# Hi all :) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 19, 2013, 5:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all/59033 "2013-05-19T05:44:42Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Ylts](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/4bbf92/32.png) [@Ylts](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ylts)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2013, 5:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all/59033/1 "2013-05-19T05:44:42Z")
Hi all 🙂 Joined this site last year and i have been lurking ever since. Bought newbie kit back then and i have been using the mones on and off. Shine is already gone and IO is almost empty also. Im not very outgoing person, kinda moderate/unassertive type. I live in Europe and I’m 28 years old caucasian but i look 23-25 and quite tall (193cm). I have been told I’m attractive but dunno, more like average 😃 And females quite often puts me into friendzone without even any chance. I’m trying to get boost from mones for a crush whos 20y. So i was thinking to get [Summer Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) since i read that SA work for younger better then Normal ammo?? So even if it fails with my crush then any tips/mones are welcomed for summer to pick up girls 😃 😃 So I’m planning to buy bigger bottle of Shine, Openess and/or Summer Ammo for now if there isn’t any other suggestions. ---
**Author:** ![MoonlightBliss](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonlightbliss/32/1641_2.png) [@MoonlightBliss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MoonlightBliss)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2013, 6:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all/59033/2 "2013-05-19T06:30:10Z")
> [@Ylts](#): > > Im not very outgoing person, kinda moderate/unassertive type. If this is the case, I’d recommend you don’t go with A314. It didn’t sound like you were considering it, but I just thought I’d throw that out there. It takes a lot of ‘presence’ to wear it convincingly, and if your body language or attitude isn’t congruent its just not believable. Summer AMMO would be a good choice, as you said. Believe in yourself! The pheros are giving you a signature that is very attractive, and you’ve been told by others that you are attractive. Who are you to say that you’re average? Confidence is very sexy! In my opinion it is the most attractive trait of all, way beyond physical appearance or anything else. Give yourself permission to be yourself, and then be the best YOU you can be! Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![Ylts](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/4bbf92/32.png) [@Ylts](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ylts)\ **Post date:** [May 26, 2013, 11:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all/59033/3 "2013-05-26T11:51:35Z")
Hey Thank you for the suggestions. 🙂 But how much should i use And any suggestions for crush/1’st date mix or something similar? My collection: IO, IH, IS, [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) (normal 1x), IG, IJ, TutH, A314, (Newbie kit, all TO GO) i also i have Scent of Eros (unscented) and i ordered: Ammo Summer and P83, should be arrive next week or so. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2013, 9:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all/59033/4 "2013-05-27T21:14:49Z")
Welcome Yits, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) a chance. Your gc was issued! ---
**Author:** ![Wyatt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/b19c9b/32.png) [@Wyatt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wyatt)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2013, 7:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all/59033/5 "2013-05-28T07:46:48Z")
> [@Ylts](#): > > And any suggestions for crush/1’st date mix or something similar? > > My collection: > IO, IH, IS, Ammo (normal 1x), IG, IJ, TutH, A314, (Newbie kit, all TO GO) > i also i have Scent of Eros (unscented) > > and i ordered: Ammo Summer and P83, should be arrive next week or so. I’d go with a shot of [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) (for energy), IO (to get you chatting), IH (to open you and her up further), Ammo (to make you more attractive in her eyes) and IG (further status). I’d hold off on the TutH/SoE until you think she is ready to take things further, and don’t rock the A314 or IJ unless you are ready to rock them. Get comfortable with the new you first and grow from there.