# Hi Everyone! Looking to attract a guy I work with. 43/F/IL **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 23, 2015, 5:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-looking-to-attract-a-guy-i-work-with-43-f-il/63890 "2015-02-23T05:54:45Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bluerave](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/cdc98d/32.png) [@bluerave](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bluerave)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2015, 5:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-looking-to-attract-a-guy-i-work-with-43-f-il/63890/1 "2015-02-23T05:54:45Z")
I am interested in a guy I work with but I am kinda shy when I am around him. I am looking for something to make me feel more outgoing and confident around him and something that will draw him to me 🙂 Any advice or suggestions on what would be a good product to buy? ---
**Author:** ![Marihino](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/marihino/32/1286_2.png) [@Marihino](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Marihino)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2015, 9:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-looking-to-attract-a-guy-i-work-with-43-f-il/63890/2 "2015-02-23T09:23:39Z")
hey Bluerave, seems like you’re looking for something with significant self-effects. Pheromones don’t work like that for everyone. I, for one, only ever get self effects when using Instant Shine, and even then it lasts just a few minutes. They would however, do a great job making you seem more confident and outgoing in his eyes. You know what I mean? They evoke a certain message to the outside world about the person wearing them, rather than changing the way you feel about yourself. Having said that, there is definitely something that I would call a secondary self-effect, although it comes with some time spent using pheromones and learning their works. It’s when you know what effect they’re having, and you know what vibe you send out, it makes you feel confident and comfortable, because you’re not insecure about how you’re received by people. Anyway, you wanted some products recommended. I suggest starting with the consumer line, those products are tried and tested, giving predictable results that are easy to notice. Instant Sexiness, Instant Shine, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), Instant Honesty - any or all, or any combination. Check the Women’s subforum as well, you’ll get a lot of good advice there if you ask. Also, read the “sticky” threads there, here and in the Men’s section. All the basics are explained there, about the dosages, application points, what effects to expect, how to recognize them etc etc. Better to know some of that to avoid rookie mistakes. Good to have you here, welcome to the Pheromone Talk, have fun 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [February 24, 2015, 2:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-looking-to-attract-a-guy-i-work-with-43-f-il/63890/3 "2015-02-24T02:30:40Z")
Hi bluerave! Wow! That’s a huge project! 🙂 And so it just made me push the button. Your GC is now in your email and ready for use. 🙂 Now, I can initially recommend you the [Instant Female Wardrobe](https://phera.com/), because you are a beginner and it (the pack) contains Isexiness. And IShine, which has the ability to make you project a happy-confident vibe. And if the workplace is fine for some chitchats, IOpeness may come in handy too. But then, [CTTM2](https://a314.com/product/come-talk-to-me-cttm/) and Puppy Love are on the sideline, begging you to try 'em too 🙂 And all of these are generalized recommendation because we hardly know you. And so, it’ll be fitting if you can tell us about yourself more, and about that lucky guy who got your eye… and heart. 🙂 Tell us about your personality and his. His age. And maybe the current score between the two of you. Hopefully the ladies got a whiff of this (and the guys too) and help your project see the light. 🙂 Welcome to PheromoneTalk! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [March 25, 2015, 5:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-looking-to-attract-a-guy-i-work-with-43-f-il/63890/4 "2015-03-25T05:50:15Z")
What’s up in Illinois now bluerave? I see you’ve already placed an order and used your GC. Hope you received it fine and now already kicking ass on helping you up with getting that guy’s attention. 🙂. Don’t forget to share your test results my friend. You can create your own journal [here](https://pheromonetalk.com/c/women-s-journals/23) to keep notes of your dosages and usages, plus its different effects, including those you consider a “failure”. Journal helps a lot. Its your own phero time machine. For further questions, you can also create your own help-seeking thread [here](https://pheromonetalk.com/c/women-s-pheromone-advice-tips-and-tricks/46). Expert [pheromone](https://a314.com/) users usually browse this area. 🙂 Also, please drop a feedback here or via PM about how the shipping goes for you. Thanks! Chat soon!