# Hi Everyone! 28 year old female from Sydney, Australia **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 23, 2007, 10:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865 "2007-11-23T22:08:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 18\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bellame](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ecccb3/32.png) [@bellame](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bellame)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2007, 10:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/1 "2007-11-23T22:08:24Z")
Hi Forum! I am a 28 year old female from Sydney, Australia. I am an outgoing & confident girl however I tend to find that on dates guys never really want to get to know me & ask me questions - they make me do all the work, which is very 1 sided on my part but it also doesnt allow me to really get to know them. I want to meet a guy that I can have a good relationship with that is open, honest & communicative 🙂 I really hope that I can find some of the answers here! Bella 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2007, 10:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/2 "2007-11-23T22:21:56Z")
Welcome Bellame, We have a number of Aussies contributing to the forum, and are always ready to welcome another from the Land Down Under. That was a great introduction posting and I’m sure that lots of us will be chiming in to help. Tisha and Kitten will probably be around soon to welcome you, as they are always happy to see new ladies coming on board, and SteveO will drop by to say hi and send out a $15.00 Gift Certificate for you. Hows that for a warm Androtics welcome? 🙂 Sounds to me like you want to consider some of the products in the Instant line, such as: Instant Honesty - Allows for deeper and more open communication. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) - Makes for a great ice breaker, to get conversations started. Maybe even a bit of Instant Sexiness - To get them thinking that they’ve got to do something to land you, or lose you forever 🙂 You have found a great source for phero information, and an incredible group of people here in the forum. We look forward to seeing you around for a long time to come. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2007, 11:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/3 "2007-11-23T23:28:47Z")
Hi Bella Welcome to the forum 🙂 Mark gave you some good advice. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is a great ice breaker and Instant Honesty leads to more intimate convos. Both really good mixes. Instant sexiness is a forum favorite with the women. There are 2 kinds A and B. B only comes in a large bottle and you have to request it in the note section of your order. IS/A gives of a strong confident sexy vibe. B is softer, more kittenish but still confident and sexy. I suggest you start with A since it seems to match your personality. Instant shine is also very good. Its a mood enhancer and people communicate more when they feel good. It also attracts people since when exposed to it they feel happy and at ease. We look forward to your participation Tisha ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2007, 11:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/4 "2007-11-23T23:34:19Z")
Once again, thanks Tisha. BTW, boeeee was asking about you earlier, she was on around 10:30 CMT but there weren’t any ladies on, and she was missing you girls 😉 ---
**Author:** ![DrZorters](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47c2d/32.png) [@DrZorters](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DrZorters)\ **Post date:** [November 24, 2007, 1:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/5 "2007-11-24T01:01:34Z")
Welcome to the forum belly! Actually it does tell you a lot about a man if he does not ask you questions when on a date. More often than not It means he is not interested in your soul he is interested in your sex. It is usually a sign that he could care less about you as a person. He probably just wants to figure out how to get you to have sex with him. To give these men the benefit of the doubt, It could be a case where the man is shy or inexperienced or just a poor conversationalist. A good thing for you to know and remember is to not make the date seam like a job interview. Try to keep it fun and on the light side and you will help to open up your date to learn more about each other. Openness and Honesty are good suggestions. You sound like you are already plenty Sexy.lol. DrZorters ---
**Author:** ![Smudge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/47e85d/32.png) [@Smudge](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Smudge)\ **Post date:** [November 24, 2007, 2:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/6 "2007-11-24T02:57:22Z")
Last couple of weeks I have been flat hunting, and all the places I have visited are occupied mostly by local and interstate Aussie girls. I must say that I have been very surprised by some of the questions asked, to the extent that at times I felt I was being interrogated, albeit by friendly girls. (And I doubt I OD’d on [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/).) In the end, I simply decided to speak as little as possible. Mind you, I am quiet to start with, so things were very one-sided just as Bella described. And no, sex was not on my mind at all. I know flat hunting and dating are not in the same ball park, but I can imagine some blokes will react in a similar way I did. Having said that, I can also see some pervs just want to get into your pants. It is easy to filter out those guys fairly quickly though. My 2 cents, the decent guys will want to know who you are as a person **eventually** , not but not all of it on the first date. Like others have said, friendly pheromones such as Openness, Honesty and Shine should work fine. CTTM may also work for some. Welcome to the forum, Bella. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [November 24, 2007, 3:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/7 "2007-11-24T15:13:52Z")
I agree with Dmags01, When I first meet a girl, and on any first dates, I avoid the usual “so what do you do”, “tell me about your family”, chit-chat. And instead try to have fun and talk about anything else. A first meet or date shouldn’t be uncomfortable or feel like a job interview. It should be light and fun. Think about it, you are just meeting somebody that you may be interested in getting to know. Isn’t it better to keep it light, airy and try to have fun, then if you enjoy each others company, have a good vibe going, and know that they are somebody that you actually do want to get to know better, wait a bit to talk about the more mundane, but all important, what makes them who and what they are. Good example: I met a girl last night in a nightclub. She initiated the conversation and was showing definite IOI’s, then dragged me out on the dance floor…against my will I might add, as I’m not much of a dancer. Then she started with the so what do you do, and have you ever been married, do you have any kids questions, and I completely lost interest. Not because I couldn’t live up to her expectations, but because it stopped being fun. ---
**Author:** ![boeeee](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/boeeee/32/682_2.png) [@boeeee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/boeeee)\ **Post date:** [November 24, 2007, 4:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/8 "2007-11-24T16:58:50Z")
hey all, well lets see i agree with both Dmags01 and mark, i mean really if you wanted to be interviewed why not get a new job instead, its not like we are looking to be employed as either BF or GF so why do the interview. apart from that if you keep it fun and real the person gets to see who you really are instead of a mask which you will be caught out on later anyway. i take me for ex. im one of those ppl that i go out i laugh my head off sometimes do silly things but i always have serious fun and so do the ppl around me. ive even been labeled the crazy girl in town as i definitley do not conform to society and love living to the max. meaning of fun. it would all just be so boring and ritualistic if all we did on dates were interviews and welcome Bellame, enjoy the forum!!! ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [November 24, 2007, 5:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/9 "2007-11-24T17:39:12Z")
Hey boeeee, Good to see you becoming a regular around here 😃 This forum kind of gets to you doesn’t it? 😉 Sounds like we’re gonna have to get you to Texas, and go clubbing together 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [November 25, 2007, 11:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/10 "2007-11-25T23:45:25Z")
Stop it Mark: boeeee is not going to Texas! How could she go to Texas when I’m already with her in Greece? bellame, everybody here is telling you some good stuff. I hate the interview date and try to just let my charasmatic personality shine through. After all where do you think they get the [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) from. They scrape it off my brain. I’m sending you my brain cryo-frozen with the gift certificate but be careful when you open it. I can break out into party mode and usually vreate a mess. Oh and I like rum. ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2007, 12:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/11 "2007-11-26T00:37:42Z")
Alright damnit, I’ll stop, but at least somebody’s got to send me some baklava then 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![boeeee](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/boeeee/32/682_2.png) [@boeeee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/boeeee)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2007, 8:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/12 "2007-11-26T08:41:58Z")
i would send the baklava if i had an adress, overnight shipping should do it believe, maybe i’ll send some to steveo too just 'cause he’s so cute. well now you never now when someone can get time off work to go to the States hey i’ll let you all know if miracles still happen though. have a good day all!! ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2007, 1:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/13 "2007-11-26T13:37:38Z")
Hey boeeee, Thanks for the baklava offer. I would have asked for an Gyro, Souvlaki or a moussaka plate, but figured they’d be too messy 🙂 We actually do have a couple of very authentic Greek restaurants here that I eat at fairly regularly, and I’m able to get my baklava fixes whenever I have a craving. Funny, cause I’m not much into desserts, but can never resist baklava. I don’t think it would do any good sending SteveO a package though, as I think he’s planning on climbing in the box and getting shipped to Greece with your order 😃 😃 ---
**Author:** ![boeeee](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/boeeee/32/682_2.png) [@boeeee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/boeeee)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2007, 3:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/14 "2007-11-26T15:07:59Z")
well it was worth the try, but as you get your baklava fixes already what can i say:-) my order will be here soon - as i of course did the dhl shipping (couldnt wait too long) and know you tell me that i might get a early xmas present which might need a cold hose 😉 great i always new santa liked me will he fit in the box though ---
**Author:** ![boeeee](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/boeeee/32/682_2.png) [@boeeee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/boeeee)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2007, 3:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/15 "2007-11-26T15:17:25Z")
well i was worth the try, but as you are getting your baklava fixes already what can i say 😛 my order should arrive soon as i had to do it via DHL of course(as i wouldnt want to wait to long 😉 ) and now you tell me that im getting a early xmas gift that might need a cold hose 😃 ,man i always knew santa liked me loads 😉 ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2007, 3:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/16 "2007-11-26T15:38:37Z")
At least he won’t be in the shipping box for too long. Better stock up on rum too 🙂 Just make sure you feed him, walk him every now and then, and give him a treat every once in a while and I’m sure he’ll keep you happy. ---
**Author:** ![boeeee](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/boeeee/32/682_2.png) [@boeeee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/boeeee)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2007, 3:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/17 "2007-11-26T15:44:22Z")
i’ll keep that in mind, i mean really we cant have a sad puppy now can we but then again sad puppies are so cute they just make you wanna luv them more BTW check out the thread Im the new guy by Max\_Stam i think he needs your help ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2007, 3:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-28-year-old-female-from-sydney-australia/6865/18 "2007-11-26T15:48:11Z")
Thanks boeee, I just answered his second posting before coming back here. Wanna see what Tisha has to say too though, she’s been around a lot longer and is pretty phero sharp.