# Hi Everyone **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 6, 2009, 9:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/27799 "2009-04-06T21:08:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 9
**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2009, 9:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/27799/9 "2009-04-06T21:58:16Z")
> [@kire1820](#): > > What I want to achieve is to build up my self-confidence and increase my social value. I also want to be able to talk and banter with girls (Not that I want to cheat, but I want to keep up my senses. I don’t like the feel of being domesticated if you know what I mean). When I go out, I want to be comfortable and enjoying myself. I have been stuck in an enclosed environment for a long time that I feel like I have a hard time connecting with people. I have been trying hard to break out and be more social by going out with friends, but I have a hard time opening as most of my interactions were short. People don’t really hear me and loses interest quickly. I know I am a very nice person and have value to share. So I want a product that can make this process easier for me and allow me to get back in my zone. My recommendations depend on the situations you want to use pheromones: A314 and Shine are the best products for self confidence and increased value (but A314 can be overpowering for some more shy girls, while it gives you higher status, they can be a bit intimidated so its best used at the workplace or in social situations where you want to be noticed but not necesarily flirt…) If you want to socialize with the girls and flirt i recommend AMMO, Shine and Openness If you already know people and want to deepen the connection with them (also useful for your gf) [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and Shine are the products you need… (if its a flirty situation: add AMMO) please also read this post to see the differences of the products: > [@Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168): > > Revised for 2010/11 Common question thread [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43012](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43012) Ok I had to put the guide in this section of the forum because the men’s have way to many stickies now and I didn’t want to add another there. So anyways I got quite a few requests to do a men’s guide and I am flattered but want you to all know upfront that without all the wonderful postings on pheromones by the experienced men I would never been abl… --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/27799)._