# Hi everyone. New User from So Cal. **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 16, 2010, 9:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-user-from-so-cal/37058 "2010-03-16T09:55:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Sugardaddy86](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c68b51/32.png) [@Sugardaddy86](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sugardaddy86)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 9:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-user-from-so-cal/37058/1 "2010-03-16T09:55:30Z")
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**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 10:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-user-from-so-cal/37058/2 "2010-03-16T10:02:42Z")
Hi Junior, welcome to the forum! So, you want to be perceived more like a “bad guy” by the girls? And you want to give off more of an alpha vibe? Would you mind sharing a bit more info, about your personality and how you relate to others? Are you shy or outgoing? Do you have trouble initiating conversations, or trouble maintaining them? This info will help us to recommend the best products for you, and also help you get qualified for the $25 gift certificate. ---
**Author:** ![Sugardaddy86](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c68b51/32.png) [@Sugardaddy86](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sugardaddy86)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 10:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-user-from-so-cal/37058/3 "2010-03-16T10:23:01Z")
Yeah When im around my usual friends im a pretty outgoing guy lately i might be a little shy at first but not for long usually i could hold a pretty good conversation occasionaly i might stumble a little when starting a conversation to a girl one on one as im more comfortable in a group setting but i usually dont let nerves stop me from trying. i think i kind of have a fear of coming on to strong to a girl so i might come off a little too nice at first which is what im trying to stop. lately i’ve been going to a club in my town that plays alot of electro music which for some reason i can dance to very well and can usually take to spotlight on the dance floor and i get alot of stares and smiles which helps me out alot when aproaching girls there but i get a little nervouse in less crowded situatons like say at a store or walkng down the street. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 11:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-user-from-so-cal/37058/4 "2010-03-16T11:01:04Z")
Thanks for the info! I have a couple of suggestions that might help with your situation. If you want the girls to see you as more of a “bad boy”, then you definitely need to use Instant Jerk. And no, Instant Jerk does not make you an instant jerk, lol. Instant Jerk will make you feel kind of cocky, and others will perceive that as well. Girls who are attracted to that “bad boy vibe” will also be attracted to you. You will feel a little more insensitive and others will think that as well. Just watch out for real jerks, the bully kind, because they will pick up on it too. To help with that nervousness that sometimes accompanies meeting new people, try [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). People will become naturally chattier, and initiating conversation won’t be quite so awkward. If you’ve started a conversation, but then don’t know how to maintain it, Instant Honesty can help. Instant Honesty will add depth and intimacy to conversations, others will trust you more and be more likely to open up to you. I hope this helps, and just ask if you have any questions! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 12:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-user-from-so-cal/37058/5 "2010-03-16T12:50:49Z")
> [@Sugardaddy86](#): > > Yeah When im around my usual friends im a pretty outgoing guy lately i might be a little shy at first but not for long usually i could hold a pretty good conversation occasionaly i might stumble a little when starting a conversation to a girl one on one as im more comfortable in a group setting but i usually dont let nerves stop me from trying. i think i kind of have a fear of coming on to strong to a girl so i might come off a little too nice at first which is what im trying to stop. lately i’ve been going to a club in my town that plays alot of electro music which for some reason i can dance to very well and can usually take to spotlight on the dance floor and i get alot of stares and smiles which helps me out alot when aproaching girls there but i get a little nervouse in less crowded situatons like say at a store or walkng down the street. Hello Sugar Daddy, Welcome to the forum, I stumble '_across **this quote’** _ it’s from one of our members, I thought you might like it. Quote: **"** [Instant Jerk](https://a314.com/product/instant-jerk/) is probably the best “_ **prove it to me** _” pheromone product there is. The effects of Instant Jerk are truly _hit-you-over-the-head obvious_. You’d have to dead not to notice how it makes you and others feel! When you use Instant Jerk, it’ll show you in black and white that pheromones work, and just how powerful they can be. In fact, _we guarantee_ you’ll piss people off, get angrier than usual, and even earn some new enemies\*\*."\*\* ---
**Author:** ![Sugardaddy86](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c68b51/32.png) [@Sugardaddy86](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sugardaddy86)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 4:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-user-from-so-cal/37058/6 "2010-03-17T04:15:53Z")
Thanks alot for the advice guys!!! I can’t wait to try ur pheremones… I ended up buying the body wash and i noticed the effects right away. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 6:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-user-from-so-cal/37058/7 "2010-03-17T06:33:44Z")
> [@Sugardaddy86](#): > > Thanks alot for the advice guys!!! I can’t wait to try ur pheremones… I ended up buying the body wash and i noticed the effects right away. Plan on having a lot of fun, because you will! 🙂 I’m surprised about the body wash though, I would have thought that the pheros would get rinsed off when you rinse off the soap. Or are you not supposed to rinse, lol? ---
**Author:** ![Sugardaddy86](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c68b51/32.png) [@Sugardaddy86](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sugardaddy86)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 7:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-user-from-so-cal/37058/8 "2010-03-17T07:41:05Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > Plan on having a lot of fun, because you will! 🙂 > > I’m surprised about the body wash though, I would have thought that the pheros would get rinsed off when you rinse off the soap. Or are you not supposed to rinse, lol? i was thinking the same thing maybe a placebo effect ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 7:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-user-from-so-cal/37058/9 "2010-03-17T07:51:21Z")
> [@Sugardaddy86](#): > > i was thinking the same thing maybe a placebo effect but the diffrences where there like normally when i walk by a girl on the street i usually get a quick glance and a little smirk almost a smile but today i noticed the quick glances where more like stares with a big smile. about the rinsing off the phermones i used alot of the body wash on my upper body and actually used some as shampoo figuring it might be more effective that way since it has to rinse down your whole body and for the most part i air dried. Hehe, good idea! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 7:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone-new-user-from-so-cal/37058/10 "2010-03-17T19:48:43Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Sugar! Silly gave some excellent suggestions. I am not sure why you would want to be perceived as the bad boy but I think I could see your point of view from reading your intro over. Be careful though because you can attract the wrong crowd with the two extremes, you don’t want to attract the girls that like bad boys and you don’t want the ladies to think you are a pushover. With the help of these [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) and the forum I think you should work on finding a healthy balance between the two. Your GC is on it’s way!