Hi Briton and welcome to the forum.
There are many regulars here from backgrounds just like you, many were sceptical at first or had bad experiences using other companies - now they are amongst the top product testers and reporters on this site.
Now, to get you started, I suggest you have a good read of The Mens Guide
Based on your description, I would say you are a top candidate for Ammo. This is one of the most popular Smartmone-Androtics products. Excellent for attracting women. However, I’d also like you to read about the social products such as Instant Honesty, Instant Opennes, Instant Shine, Instant Gentleman – these can be excellent for communication, breaking the ice, helping you to be smoother and more relaxed etc. Let us know if you have any additional questions and be sure to return and let us know about your results! 