# Hi Everybody! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 31, 2010, 7:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everybody/42981 "2010-10-31T19:51:06Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Sully462](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d26b3c/32.png) [@Sully462](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sully462)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2010, 7:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everybody/42981/1 "2010-10-31T19:51:06Z")
I’m a 27 year old dude from Boston and I’m hoping to use some [pheromones](https://a314.com/) to spice up my marriage. [Crap, that was a one-liner… gotta write some more to qualify for a gift card] Anyway, I’m usually a bit shy in my non-online life and it takes me to get warmed up to people. I can say some funny things, but sometimes they really aren’t funny until you get to know me better. Does that make sense? No… I didn’t think so either. So, yeah, I’ve pretty much been the funny guy, but never really had an edge in the game department. But I’m married now, so I’m looking to work up some marriage after things have gotten a bit dull for the wife. Yeah, I know, pheromones won’t be the answer and I’m working on tons of other emotional components, but after being with someone for so long there’s a lot of things that get in the way of getting down to the business (mainly stress), so I’m looking for something that can give me a bit of an edge to help get the magic going again. So, hello again and I look forward to experimenting with all of you… uh, I mean, with pheromones… not with you all… that might be weird… Sully ---
**Author:** ![JAYCEE1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b4bc9f/32.png) [@JAYCEE1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JAYCEE1)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2010, 8:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everybody/42981/2 "2010-10-31T20:38:07Z")
Welcome! TUTH could be just the thing for you to use in the bedroom with your wife. It should help liven things up in there! For outside the bedroom, you might look at A314 or IG. A314 increases the respect you receive from others. IG is said by many here to be A314 lite. I always recommend Ammo + [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) to new users just because it is a great combo that is inexpensive and put the skepticism to rest. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![stevios](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecd19e/32.png) [@stevios](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/stevios)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2010, 9:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everybody/42981/3 "2010-10-31T21:25:57Z")
Hey and welcome. You might want to have a look at IH. Not only has this been the best attractant for me but it’s also what I’d use if I was looking to give a bit of a boost to sorting out some emotional issues with a significant other. Warming up to people. Again, I find IO and IS to be good for getting me out and talking to people. IG can also help me. I find it very different to A314. A314 makes me feel like a leader, IG makes me feel charismatic. It can be intimidating for some people but IO and IS seems to soften it up for me. Good luck and let us know how you get on ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [October 31, 2010, 11:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everybody/42981/4 "2010-10-31T23:32:19Z")
> [@Sully462](#): > > I’m a 27 year old dude from Boston and I’m hoping to use some pheromones to spice up my marriage. [Crap, that was a one-liner… gotta write some more to qualify for a gift card] > > Anyway, I’m usually a bit shy in my non-online life and it takes me to get warmed up to people. I can say some funny things, but sometimes they really aren’t funny until you get to know me better. Does that make sense? No… I didn’t think so either. So, yeah, I’ve pretty much been the funny guy, but never really had an edge in the game department. But I’m married now, so I’m looking to work up some marriage after things have gotten a bit dull for the wife. Yeah, I know, pheromones won’t be the answer and I’m working on tons of other emotional components, but after being with someone for so long there’s a lot of things that get in the way of getting down to the business (mainly stress), so I’m looking for something that can give me a bit of an edge to help get the magic going again. > > So, hello again and I look forward to experimenting with all of you… uh, I mean, with pheromones… not with you all… that might be weird… > > Sully I suggest AMMO and Tuth for your situation. Those would make your wife more excited about sex and could spark things in bedroom. Use with ih to get closer to your wife. ih would increase feelings of intimacy and connectedness. your wife will like it a lot. I also suggest you get some A314 and IShine. A314 would make you the leader of household. it would make you seem reliable and very manly. it should make your wife feel proud. IShine would put smile on your wife’s face; she would feel better and would get turned on more. Additionally, if u can afford it, i recommend you get [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A for your wife. it would make her feel sexy and confident, which in turn would make her think more about having sex. ---
**Author:** ![Kilekoopie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/bc79bd/32.png) [@Kilekoopie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kilekoopie)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2010, 5:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everybody/42981/5 "2010-11-01T05:29:45Z")
Tuth is a good one and it’s hard to go wrong when your already married, but try IO I would say. Mainly because it would cause both of you to open up and spark into a convo easier if that’s the problem. IH helps with trust and how deep, which is why I didn’t say it right away, but weigh your options get some info on them and choose. They always ship fast and give you a nice gift and maybe some delicious chocolate. I wish you well you came to the right place, this is a community where if you need help post it up and we shall be more then likely glad to help. Welcome again if you decide to start using, be patient, start low. Relax. 🙂 p.s. I love alpha, can’t go a post without talking about it, it has done amazing things for me. Name says it all, alpha. ---
**Author:** ![Sully462](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d26b3c/32.png) [@Sully462](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sully462)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2010, 12:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everybody/42981/6 "2010-11-01T12:21:36Z")
> [@CoolKatDC](#): > > Additionally, if u can afford it, i recommend you get Instant sexiness A for your wife. it would make her feel sexy and confident, which in turn would make her think more about having sex. I think I’m definitely going to try TUTH and IH or IO (maybe A314, but it might be a little out of my price range to start off). Question, though, I think I don’t want to tell me wife that I’m buying phermone cologne just yet, so if I bought some [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) do I spray it on myself or on her when she’s not looking 🙄? Does anyone have any ninja spray moves? Sully ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2010, 1:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everybody/42981/7 "2010-11-01T13:56:01Z")
Nah [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) isn’t even available right now from what I can see. If you did buy it and wanted to get her to use it you could purchase it and peel off the label then tell her it’s a scent sample you got from a salesmen. It has to be on her for her to feel the self effect if any. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2010, 8:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everybody/42981/8 "2010-11-01T20:02:50Z")
> [@Sully462](#): > > I think I’m definitely going to try TUTH and IH or IO (maybe A314, but it might be a little out of my price range to start off). Question, though, I think I don’t want to tell me wife that I’m buying phermone cologne just yet, so if I bought some Instant Sexiness do I spray it on myself or on her when she’s not looking 🙄? Does anyone have any ninja spray moves? > > Sully Hiya Sully! I hadn’t told my wife at first and just said they were new colognes I was trying out. For the Instant Sexiness, from what I gather, it would be best for HER to have it on… The NINJA spray moves are a fantasy brought about by the proliferation of those damn AXE commercials!!! 😃 I asked my wife to try out the IS (Instant Shine) but didn’t like the [Neroli](https://a314.com/product-category/scented/androtics-neroli/), said it reminded her of me! She loves me, but doesn’t want to have my scent!!! You could always ask her to check it out and let you know what she thinks of it? When I tried to explain just last week on the mones to my wife, I got, Oh, ok, that’s nice, honey…She didn’t much care about it. Though she is noticing some of the hits I’m putting down in my journal. Also, the Cookie or Chocolatini scents can be customized on the order and added to the IS/A or IS/B. I’m considering ordering as a ‘gift’ for her. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2010, 10:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everybody/42981/9 "2010-11-02T22:19:02Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Sully, The guys gave you some great advice already. Many men and from what I have read married men have walked in here and have received success not only from using our pheromones but from the advice and the information on here to assist in progressing in life. Here is an interesting thread I would love for you to read : > [@Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/married-guys-looking-to-help-life-at-home/13695): > > Myself: Mid-40’s, athletic, married for 20+ years. This post is actually a combination of posts I have made in the Introductions section. It is designed for married guys looking to use the [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) here to help things at home. I use pheromones for several purposes - work, social and to enhance life at home. I use multiple approaches especially for home: First - at this point in our lives we know sexual attraction is not the final answer. So my first recommendation is actually what … Your gc was issued. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2010, 10:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everybody/42981/10 "2010-11-02T22:43:14Z")
> [@RedNasty](#): > > Ok, so I have used each spray I have received and i am 100% disappointed!!! How do I got about returning this product and receiving the $89 i spent on it??? > Thanks Go to the smartmones site. Login. On your right you will see a link that says returns and exchanges. Click on that. Follow the instructions from there. Or you can also call the office at the phone number at the top of the screen and talk to Customer Service if you like. Or you can go to \>\>\>\> ticket \<\<\<\< and fill out a ticket and they will tell you what to do. So you have a lot of options and its not hard to do. Tisha