# Hi, decided to have a go at it... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 16, 2009, 2:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-decided-to-have-a-go-at-it/33342 "2009-10-16T02:04:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Chilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ebca7d/32.png) [@Chilla](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Chilla)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 2:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-decided-to-have-a-go-at-it/33342/1 "2009-10-16T02:04:30Z")
Hey everyone! I’ve been on the fence for this for a while and I’ve decided to give it a go! So I’m looking for suggestions please. I’m 19 years old and my problem is that I basically over-analyze everything I say and do, is there a [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) that could help me loosen up? I’m also looking at IS for a little more confidence. Also will the rain or cold mess the phermomones up? I live in the northeast US and its-a gettin cold. I’m pretty shy overall especially in college. I hope thats enough info to help. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 2:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-decided-to-have-a-go-at-it/33342/2 "2009-10-16T02:25:00Z")
HI there, Welcome to the forum. YOu are right. Shine can increase your confident and uplift your mood. It can counter your shyness too. Probable Spaceland can help you loosen up a bit. Good luck Rain can wash away the [pheromones](https://a314.com/) when you are exposed to rain. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 2:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-decided-to-have-a-go-at-it/33342/3 "2009-10-16T02:59:43Z")
Welcome. Pheromones may create short-term self effects, but they rapidly fade. They may change the way you relate to people though, and that could relax you. Tell us about your personality. I live in a place with a lot of rain, and cold. Pheromones do just fine. ---
**Author:** ![Chilla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ebca7d/32.png) [@Chilla](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Chilla)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 3:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-decided-to-have-a-go-at-it/33342/4 "2009-10-16T03:05:48Z")
> [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](#): > > Welcome. > > Pheromones may create short-term self effects, but they rapidly fade. They may change the way you relate to people though, and that could relax you. Tell us about your personality. > > I live in a place with a lot of rain, and cold. Pheromones do just fine. Well I’m usually very shy especially at school. But at home and usually in work I’m more confident, xometimes more arrogant lol. ---
**Author:** ![silentscope](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/silentscope/32/2218_2.png) [@silentscope](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silentscope)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 5:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-decided-to-have-a-go-at-it/33342/5 "2009-10-16T05:43:46Z")
Hi Welcome to the forum, Well I used to over-analyze things myself too. I still do sometimes. What I would suggest for that would be [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). It does keep me calm and the internal chatter in my head calm down. > [@Chilla](#): > > Hey everyone! > > I’ve been on the fence for this for a while and I’ve decided to give it a go! > > So I’m looking for suggestions please. > > I’m 19 years old and my problem is that I basically over-analyze everything I say and do, is there a pheromone that could help me loosen up? I’m also looking at IS for a little more confidence. Also will the rain or cold mess the phermomones up? I live in the northeast US and its-a gettin cold. I’m pretty shy overall especially in college. I hope thats enough info to help. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 4:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-decided-to-have-a-go-at-it/33342/6 "2009-10-16T16:53:44Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 11:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-decided-to-have-a-go-at-it/33342/7 "2009-10-16T23:45:05Z")
> [@Chilla](#): > > Well I’m usually very shy especially at school. But at home and usually in work I’m more confident, xometimes more arrogant lol. IH and io are both good for stimulating relaxed conversations, but the mood differs a bit. You may wish to try them out.