# Hi everyone new Phero-user here **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 12, 2013, 7:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-phero-user-here/58411 "2013-03-12T07:58:21Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Logical](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/9de053/32.png) [@Logical](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Logical)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 7:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-phero-user-here/58411/1 "2013-03-12T07:58:21Z")
Hello everyone, im so glad i found this forum because ive been searching to experiment with [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) for quite some time now. Very curious to see how things go using/mixing these pheromones at work and at school after hearing exciting results from other members. The shipping is so quick its scary and i love the personal touch that comes with every order that i place. From working in customer service for 3 years and starting at 18, you learn clever ways to reach out to your customers and craft every moment around that individual. But lets get to how i got here 🙂 I never was the most popular guy in my younger days. Fitting in was a bit frustrating moving through NJ like a gypsy and having to start over with friends at each school i went to. I wanted that X factor that would give me the edge which i hoped was the key to making others love me. My first cologne was bought on my first cruise (at insanely inflated prices im sure) from my mom who said it smelled really good and she was a girl so this stuff must work haha. Well using it didn’t attract any girls at all! My major flaw was shyness so if i didnt get near a girl how would they smell me? I assumed i could put it on and it would woo them into a state that they could never resist me. Its funny how the 14 year old boys mind thinks about women. Fast forward a few years and at 17 i was really coming out of my shell and gaining confidence in myself. I was buying cologne at an alarming rate to really give me that extra boost i needed in social situations. The compliments that i got were great from women AND men. The girls loved to smell me and the guys always had to know what i was wearing from all this attention. Despite attracting people with my awesome personality and my colognes i never had what i wanted more than anything. A Girlfriend. Every time i tried to ask a girl out id be laughed in my face or she would want to be friends. It killed me to see all the people around me in schools so happy to be with each other while i had nothing. In our culture being a virgin at 17 is weird let alone kissing. I was such a late bloomer kissing a girl at 17 and having sex at 20. I realize its not a race but i didnt care about the milestones my pride had created i just wanted a damn girlfriend!!! After looking at cologne on the internet like i usually i did i stumbled about “pheromones”. I knew what they were and did so i always just thought your body released them when they reacted with different colognes that you wear. Reading reviews about arouseRX i thought it was too good to be true. So of course i bought it but it had to be applied a few times a day as opposed to my cologne being applied once with a spray. I stopped mostly because i would be so embarrassed if someone found out i had it. My pheromone quest came to a halt but not for long… My desperation is truly what lead me to this forum. At 21 years old working 2 jobs and going to school at night is taxing and even more so when you come home after a hard day and is seems like no one cares. All of my friends have either girlfriends that love them or hook up with girls that like them. What do they have that i dont? Im told by my girl-friends i have all the qualities physical attributes that are attractive yet im still single. I really want to bridge the gap in my love life with pheromones. I am confident that with these pheromones and this site can help me get a girlfriend so i can share my life with someone that cares about me. ---
**Author:** ![MoonlightBliss](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonlightbliss/32/1641_2.png) [@MoonlightBliss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MoonlightBliss)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 8:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-phero-user-here/58411/2 "2013-03-12T08:45:43Z")
Welcome, we’re glad you’re here! To qualify for the gift certificate, there are a few steps to follow. Tell us more about you: gender, age, what’s your personality like, what do you hope to gain from [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) use? [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) ---
**Author:** ![Logical](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/9de053/32.png) [@Logical](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Logical)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 7:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-phero-user-here/58411/3 "2013-03-12T19:55:30Z")
Made a revision hope it is a good read! ---
**Author:** ![MoonlightBliss](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonlightbliss/32/1641_2.png) [@MoonlightBliss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MoonlightBliss)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 8:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-phero-user-here/58411/4 "2013-03-12T20:08:06Z")
Well, the new intro is certainly different than the first one! You threw me off by revising it, I came back and thought, ‘what did I miss? Why did I tell this guy he needed to tell us more?’ Ha ha! To be frank, it sounds like what they have that you don’t is confidence. I also moved around a lot when I was a kid. I went to 7 different schools, and had a struggle to make friends and to fit in. I never felt like I accomplished that when I was younger. In the past few years I have finally come to terms with me, and I’ve decided that I like me. I don’t care if anyone else does, anymore. And the amazing thing is: once I found that turning point in my life, where I could be happy with me and not worry if I measured up, if others found me attractive, etc…friends and interested members of the opposite sex started pouring out of the woodwork. There are pheromones that can help you out, and can open some doors for you, but walking through them and whatever comes next is up to you. There is no magic potion for shyness, or social anxiety. With that said, here are some suggestions: [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) can help get things started. It’s a conversation-type pheromone mix that encourages others to talk, makes them feel more at ease, and draws out bubbly, chatty conversation. It can help break the ice. Instant Shine gives you an aura of youthful vigor, fun and good times, makes everyone feel great, and can make you seem like the life of the party. It’s bright, lively and fun. AMMO is a great masculine pheromone mix that exudes a virile presence. It lets the ladies know you’re interested without being overtly sexual in nature. Many have said that when they wear it they feel more confident, and it garners a lot of attention. ---
**Author:** ![Logical](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/9de053/32.png) [@Logical](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Logical)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 8:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-phero-user-here/58411/5 "2013-03-12T20:54:46Z")
The crazy thing is i seem like i dont have confidence but in all honesty i do. Its not difficult for me to approach women, but ive been striking out a lot more than i want and i got very bitter about that in the past year. My beginning pheromones i am trying are AMMO, P102, and the highly regarded A314. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2013, 2:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-phero-user-here/58411/6 "2013-03-30T14:26:18Z")
Welcome Logical, I know our pheromones will do much for you. We have a great support team made up of clients. Yes clients, advanced users who devote their time for the love of pheromones to new users. Enjoy your new journey. Your gc was issued!