author:** ![Confident\_Single](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b19c9b/32.png) [@Confident\_Single](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Confident_Single)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2008, 9:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all-im-new-here-and-need-some-advice/15908/14 "2008-08-07T09:29:19Z")
> [@jennifergail30](#): > > I broke up with him to go back to someone else, I was so stupid to do that. It’s 14 years later and I’m still in love with him. We seen each other once since then but nothing happened because we were both in relationships. He still asks a family member of mine about me frequently and the last time I saw him there were still very strong feeling between us. I’m not seen him since because I have been afraid of what might happen between us. It’s stupid I know but I am a pessimistic type person, I have been through so many bad things that I am afraid to let anything good try to happen to me! I have known for awhile that he is the one but I am just so very nervous. I need a little help that’s why I am here. 😕 It’s hard, I know, but that’s why pheros are great- most of the ones I’ve tried gave me a real sense of confidence and took whatever nervousness I’d had away. I’m sure they’ll work for you too, just hang in there! I’m a firm believer that relationships,unless they’d been violent, can be rekindled over time. You both have had 14 😮 years to see what’s out there and if you’re still having feelings for him, and you think he might be interested too, life is too short to keep trying to move on- use pheros to get him closer and to build an open relatonship again. Then move on to the sexual pheros maybe. Oh, and read the thread in Tisha’s signature about What pherompnes can and can’t do. Just so that you don’t expect mega fast results or something extraordinary straight away. And you need to get your perfect dosage of pheros worked out by testing around. Then your ex won’t know what’s hit him!😉