# Hi all! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 5, 2008, 4:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all/8066 "2008-01-05T16:09:22Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![znelida](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/e9c0ed/32.png) [@znelida](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/znelida)\ **Post date:** [January 5, 2008, 4:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all/8066/1 "2008-01-05T16:09:22Z")
šŸ™‚ Hi Iā€™m a 28 yrs male, maried for the last 8 yrs and with 2 kidz. As you may already imagine our relationship has become really cold (sex once in a while) šŸ˜® . Even when both of us are looking forward to get this back on action. I came across with pherones in a movie and I search for it on internet and thats how I got here. Can anyone suggest me where to start? I have almost no knowledge at all šŸ˜• . Thanks in advance ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [January 5, 2008, 4:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all/8066/2 "2008-01-05T16:51:37Z")
Welcome znelida! You should try first turn up the heat. It is really great for people that u already know, like ur 8years wife, and it will of course improve ur sexual life! Maybe also some instant honesty if you really want a deep conversation with her and work out anything. Enjoy ur time here! ---
**Author:** ![LizzieM](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lizziem/32/218_2.png) [@LizzieM](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LizzieM)\ **Post date:** [January 5, 2008, 4:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all/8066/3 "2008-01-05T16:51:50Z")
Hey Znelida Iā€™m Liz, welcome to the forum. A lot of the experienced members here in this forum can help you out, and a lot of us has also used pheromones to spice up our life. In many ways. If you have no knowledge of pheromones, the best place to start would be the menā€™s stickies in the menā€™s subforum right here. If it is for yourself, I would suggest that you take a look at [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/). Ammo could also be quite useful for you, since you are young. If both of you are looking forward towards sex, but could not find the time, perhaps you can also get your wife some Instant Sexiness? Can you tell me where are you from? Glad to see you. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [January 5, 2008, 6:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all/8066/4 "2008-01-05T18:04:49Z")
Start with reading the stickies at the top of the menā€™s forum. Thereā€™s a ā€œbootcampā€ one, and one on LTRs that would be good to start with. Then read the rest. ---
**Author:** ![DrZorters](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47c2d/32.png) [@DrZorters](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DrZorters)\ **Post date:** [January 5, 2008, 11:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all/8066/5 "2008-01-05T23:59:45Z")
Welcome to the forum Z! I agree that reading the mens stickies is the best place to start to learn more about pheromones and their effects on the wearer and the target. You can also use the search function to find specific subjects that you are interested in. [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) is a good choice to use in a long term relationship. Try some Instant Shine to compliment your healthy youthful glow. Save the TUTH for when the time comes to be intimate. It will turn the action up a notch or two. As suggested, Ammo could be useful to get her to look at you like the sexy man she fell in love with in the first place. Try To Go size bottles to start with. You will be able to get about 40 sprays out of each bottle. This should be enough to decide which products suit your needs the best. Use one spray of one product at a time. Increase your dose by one spray of the same product each day until you find your optimal dose and become familiar with the effects of each product. With the experience you gain from this method you will be able to custom mix your own sex monster blends. Another possible idea that might help you is to schedule intimate time into your busy week. Just like you try to find time to watch your favorite TV show. You will not always be able to complete your plan, but having it in the schedule will help make it happen a lot more often than it has been. It will also keep you from having to convince her every single time because it is on the schedule. It will seem more like it is expected from her than it has been in the past. Instant Honesty will help to create some deeper heartfelt conversation, but I prefer a women that doesnā€™t like to talk during sex.lol. Try some scents that are considered aphrodisiacs to cover the scent of your pheromones. My favorite is Agarwood Oil. It is a natural aphrodisiac. DrZorters ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2008, 3:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-all/8066/6 "2008-01-07T03:04:06Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. Hmm a relationship that feels a bit stale after only 8 years. You know you are not at all unique. In fact if you read most of the introductions here you will get a sampling of very similar experiences. I believe that the good forum users before me have offered you some very sound advice. I will only add this: your gift certificate is on its way to your email inbox.